Why Women Moan During Sex - GoFuckYourself.com

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-12-2012, 07:02 PM

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All you have to do is watch nearly any depiction of female orgasm on screen to get an idea of how a woman is ?supposed? to react during sex.

From "When Harry Met Sally" to "Sex and the City" to your basic porn film, women in the throes of passion aren?t just shouting their ecstasy from the rooftops - they?re moaning with pleasure. Loudly.

But is this just cinematic license, or is there really something to noisy sex?

Experts wondered the same thing. Last year, Gayle Brewer of the University of Central Lancashire and Colin Hendrie of the University of Leeds published their research on the topic - technically known as ?copulatory vocalization? - in the Archives of Sexual Behavior. In the study, they asked 71 sexually active heterosexual women between ages 18 and 48 for more details about vocalization during sex.

The researchers found that many of the women did make noise, but not necessarily while they were having an orgasm. Instead, 66% said that they moaned to speed up their partner?s climax, and 87% stated that they vocalized during sex to boost his self-esteem.

Are female orgasms really just a 'bonus'?

?While female orgasms were most commonly experienced during foreplay, copulatory vocalizations were reported to be made most often before and simultaneously with male ejaculation,? write the researchers. Women also reported making noise to relieve boredom, fatigue and pain/discomfort during sex.

So is female vocalization during sex just a performance for a guy?s benefit? (After all, Meg Ryan?s over-the-top moans were meant to prove a point to ?Harry? that men are easily duped by a fake orgasm.)

?There isn?t a lot of research in this area,? says Kristen Mark, a sexuality researcher at Indiana University, ?but we?re bombarded with images through mainstream media that tell us moaning is associated with orgasm and sexual pleasure. So it would be a fairly wise faking strategy to moan since men already tend to associate moaning with orgasm.?

Of course, there?s nothing smart about faking it.

?If you?re faking an orgasm, you are signaling to your partner that he is doing everything right, when in fact he isn?t,? says sex educator and author Patty Brisben. ?Use moaning as a way of signaling that you are excited and things really are feeling good, not as a way to hide that they aren?t.?

Fake or not, women aren?t the only primates who vocalize during sex. Research in the animal kingdom reveals that female baboons, for example, have a variety of copulation calls, which appear to relate to their fertility: The vocalizations tend to become more complex when the females are closer to ovulation, and also vary when a female is mating with a higher-ranked male baboon. And female macaque monkeys give a shout to help trigger their mates? orgasm, too.

Performances and primatologists aside, vocalizing during sex can actually be a great tool to help women get what they want in bed. As I discussed in my column a couple of weeks ago on the topic of talking about sex, it isn?t always easy to translate sexual thought into action, so a little strategic moaning can definitely help get the point across.

?Women are learning to take responsibility for their own sexual needs and wants in the bedroom,? explains Brisben. ?We need to take this one step further and give ourselves permission to become teachers. Use vocalization to teach your partner what feels good. It can help you say, 'stop, go, yes, more please' - without sounding like a traffic cop.?

And when it comes to noise, ?partner benefit isn?t the only piece of the puzzle,? says Kristen Mark. ?Perhaps making noise turns some women on and helps them experience pleasure.?

Brisben concurs: ?I think there are many women who need to be vocal to help themselves achieve orgasm - it helps move them and their orgasm along. There are certainly phases. As a woman gets into it, she may become extremely vocal, and then move into a period of quiet as she is on the verge.?

So do what feels right to you. Any other benefits are just a great bonus. And when it comes to ?copulatory vocalization,? perhaps men should take a lesson from the ladies.

?Women understand that moaning is a turn-on for guys, and many women ultimately enjoy it because they?ve made an effort to push a little beyond what comes naturally," says Logan Levkoff, a sex educator and author of a guide for men entitled "How To Get Your Wife to Have Sex With You."

"But sexual self-esteem is a two-way street, and, for their part during sex, guys should aim for more than a single grunt at the end. It?s not about faking or doing something you don?t want to, but more about being sexually present and in sync with each other.?

So let?s all make some noise.

http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2012/0...an-during-sex/

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mavruda · 03-12-2012, 07:04 PM

My woman does not moan during the sex... probably cause I was not around when she's having any...

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-12-2012, 07:12 PM

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My woman does not moan during the sex... probably cause I was not around when she's having any...

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Spunky · 03-12-2012, 07:35 PM

All I get is "Get off me!" "I don't feel like it, Fuck Off!" and when I do get lucky it's "are you done yet?" and this is only 2 minutes into it

xenigo · 03-12-2012, 07:42 PM

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All I get is "Get off me!" "I don't feel like it, Fuck Off!" and when I do get lucky it's "are you done yet?" and this is only 2 minutes into it

That's what rope is for, man...

Zoxxa · 03-12-2012, 07:55 PM

Yet another amazing useful study. I read very little of this, but what I was thinking in comparison is what would a sports game be with no clapping or cheering? It adds to the environment, do I get government funding now?

Jacob[Soft] · 03-12-2012, 08:20 PM

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Such consequence is the price for cheating, isn't it?

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-12-2012, 08:23 PM

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All I get is "Get off me!" "I don't feel like it, Fuck Off!" and when I do get lucky it's "are you done yet?" and this is only 2 minutes into it

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That's what rope is for, man...

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Yet another amazing useful study. I read very little of this, but what I was thinking in comparison is what would a sports game be with no clapping or cheering? It adds to the environment, do I get government funding now?

This is why I always like to have people around to cheer and clap when I bust a nut...

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Chosen · 03-12-2012, 08:24 PM

Pretty interesting study

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-12-2012, 08:26 PM

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Such consequence is the price for cheating, isn't it?

Consequences will never be the same...

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SmutHammer · 03-12-2012, 08:26 PM

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Should have it pointed at her.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-12-2012, 08:43 PM

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Should have it pointed at her.

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The Heron · 03-12-2012, 08:47 PM

Nothing pisses me off more than fake moaning, except maybe the girl asking me to talk dirty while I'm trying to fucking concentrate on fucking her. I mean seriously shutthefuckup

Rochard · 03-12-2012, 08:57 PM

Women moan during sex because it really hurts and they are trying to scream but the ball gag shuts them up.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-12-2012, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by The Heron

Nothing pisses me off more than fake moaning, except maybe the girl asking me to talk dirty while I'm trying to fucking concentrate on fucking her. I mean seriously shutthefuckup

Maybe she just needs a little proper tutoring:

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AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-12-2012, 09:03 PM

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Women moan during sex because it really hurts and they are trying to scream but the ball gag shuts them up.

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bronco67 · 03-12-2012, 09:21 PM

A girl can fake an orgasm by moaning -- but there's other signals that aren't that easy to fake. Rapid heartbeat, shivering, and tensed muscles. Also, there's no girl alive who can fake sweating. That would be some skill.

brassmonkey · 03-12-2012, 09:27 PM

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a coward

using a gun

martinsc · 03-12-2012, 09:28 PM

“copulatory vocalization” - sounds like Sheldon from the big bang theory

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-12-2012, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by bronco67

A girl can fake an orgasm by moaning -- but there's other signals that aren't that easy to fake. Rapid heartbeat, shivering, and tensed muscles. Also, there's no girl alive who can fake sweating. That would be some skill.

Sounds like she's tweaking or going through withdrawals...

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a coward

using a gun

Better to pry his fingers off, one by one?

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?copulatory vocalization? - sounds like Sheldon from the big bang theory

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2intense · 03-12-2012, 11:26 PM

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blonda80 · 03-13-2012, 12:28 AM

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I would like to see the end of this

Paul Markham · 03-13-2012, 12:48 AM

Most girls experience a longer orgasm than men, it's a slow build up, lot of time in the orgasmic state, which is often Multi orgasms, rather than one quick spurt most men experience. Moaning during this process tightens muscles and heightens the experience.

During this process she's oftan gone from the world around her.

If the girl is conscious enough to fake it, the other person is doing it wrong.

Here are some examples of girls having real orgasms.

3 girls

Alex

Alex again

Ami

Girls say they don't fancy it to guys who don't know what they're doing. More often than not, nothing gets a girl out of a bad mood than a prolonged licking.

Any girl here want to dispute that?

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-13-2012, 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham

Most girls experience a longer orgasm than men, it's a slow build up, lot of time in the orgasmic state, which is often Multi orgasms, rather than one quick spurt most men experience. Moaning during this process tightens muscles and heightens the experience.

During this process she's oftan gone from the world around her.

If the girl is conscious enough to fake it, the other person is doing it wrong.

Here are some examples of girls having real orgasms.

3 girls

Alex

Alex again

Ami

Girls say they don't fancy it to guys who don't know what they're doing. More often than not, nothing gets a girl out of a bad mood than a prolonged licking.

Any girl here want to dispute that?

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BettingHandle · 03-13-2012, 01:58 AM

because they want the man to think it feels good

JFK · 03-13-2012, 02:06 AM

I'm shattered

"Instead, 66% said that they moaned to speed up their partner?s climax, and 87% stated that they vocalized during sex to boost his self-esteem."

nico-t · 03-13-2012, 06:26 AM

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pic and caption is not right, the woman is the one who's cheating here.

CaptainHowdy · 03-13-2012, 06:35 AM

That is why I don't have sex, too much hassle ...

redwhiteandblue · 03-13-2012, 06:49 AM

Sex is the only time mine actually stops moaning.

Vendzilla · 03-13-2012, 06:55 AM

Does yelling out wrong hole count?

AdultEUhost · 03-13-2012, 07:20 AM

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AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-13-2012, 10:37 AM

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Sex is the only time mine actually stops moaning.

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Grapesoda · 03-13-2012, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Rochard

Women moan during sex because it really hurts and they are trying to scream but the ball gag shuts them up.

they cry when I fuck em, but i think it's the mace

sandman! · 03-13-2012, 11:40 AM

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undersoul · 03-13-2012, 12:13 PM

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arock10 · 03-13-2012, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham

Most girls experience a longer orgasm than men, it's a slow build up, lot of time in the orgasmic state, which is often Multi orgasms, rather than one quick spurt most men experience. Moaning during this process tightens muscles and heightens the experience.

During this process she's oftan gone from the world around her.

If the girl is conscious enough to fake it, the other person is doing it wrong.

Here are some examples of girls having real orgasms.

3 girls

Alex

Alex again

Ami

Girls say they don't fancy it to guys who don't know what they're doing. More often than not, nothing gets a girl out of a bad mood than a prolonged licking.

Any girl here want to dispute that?

Of course as usual Paul knows everything

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-13-2012, 12:36 PM

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they cry when I fuck em, but i think it's the mace

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mavruda · 03-13-2012, 03:37 PM

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That is why I don't have sex, too much hassle ...

Indeed... sex and making love is for the pussies. Real men don't have sex - they FUCK like champions.

A time ago I did not had any sex, now I have it more rare than before.

ColBigBalls · 03-13-2012, 05:02 PM

I gota say... I was supprised.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-13-2012, 05:30 PM

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Indeed... sex and making love is for the pussies. Real men don't have sex - they FUCK like champions.

A time ago I did not had any sex, now I have it more rare than before.

Q: How can you tell if a woman has an orgasm?

A: Who cares?

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travs · 03-13-2012, 05:42 PM

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All I get is "Get off me!" "I don't feel like it, Fuck Off!" and when I do get lucky it's "are you done yet?" and this is only 2 minutes into it

time to switch partners!

rowan · 03-13-2012, 11:43 PM

Q: Why do women close their eyes during sex?

A: They don't like seeing a guy having a good time.

EddyTheDog · 03-13-2012, 11:58 PM

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Why Women Moan During Sex

Why would they stop just because they having sex?

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-14-2012, 12:07 AM

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Q: Why do women close their eyes during sex?

A: They don't like seeing a guy having a good time.

Blindfolds and other stuff are fun to play with and to mix things up, but I never understood keeping your eyes closed all the time or having the lights off.

Hell, I have major mood lighting and a wall of mirrors in my bedroom so I can enjoy all the action...

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John-ACWM · 03-14-2012, 04:02 AM

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Sophie Delancey · 03-14-2012, 06:53 AM

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It's funny because it's true.

AsianDivaGirlsWebDude · 03-14-2012, 11:37 AM

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It's funny because it's true.

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adendreams · 03-14-2012, 01:01 PM

How lame. No mention of the considerable percentage of women that cant be quiet no matter what. I can think of many exes that I had to stuff a pillow in their face so neighbors or parents or roomates couldnt hear us fucking... Some women absolutely can not help but howl, even if there are serious consequences to getting caught.

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