I have lived with my other half almost 7 years. And we are still not totally ready to get married.
In that same amount of time I have friends who spent thousands on weddings and divorces, and more weddings.
Such a waste of money and shame on them for wrapping everyone up in their drama. My best friend had this huge wedding, all up on a stage with her groom pledging their love in front of hundreds of people.
Then she cheated on him and got knocked up by another man, less than 6 months after her dream wedding. It was such a disgrace, and although shes still my friend its fucked up that she pulled this shit and had everyone involved like that. The only time I heard a grown man bawl to me on the phone. It was unreal.
Women are so damn selfish.
