Originally Posted by SleazyDream

to be honest I find it insulting that people come here for donations before letting us know about the incident.

there is a chain of events to follow, first would be inform the people who matter in your life. - then you deal with money.

in this case it was - gimi the money - someone's hurt. WRONG ORDER - and it let everyone here on GFY know just what we mean to these people.

I'm sorry she got hurt.
I'm sorry she was too stupid to have medical insurance.
I'm sorry to know now just what we all mean to these people.