This is a sticky situation and Gateway, I'm totally with you. I went through a 6 month dry spell where every time I told a woman I work in porn (especially my niche), they freaked the fuck out.
99% of the time, I'm not the first bit concerned what a woman thinks about what I do. I just tell them I'm in Internet marketing and leave it at that. If they push, I tell them that I help people sell things online. It's honest and if all I want to do is fuck her, it's enough. If she really pushes or I think it'll help the cause I tell her the whole truth. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn't.
It's that 1% that gets really, really tricky. If I'm interested in more than just fucking a girl, my policy is 100% honesty. It's hard and it's cost me more than I'd care to remember, but as a good man once said, "I am who I am."
All us sad sack single sons of bitches will just have to put faith in Jehovah, Allah, Buddah, Shakti, Mary, Xochiquetzal, Bmola, Kuan Yin, Zoroaster, Hathor, Turan, Eros, Ama-no-Uzume, Freya, Juno and let's not forget hahaha8216;Athtart that one day we'll meet an intelligent, open-minded, beautiful, committed, honest, loyal sexual dynamo who wants nothing more than to love us.
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