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Originally posted by CamChicks
Kids aborb. Those that grow up in catholic homes are more likely to be catholic. Those that grow up in republican homes are more likely to be republicans. Those that grow up in smoking homes are more likely to smoke. Those who grow up molested are more likely to be pedos. Those who grow up in violent homes are more likely to be violent. etc etc etc
Those who were spanked are more likey to spank.. and be greatful for it.. because mommy and daddy can't be bad.. because mommy and daddy love me.. I must have deserved it..
..because humans have a pathetic tendency to accept whatever they grew up with as 'right', without applying any rational thought to it.
Just look at how many people think it's totally fine to mutilate baby genitals... just because that's what was done to them...
sick species we are.
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and to further your point kids who grow up in homes that are punished correctly, not hit every time, learn they must pay for the bad things they do.. and will raise a disciplined home, when they get older.
Take a look at the Prisons..
You are confusing Beatings, and abuse, and homes where there is DV and Alcohol.
I am saying a stable environment, done correctly, not just the Bad cases you are talking about.
Trust me, if it was not for my Fathers Stern Guiding Had,
I would of spent some time in Jail......
Oh, I have 2 sisters, both parents smoked, None of us smoke.