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Originally Posted by bdld
might have to do with the fact that women who are with men who dont use condoms are usually in longer more meaningful relationships and thus would be less depressed.
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You're probably right, because I was thinking the same thing. Of the guys that I've had sex with the only ones that I don't use condoms with are guys that I've dated a long time & been in love with, trusted, etc. The sex was far more arousing, exciting, and fulfilling, than the few guys that were condom wearing casual partners. Those times I'm a lil more self conscious, a little more uptight, not breaking out the toys, raunchy talk, etc. I wouldnt say I'm depressed more with them, but after sometimes I'm much less pleased with myself, because I had sex with someone that I really didnt care about, for the sake of having sex, and not for the bond that comes with it, when you're in a rewarding relationship. When I am in love, I SOOOO love to give oral, and theres really nothing that I wouldnt do to please my partner, and knowing he's finishing inside is a HUGE boost of confidence! If he has to pull out and jerk himself off to come, that could be a real ego crusher lol Maybe thats why those woman are suicidal, they're worried they cant make men cum! ;) who knows, good article though!
