In my case, he froze the traffic, promised a refund three times, and never delivered, all before I went to the board.
This is an ICQ log from December 11th, a week after he promised to refund my money and froze the traffic:
Me: You couldn't do the refund last week, and wanted to do it today. You asked for a reminder if you forgot.
Turboface: Hi there
Turboface: Let me read the history here...
Turboface: Ok, I don't have any money at all in PayPal. What was the name that was used when you placed the order, thru 2CO?
Turboface: I might be able to just do it thru there.
Me: Jeffrey Bxxxx
Turboface: I'm not seeing any order placed from anyone with the last name of Bxxxx there.
Turboface: Are you sure you paid thru there?
Me: I'm pretty sure I paid through paypal - your nickname on there was something about sunglasses
Turboface:Ya, let me check there again..
Turboface:Yes I see it. However, like I said, I don't have anything at all in PayPay..
Me: You can't use your credit card? That's how I paid you
Turboface: You sent the payment to my PayPal account. I do not have a credit card personally.
Turboface:I can send you the traffic now, much faster than before, if you wanted. I'll even throw in some extra for you.
Turboface:I have new, fast traffic - and I redesigned my site -
http://www.adulttrafficgenerator.com/
Me: I don't need traffic now. I need the refund.
Turboface:Ok, we'll have to wait till I have some money in PayPal, but it shouldn't be long.
Turboface:Try me tomorrow.
Me: Here's the deal. I waited a week because you couldn't do it last week. I'm not waiting past close of business Monday. I'll file a dispute through paypal on Tuesday.
Turboface:There's no need to get all up in a bunch. I'm working with you here.
Me: I'm not in a bunch. I'm quite calm. I'm watching a good movie. I'll look for a refund on Monday.
Obviously he never paid up. All he's done since is post messages saying I should have contacted him on ICQ. He even replies to my posting the above ICQ log like that.