Of course this offering of experience must be taken for what it's worth, but I have found it true, that -- to EROTICIZE the ANUS is the most important thing. I think folks of both genders, crave as they might the *deep entry*, are a little intimidated by the very idea, yep.
What's worked for me and mine, spend a little time, give a kiss, say "hellooooooo in there..."
HAVE FUN --
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