dirty_ds... the problem w/ the design is that someone who either wasn't very artistic, or had very limited experience in design, designed it. nothing really goes together, and you can tell someone within their first 6 months of designing web pages designed it. or some kid whos designed for 5 years w/ no artistic talent designed it
trust me and the others on the board about this, yes i know how you feel... its your site, and its done, and its natural to try and defend it, but get over the pride and take our advice man.