Yes, I'd have to agree with you Sultan, unfortunately
One thing I have done for SPAM to my kids....
They have their own domains, and I have activated email for each.
Then I set a rule for the subject line which requires a specific word, phrase, or password that must be included for the email to show.
If the email doesn't have the pass in the subject my kids never see it. This way their Mom can send them an email if she desires and I don't have to worry about getting any junk in their mail.
Not the perfect solution for me, but it works for now.
But yes, it is too bad I have to do it this way.
I personally try to only use sponsors that don't allow SPAM of any sort, which I am sure limits me(only a little), but I don't want to be the one whining on the board because my sponsors assets have been frozen.
The deceptive keywords(and buying previous nonadult doms for adult use) I have whined about for a long time too.
Not sure of any solutions for this or anything else really besides the parents really learning what the web is about and being proactive with it. Way too much information on the web for our youngsters, and not just necessarily porn.
A parent that lets their kid have unlimited access to the web, may as well just leave their kids unattended in (pick your favorite bad neighbourhood)
This is too long

I think we are on the same page, maybe we should trade some links sometime..