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Originally Posted by blowmyass
One other thing that has been throwing me for a loop lately.. She has been mentioning a movie called The Warriors and told me she can't believe I haven't seen it being the movie Buff I am .. Told me it was a great movie.
Some of these cheating websites talk about mentioning things she has done and you weren't there. Well I know she isn't much of a movie fan and doesn't bring up movies much but she said the reason she brought it up was because a playstation 2 game was coming out for it. Told me sort of in detail how it was etc.. and over and over how she cna't believe I haven't seen it.
One guy she works with let us borrow Amityville a while ago and when imet the dude she introduced him as being into movies as much as me.. So it could be she watched the movie with this dude.. If it's a new movie out in the last year or two something's up as she is not a movie fan and never goes to the movies.. She could of HEARD about it from this guy and mentionedit to me but she has definitely seen the movie the way she talks..
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Actually, The Warriors is an old 1979 movie. The original DVD came out in 2001, but there was a directors cut released just this month (Oct 4th, I think). If she's just now talking about it, chances are she just watched it. Does she have opportunities to watch movies when you're not around? Where would the movie have come from for her to watch? ...Since you hadn't heard of it, chances are you didn't own it for her to watch when she was bored. Do you have cable? Is she into games? How did she hear about the PS2 version coming out?
If she's not into games and doesn't have opportunities to watch movies, she probably watched it with someone else who knows more about it. And if she's watching movies with some dude, rather than having sex, then it's someone she's been with a while, is comfortable with and likes to enjoy time with (this does not have to be a relationship person). However, there's not a chance that she's going to be watching an hour and a half movie with some dude she's having an affair with if she only has her lunch hour arranged with him. If she is having an affair, she's got a heck of a lot more time with him than her lunch hour.
As for your other comments, I'll list both pro and con:
The phone calls are unusual and I would suspect something based on that.
I really doubt she's married with kids, because I doubt she'd be living with you unmarried if that was the case. It usually works the other way around.
If she's cheating, it's less probably that she'd joke about it, because cheaters don't want anymore attention towards them on that subject than necessary, unless she's really throwing it in your face.
Anti-spy software doesn't mean anything. Did you ever find anything from it before it got removed?
If you're not having sex, she's probably getting it somewhere else. Fact of life...we're sexual creatures.
Has she ever accused you of cheating? Cheaters almost always think their partner is cheating.
If the conferences are in differing, widespread locations, then that could mean either (1) she's going to conferences or (2) she's going with the guy she's cheating with (probably her boss). This assumes she actually does travel for the conferences.