first of all i want to say a word to you halcyon : i respect you very much because of the way you live your life.
the sentence : Real men follow their own rules
this is how every man should think.
stay as you are halcyon ( i wrote halycon first again

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and btw : you can see that you are respected in this board because nobody in this 4page thread ( and i think i read it completly ) metion the word : gay or homo in combination with you.
nice interview