Kitty, most of my well paid freinds have been taken by a scandalous woman for upwards of $120,000 a month. I always said these women aren't worth a thing... I wish they would have to go through the sneaky person dating, false pretense marriage, nasty give up half for nothing divorce!
After hearing your story I see it's just as bad on the other side. It doesn't happen over there often, but when it does OH BOY!
Sorry to hear about that deadbeat! From what I read about you, you are a helluva woman so he shouldn't matter much anyway!
Quiet, I've heard of longtime girlfreinds being able to claim things after a breakup but I've never known it to happen to anyone.
Now I'm scared.
Good luck bro! I'm pulling for you. Please let us know how it turns out.