Singe GFYers: do you tell your date you are in the porn industry? - GoFuckYourself.com

bigPunk · 01-10-2014, 03:02 PM

For me in the meantime its just pocketmoney from the side (nice

), hopefully would become my main source of money. but when I date women usually I tell them I have porn sites that brings me some income. only 1 time a girl rejected me because of that.
Fuck her of course

(but not with me lol)
Whats your experience?

whOaKemosabe · 01-10-2014, 03:09 PM

no you don't thats the worst thing you can do then youll have her mom asking you what you do

ErectMedia · 01-10-2014, 10:05 PM

My right hand doesn't care about my career.

I run mainstream and adult. Internet Marketing does the trick and I just don't mention the adult end if needed as got enough mainstream shit to show.

Rochard · 01-10-2014, 10:31 PM

I am married, and got into the industry after I got married.

If I was single, I would tell a woman before it got serious. It could be a huge problem later on.

jmcb420 · 01-10-2014, 10:40 PM

Honesty is the best policy, and if they have an issue with it, move on.

When you're talking to her parents you can say shit like online marketing, seo, design, coding, etc. They won't have a fucking clue what you're talking about.

But if you enter into a serious relationship and then drop the bomb, you might as well have been caught fucking someone else. That shit does not work.

adultchatpay · 01-10-2014, 11:13 PM

Sometimes people doesn't understand our job, i don't care.
My wife does.

EddyTheDog · 01-10-2014, 11:21 PM

'Date' - Now you are just making up words...

Mediamix · 01-11-2014, 05:26 AM

It depends.. Sometimes is say I'm in internet marketing and when a girl has an open mind or open legs I will say that I have some adult websites that generate income.

It really depends on the girl.. But I never tell their mother.

Relentless · 01-11-2014, 06:52 AM

Unless you are fucking on film you aren't in the 'porn business', you are in the 'web traffic business'
If you really make that connection in your mind you have a much better chance of this becoming your full time career.

Wellness Cash · 01-11-2014, 07:54 AM

No, I typically tell them I am in the child slavery and trafficking business, gets them wet every time.

SmutGiant · 01-11-2014, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Relentless

Unless you are fucking on film you aren't in the 'porn business', you are in the 'web traffic business'
If you really make that connection in your mind you have a much better chance of this becoming your full time career.

Exactly. If you are an affiliate you are a provider of marketing services, your "industry" would be Marketing/Advertising. Does not matter what the product is.

whOaKemosabe · 01-11-2014, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Wellness Cash

No, I typically tell them I am in the child slavery and trafficking business, gets them wet every time.

are you saying wellness cash supports child slavery?

DWB · 01-11-2014, 10:47 AM

If you can't be honest with someone you're with, you need to take a look at yourself and the people you're with.

srockhard · 01-11-2014, 10:53 AM

I've only met one person in my life that actually had a distaste for porn and that is why she wears the title "ExGF" ...I've gotten more and more comfortable just being up front about pushing porn. However I have to admit that my wife used to enjoy watching porn way more than she does now perhaps it was more exciting but now its just "work" for me....so if I was dating again I'd just see if the chick digs porn so watch some good HD porn with her and see how wet her pussy gets before you start making out or fucking if that shit is dripping then let her know that you play an important role in the online porn biz but if her slit is dry after 10-15 min of watch high quality porno movie and she has raised eyebrow then you might want to leave her unless you want to start a life of secrecy. But I can tell you from experience how much better it is to just be open and honest about you work and if you are also a fan of porn then it can be really enjoyable to share things with your lady.

ottopottomouse · 01-11-2014, 10:55 AM

Just say you make websites or something and i'm sure you can expand on that in a way that bores them to death so they don't ask again. At least you won't get asked to fix their plumbing.

loreen · 01-11-2014, 10:57 AM

Yes, as I wouldn't date somebody who would be disturbed knowing I work in adult

ErectMedia · 01-11-2014, 11:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Relentless

Unless you are fucking on film you aren't in the 'porn business', you are in the 'web traffic business'
If you really make that connection in your mind you have a much better chance of this becoming your full time career.

+1

Whether I'm selling domain names, concert tickets, porn etc... it's all just Internet Marketing.

iSpyCams · 01-11-2014, 11:16 AM

They usually figure it out when I try to hire them to do cam work.

Wellness Cash · 01-11-2014, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by whOaKemosabe

are you saying wellness cash supports child slavery?

I wear Nikes so I guess indirectly, yes.

Paully · 01-11-2014, 01:16 PM

Words like fuck doll and cock socket are bound to pop out eventually. So I keeps it realz yo.

seeandsee · 01-11-2014, 01:52 PM

i just say them i make sites

mineistaken · 01-11-2014, 01:58 PM

nope, no point to do so

billywatson · 01-11-2014, 05:43 PM

Anyone who's an affiliate or in any part of the biz in which you aren't on a set shooting, you're really not in the "porn biz".

If you're holding a camera or performing, it's very, very difficult to maintain any sort of personal relationships with potential partners.

Very.

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srockhard Retired Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: PDXXX Posts: 1,976	I've only met one person in my life that actually had a distaste for porn and that is why she wears the title "ExGF" ...I've gotten more and more comfortable just being up front about pushing porn. However I have to admit that my wife used to enjoy watching porn way more than she does now perhaps it was more exciting but now its just "work" for me....so if I was dating again I'd just see if the chick digs porn so watch some good HD porn with her and see how wet her pussy gets before you start making out or fucking if that shit is dripping then let her know that you play an important role in the online porn biz but if her slit is dry after 10-15 min of watch high quality porno movie and she has raised eyebrow then you might want to leave her unless you want to start a life of secrecy. But I can tell you from experience how much better it is to just be open and honest about you work and if you are also a fan of porn then it can be really enjoyable to share things with your lady. __________________ Piper Pines

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