The only thing my wife does to annoy me is the only thing that ever made me think of leaving her, it was so aggravating. It still is, but I've come to expect it, which in essence, probably means she wins.
She's a very non-confrontational person with anyone.....except ME. Comfort level being what it is and all, fine, that's to be expected to some point.
However, she'll fight and argue with me sometimes till she's blue in the face...when I KNOW I'm right and I won't backdown. Then SHE gets pissed at ME for arguing with her.
So, I get MORE angry. I'll stew in it for a couple of days, ya'know have hallway sex (walk down the hall, "Fuck you", "No, fuck you!"), and all the while SHE'S calming down.
Usually late on day two or early on day three, she'll come up to me, give me a hug and say, "I'm sorry, you were right." When we were first married, that would make me MORE angry and it would be another 3 days before we could be civil with each other.
I've learned though to let her be who she is and cope with one of her faults as best as I can. Usually now when she says she's sorry, we'll have make up sex THAT day instead of three days later.
Other than that, I wouldn't trade her in for anything.
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