Originally Posted by blowmyass

I don't own it ... One of the 2 guys I think it is possible it would be that I would know of (the one I was actually leaning more towards anyways) is the guy who is a 'movie buff' I was talking about. She said she had seen it a while ago.. but didn't define how long ago.. I will slyly slip it into conversation, possibly rent it and see what her reaction is when I ask her to watch it.

She could stretch her lunch out but I definitely agree... I don't see her watching the movie with him unless she was hanging out with him for the night, which I am having a tough time thinking of when she would do that unless she has lied about going to one of her hockey games she goes to. There were 4 over 2 weekends and even though she loves her hockey.. I am guessing she would give up 1 of 4 nights she was supposed to be at a hockey game to spend it with this person.. Especially if she has been in it for a while and it is becoming more than just a fling as I suspect. The hockey games are really the only time she would be able to get away with something like that.. and I hadn't even thought of it till just now as she is so hard in hockey and usually calls me from the games. Not sure if she did that night, or not..

Never found anything with the spyware... Yeah she has acused me of cheating a few times.. She hasn't ever caught me not even been on target but she has accused me of it a few times. Yes I have cheated on her a total of 4 times, most recnt 7 or 8 months ago.. I'm past the point where it would break my heart. I'm not a massochist but I am hoping I am wrong and she isn't cheating on me although it is highly unlikely. Even if she isn't cheating on me the fact that I have been convinced she is for so long is a concern initself and may mean there is no way in hell we would ever work out regardless. As weird as it is, I think the only way I could move on is if she admitted to me she had... and it was over for a while. If she told me she was currently, it would be over though. Bizzare 'eh ?

I'm going to start keeping a log of all the small things like the stuff Iposted about tonight. And a couple other small things I have since thought about. And see if it adds up to anything over time..

Thanks to everyone who has been supportive, a welcome suprise