Enema

Allo,

My fiance and her brother have never gotten along well, it's one of those asian families where the son is revered by the parents and never punished for anything he does. As a result of this, he's never had any discipline and is a 23 year old slob living at home, pregnant girlfriend and can't keep a job. Insanely jealous of my fiance who has degrees up the wazoo, real estate and is a scientist at 24.

At our engagement party, everyone was drunk and he said some things to her that he shouldn't have, namely that he didn't want her to have anything to do with his coming child as she is irresponsible. She was of course, very upset. I didn't want to cause a scene so I asked their cousin to remove him from the party. He would not leave, created a big scene with the cousin and had to be restrained. I went to him myself and told him I wanted him out of the house, that he needed to stop acting like a child and take responsibility for himself, he swung at me - I blocked and cracked him straight in the teeth, knocking him to the ground... I was very angry that he would disrespect me like that in my own house. He got back up and was quickly restrained by his cousin.

After some heated words, he left, however he's the type to hold a grudge. His kid has now been born and after hearing that my fiance visited the child he told her at a family gathering, "Don't fucking go near my kid again".
Whenever she calls the house to speak with her parents, he will leave the phone off the hook instead of getting them, or hang up - he's a general asshole.

Of course, her parents are oblivious and wouldn't do anything anyway... what do you guys think I should do to try and "fix" a quarter of a century of bad blood and now, new bad blood ?

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