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iwantchixx · 10-11-2005, 05:11 PM

SO here's the story.

I left my ex and left her teh house and car and nevera sked fora penny out of her and offered her decent support payments.

However the only way I am allowed to see my son is if it's at teh mall for a couple hours or at her house for a couple hours. Never at my place. She is all upset that I had anothet girl move in with me. She see's it as I left her for my new girl. Not the case. But evn if it was, is sh justified in denying me the right to have my child at my own place?

I confronted her about this numerous times and this time it's because hsi birthday is comming. His first borthday, also, on that day he is being baptized.

I asked her if her uncle was going to be there (thing is he threatened to kill me if I didn't move out of the house I PAID for so to make things easier I left and ended up $6800 in debt over this leaving early thing.) and she said yes. So I said then "I'm not going. So could I have him over the following day so I can have a little birthday party here with my own family" and she said no because that "skank" is here. That skank happens to be my girlfriend. She said "you don;t want my uncle around William so I don't want that skank around him" and I said the only reason I won't drop it about ehr uncle is because of the way she goes on like a child about my girlfriend eing here when my son would be here. I told her she needs ot stop acting so fuckign childish about this and that she should start putting ehr son first instead of her own broken heart. Then she said "I don't trust you". That's when I said fuck this and told her "fuck you and your whole damn family, you're not getting a cent out of me anymore" and left. She doesn't trust me now supposedly because I lsot my temper with her a few times before. hell, she nagged and bitched and whined for hours on end because I couldnt spend time with her while Iw as working and payig all the bills. Who wouldn't snap?

Anyways... am I asking for too much to have her swallow her pride and feelings and let my little boy come visit his papa?

And no I can;t take her to court. She has teh support of a rich family behind her and I have a pretty big debt to deal with. Not to mention she'd just end up taking my whole pay in child support anyways.

10-11-2005, 05:11 PM
iwantchixx Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: The Boonies Posts: 12,860	sigh. Advice needed [custody + visitation] SO here's the story. I left my ex and left her teh house and car and nevera sked fora penny out of her and offered her decent support payments. However the only way I am allowed to see my son is if it's at teh mall for a couple hours or at her house for a couple hours. Never at my place. She is all upset that I had anothet girl move in with me. She see's it as I left her for my new girl. Not the case. But evn if it was, is sh justified in denying me the right to have my child at my own place? I confronted her about this numerous times and this time it's because hsi birthday is comming. His first borthday, also, on that day he is being baptized. I asked her if her uncle was going to be there (thing is he threatened to kill me if I didn't move out of the house I PAID for so to make things easier I left and ended up $6800 in debt over this leaving early thing.) and she said yes. So I said then "I'm not going. So could I have him over the following day so I can have a little birthday party here with my own family" and she said no because that "skank" is here. That skank happens to be my girlfriend. She said "you don;t want my uncle around William so I don't want that skank around him" and I said the only reason I won't drop it about ehr uncle is because of the way she goes on like a child about my girlfriend eing here when my son would be here. I told her she needs ot stop acting so fuckign childish about this and that she should start putting ehr son first instead of her own broken heart. Then she said "I don't trust you". That's when I said fuck this and told her "fuck you and your whole damn family, you're not getting a cent out of me anymore" and left. She doesn't trust me now supposedly because I lsot my temper with her a few times before. hell, she nagged and bitched and whined for hours on end because I couldnt spend time with her while Iw as working and payig all the bills. Who wouldn't snap? Anyways... am I asking for too much to have her swallow her pride and feelings and let my little boy come visit his papa? And no I can;t take her to court. She has teh support of a rich family behind her and I have a pretty big debt to deal with. Not to mention she'd just end up taking my whole pay in child support anyways.