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Originally posted by mandyxxx
I know this is sudden...
and this will be my last post...
It's the love or money complex.
He and I dated seriously for three years.
Both college graduates, he couldn't accept that I wanted to do this... so when I graduated in May, I left him to pursue my site.
And even though the money is good, I'm not happy.
And if I don't try to make things work with him, it will always be in the back of my mind.
So this is it GFY... goodbye ....
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Like someone said... you will be a lot more unhappy when the chargebacks (and associated fees) start rolling in. Has he offered to pay these if you quit like this? If so, then get it in writing (from him)
A smarter
compromise to the situation at this point might be to leave the site up with whatever archives you have....and post a statement something to the effect of:
"due to personal issues, I do not know when the next updates to this site will occur. It could be days, weeks, months - or maybe never. If you would like to cancel at this point, I would completely understand. Either way, please wish me luck. -MandyXXX "
And then let your webmasters know the same and let them know that you will contact them if/when updates continue again.
THEN tell your boyfriend "See. I've made a HUGE fucking compromise here. Now prove to me that you're not going to have ongoing problems and never let me live down
what I used to do"
If he's cool with you for 6 months without any BS.... THEN maybe consider pulling it all... after giving people a good 30-60 day warning.
I swear. People in relationships do crazy things sometimes. ::shakes head::