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Originally Posted by ModelPerfect
Actually, The Warriors is an old 1979 movie. The original DVD came out in 2001, but there was a directors cut released just this month (Oct 4th, I think). If she's just now talking about it, chances are she just watched it. Does she have opportunities to watch movies when you're not around? Where would the movie have come from for her to watch? ...Since you hadn't heard of it, chances are you didn't own it for her to watch when she was bored. Do you have cable? Is she into games? How did she hear about the PS2 version coming out?
If she's not into games and doesn't have opportunities to watch movies, she probably watched it with someone else who knows more about it. And if she's watching movies with some dude, rather than having sex, then it's someone she's been with a while, is comfortable with and likes to enjoy time with (this does not have to be a relationship person). However, there's not a chance that she's going to be watching an hour and a half movie with some dude she's having an affair with if she only has her lunch hour arranged with him. If she is having an affair, she's got a heck of a lot more time with him than her lunch hour.
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I don't own it ... One of the 2 guys I think it is possible it would be that I would know of (the one I was actually leaning more towards anyways) is the guy who is a 'movie buff' I was talking about. She said she had seen it a while ago.. but didn't define how long ago.. I will slyly slip it into conversation, possibly rent it and see what her reaction is when I ask her to watch it.
She could stretch her lunch out but I definitely agree... I don't see her watching the movie with him unless she was hanging out with him for the night, which I am having a tough time thinking of when she would do that unless she has lied about going to one of her hockey games she goes to. There were 4 over 2 weekends and even though she loves her hockey.. I am guessing she would give up 1 of 4 nights she was supposed to be at a hockey game to spend it with this person.. Especially if she has been in it for a while and it is becoming more than just a fling as I suspect. The hockey games are really the only time she would be able to get away with something like that.. and I hadn't even thought of it till just now as she is so hard in hockey and usually calls me from the games. Not sure if she did that night, or not..
Never found anything with the spyware... Yeah she has acused me of cheating a few times.. She hasn't ever caught me not even been on target but she has accused me of it a few times. Yes I have cheated on her a total of 4 times, most recnt 7 or 8 months ago.. I'm past the point where it would break my heart. I'm not a massochist but I am hoping I am wrong and she isn't cheating on me although it is highly unlikely. Even if she isn't cheating on me the fact that I have been convinced she is for so long is a concern initself and may mean there is no way in hell we would ever work out regardless. As weird as it is, I think the only way I could move on is if she admitted to me she had... and it was over for a while. If she told me she was currently, it would be over though. Bizzare 'eh ?
I'm going to start keeping a log of all the small things like the stuff Iposted about tonight. And a couple other small things I have since thought about. And see if it adds up to anything over time..
Thanks to everyone who has been supportive, a welcome suprise