You have several options. 1 do whatever you want, if they threaten you call the cops. 2. move 3. get married
But as you said you want to live in a nice area with nice people around you, well sir, it sounds like they are a bunch of unsecure assholes who wouldn't be your friends anyway. It certainly does not sound like a nice place to live to me. If your not an ex-con and you have never done anything wrong, then tell them to eat shit and move.
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Until my business picks up, if ever, I can't afford a house
