I can actually add that over the years I had some amazingly good experiences with follow adult webmasters - thanks to
Wolfshade
John from Snaggle
Stramm from xratedlist
Nik from 3xSeries.com
Scott from Sleazydreams (who received a bashing a few days back)
and a few others whom I might have forgotten
Some helped me in real trouble (like domain hi-jacked, and similar situations) - cheers to all!