What defines loss of Virginity? - GoFuckYourself.com

Exxxotica · 08-09-2001, 10:34 PM

Im currently having a debate with a friend of mine. I was hoping you people could help clear things up.

He claims to be a virgin...however, I remember him telling me how he got drunk with a girl and slipped it in for a few seconds.

IMO I feel that he no longer qualifies as a Virgin. He still claims that he is.

How do you peeps feel?

Phil21 · 08-09-2001, 10:41 PM

technically, he isn't.

But, I would still say I was if I were him, since he has absolutely NO experience. He'll still pop all fast the first time.

-Phil

lagwagon · 08-09-2001, 11:40 PM

hell yeah he is a virgin... he did not make penetration with his dick.. anyway that is what i think.

ammo325 · 08-09-2001, 11:44 PM

If he cannot use the work "Fuck" to describe what he did then he is still a virgin

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Kimmykim · 08-10-2001, 12:21 AM

hmmmm, he's a guy, I'm wondering what he's wondering about this for.

Lord Assmore · 08-10-2001, 12:42 AM

Some time ago there was a guy trying to get into the Guinness Book of Records for being the oldest male virgin in the world (he was 30 years old).

Exxxotica · 08-10-2001, 01:00 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kimmykim:
hmmmm, he's a guy, I'm wondering what he's wondering about this for.

Actually he's tellin me about how he and this really special girl he met are going to lose their virginity together.

I thought it was funny...because I wouldn't consider him a virgin.

Anyhoo...I know this thread doesn't live up to your intellectual standards of ratios and rebills...but what's your opinion?

Kimmykim · 08-10-2001, 01:50 AM

well you know if all you think I am good for is ratios and rebills, why should I even answer...

"however, I remember him telling me how he got drunk with a girl and slipped it in for a few seconds. "

that should be your answer I suppose... guys aren't like girls, there's no physical proof of anything I don't think.

Exxxotica · 08-10-2001, 01:57 AM

uhh...I dont get it?

I know it's late, and Im a moron...but dam girl! What did you just say?

Unriz3n · 08-10-2001, 02:52 AM

Technically, I slipped in in a few times myself, but didnt really consider my virginity lost until I let it all out. I mean just rip-roaring, no holds barred, dont worry about waking the parents up sex. If he just slipped it in for a moment or two, he didnt really get to fuck. Its like if you take a drag off a cigarette, it doesnt mean you smoke. So, your friend is still a virgin, unless you cound those 5k times with Rosey Palms.

Kimmykim · 08-10-2001, 03:37 PM

lol, did I come out and call you a moron too Exxxotica?

He's a guy, so who knows, I don't suppose anyone can prove anything --

boneprone · 08-10-2001, 03:39 PM

I thought I was KK's moron?

tenletters · 08-10-2001, 06:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Unriz3n:
Its like if you take a drag off a cigarette, it doesnt mean you smoke.

I think you are missing the point of the arguement in that YES you can say that you don't smoke... but you CANNOT say that you have never smoked. Just like he cannot say he has never had sex.

If you have sexual intercourse... you are no longer a virgin and sexual intercourse is inserting your penis into a vagina.

One pump is still sex. Nobody said sex had to last forever! lol

Kimmykim · 08-10-2001, 07:06 PM

"I thought I was KK's moron?"
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Oh but you are my dear, no one will be replacing you any time soon...

Pete · 08-10-2001, 07:07 PM

If he "slipped it in" then I say he is NOT a virgin and is lying to his girl friend.

Rip · 08-10-2001, 07:28 PM

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christy · 08-11-2001, 02:18 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by tenletters:
I think you are missing the point of the arguement in that YES you can say that you don't smoke... but you CANNOT say that you have never smoked. Just like he cannot say he has never had sex.

If you have sexual intercourse... you are no longer a virgin and sexual intercourse is inserting your penis into a vagina.

One pump is still sex. Nobody said sex had to last forever! lol

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Eric · 08-11-2001, 03:15 AM

Alright here comes my Socrates!

Society states that virginity is lost with penatration. Now how shall we define that. Penatration, with a cock, with a tongue, with a finger? Wouldn't all of these consist or create a lost virginity???

I feel that this needs to be defined by each person individually. One could stick his fingers in and feel around a little bit. Would that be lost virginity? I don't think so. But I don't believe that, that is for me to decide. If this guy thinks that he has not lost his virginity, and feels that this small act was not enough to consitute this loss. Then so be it. I give him his opinions and allow him to believe that way. As long as he feels that way in every situation. Meaning that if he met a girl and she told him she was a virgin, but had 500000000 guys just stick it in a couple times. He has to respect that she should still be a virgin. But that is in his sick and twisted little world.

I feel that it is based on an entire act. Or you could call it a creation of PLEASURE! If one, or hopefully both parties are pleasured then it should be called sex. Or in this case lost virginity. Oh to be there again. Keep that shit F O R E V E R!!!!

magnatique · 08-11-2001, 10:04 AM

eric, I agree with you in almost all points but when you claim pleasure...

How often do we hear about women (because men are easy to please, that's why) which did not enjoy their first times, or even did not reach any orgasms until they were advanced in their sexuality...

from personal experience eric, I'd agree with you, but it's not everybody alike

I'd say virginity is lost when your mind believes it is, indeed...

there is no way for a guy to tell if he's virgin or not, but by the interractions of his neurones... while a woman can loose her hyphen only by having a little fun with herself...

TheWatcher · 08-11-2001, 10:19 AM

Going for a funny here. =o)

"Im a virgin 6 times running.. Even my wife says I've never touched her.. But the kids say different."

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Rice_Master · 08-11-2001, 07:48 PM

Why would any guy turn down an easy fuck? he must me dumb if you ask me.

bunky · 08-11-2001, 08:27 PM

In my opinion,
If he got tha ass no matter if it was 5 seconds or 5 hours cause from what i hear mah roommate only lasts about 45 seconds and he considers it having sex... iuno id say he aint a virign. but try. http://www.askjeeves.com he might know ;D

-bunky

jimmy-3-way · 08-12-2001, 12:32 AM

I think you guys are missing the point entirely, this guy is smooooooooove. From now on I'm telling all the virgins I meet that I'm a virgin too....and we can lose our virginity together...on a very special night...like uh...Thursday.

kingpapa · 08-12-2001, 12:58 AM

if you can slip it in a few times and still be a virgin can i slip it in a few times and tell my girlfriend i didnt cheat?

drumsicle · 08-12-2001, 02:44 AM

He is a half virgin. Technically he is NOT a virgin, but probably feels like one just the same. If he tells this girl "I'm a virgin" and leaves it at that, he isn't being honest. However, if he tells her about his experience, she understands that he's the closest thing to being a virgin without actually being one.

08-09-2001, 10:34 PM	#1
Exxxotica Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oregun Posts: 4,396	What defines loss of Virginity? Im currently having a debate with a friend of mine. I was hoping you people could help clear things up. He claims to be a virgin...however, I remember him telling me how he got drunk with a girl and slipped it in for a few seconds. IMO I feel that he no longer qualifies as a Virgin. He still claims that he is. How do you peeps feel?

08-09-2001, 10:41 PM	#2
Phil21 Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: ICQ: 25285313 Posts: 993	technically, he isn't. But, I would still say I was if I were him, since he has absolutely NO experience. He'll still pop all fast the first time. -Phil

08-09-2001, 11:40 PM	#3
lagwagon Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: az Posts: 8,464	hell yeah he is a virgin... he did not make penetration with his dick.. anyway that is what i think.

08-09-2001, 11:44 PM	#4
ammo325 Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: LV Nev Posts: 467	If he cannot use the work "Fuck" to describe what he did then he is still a virgin ------------------ http://www.lostbush.com/sub.html High conversion Cheerleader Fetish

08-10-2001, 12:21 AM	#5
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	hmmmm, he's a guy, I'm wondering what he's wondering about this for.

08-10-2001, 12:42 AM	#6
Lord Assmore Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: The Periphery Posts: 588	Some time ago there was a guy trying to get into the Guinness Book of Records for being the oldest male virgin in the world (he was 30 years old).

08-10-2001, 01:50 AM	#8
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	well you know if all you think I am good for is ratios and rebills, why should I even answer... "however, I remember him telling me how he got drunk with a girl and slipped it in for a few seconds. " that should be your answer I suppose... guys aren't like girls, there's no physical proof of anything I don't think.

08-10-2001, 01:57 AM	#9
Exxxotica Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oregun Posts: 4,396	uhh...I dont get it? I know it's late, and Im a moron...but dam girl! What did you just say?

08-10-2001, 02:52 AM	#10
Unriz3n Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 378	Technically, I slipped in in a few times myself, but didnt really consider my virginity lost until I let it all out. I mean just rip-roaring, no holds barred, dont worry about waking the parents up sex. If he just slipped it in for a moment or two, he didnt really get to fuck. Its like if you take a drag off a cigarette, it doesnt mean you smoke. So, your friend is still a virgin, unless you cound those 5k times with Rosey Palms.

08-10-2001, 03:37 PM	#11
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	lol, did I come out and call you a moron too Exxxotica? He's a guy, so who knows, I don't suppose anyone can prove anything --

08-10-2001, 03:39 PM	#12
boneprone Hall Of Fame Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Portland Oregon USA Posts: 34,415	I thought I was KK's moron?

08-10-2001, 07:06 PM	#14
Kimmykim bitchslapping zebras!!!!! Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: In a shack by the beach Posts: 16,015	"I thought I was KK's moron?" --------------------- Oh but you are my dear, no one will be replacing you any time soon...

08-10-2001, 07:07 PM	#15
Pete Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Mr. Rogers Neighborhood Posts: 6,617	If he "slipped it in" then I say he is NOT a virgin and is lying to his girl friend.

08-10-2001, 07:28 PM	#16
Rip Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: somewheres wet Posts: 1,456	All a woman has to do, is look at me, and she is so awe struck, that she wishes she could lose her virginity ------------------ Make dirty money from your surfers Dirty Gold Jack Thumbs TGP Search Engine Driven TGP - Pages LISTED INSTANTLY

08-11-2001, 03:15 AM	#18
Eric Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: The Helm! Posts: 8,818	Alright here comes my Socrates! Society states that virginity is lost with penatration. Now how shall we define that. Penatration, with a cock, with a tongue, with a finger? Wouldn't all of these consist or create a lost virginity??? I feel that this needs to be defined by each person individually. One could stick his fingers in and feel around a little bit. Would that be lost virginity? I don't think so. But I don't believe that, that is for me to decide. If this guy thinks that he has not lost his virginity, and feels that this small act was not enough to consitute this loss. Then so be it. I give him his opinions and allow him to believe that way. As long as he feels that way in every situation. Meaning that if he met a girl and she told him she was a virgin, but had 500000000 guys just stick it in a couple times. He has to respect that she should still be a virgin. But that is in his sick and twisted little world. I feel that it is based on an entire act. Or you could call it a creation of PLEASURE! If one, or hopefully both parties are pleasured then it should be called sex. Or in this case lost virginity. Oh to be there again. Keep that shit F O R E V E R!!!!

08-11-2001, 10:04 AM	#19
magnatique Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Montreal Posts: 1,830	eric, I agree with you in almost all points but when you claim pleasure... How often do we hear about women (because men are easy to please, that's why) which did not enjoy their first times, or even did not reach any orgasms until they were advanced in their sexuality... from personal experience eric, I'd agree with you, but it's not everybody alike I'd say virginity is lost when your mind believes it is, indeed... there is no way for a guy to tell if he's virgin or not, but by the interractions of his neurones... while a woman can loose her hyphen only by having a little fun with herself...

08-11-2001, 10:19 AM	#20
TheWatcher Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico Posts: 563	Going for a funny here. =o) "Im a virgin 6 times running.. Even my wife says I've never touched her.. But the kids say different." ------------------ - TheWatcher Peace will come, just kill them all... MyGayLinX MyGayLinX - TGP MyGayLinX - TGP Submitter MyGayLinX - Webmaster ToolBox XboYX - TGP

08-11-2001, 07:48 PM	#21
Rice_Master Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 1,582	Why would any guy turn down an easy fuck? he must me dumb if you ask me.

08-11-2001, 08:27 PM	#22
bunky Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Charlotte NC USA Posts: 902	In my opinion, If he got tha ass no matter if it was 5 seconds or 5 hours cause from what i hear mah roommate only lasts about 45 seconds and he considers it having sex... iuno id say he aint a virign. but try. http://www.askjeeves.com he might know ;D -bunky

08-12-2001, 12:32 AM	#23
jimmy-3-way Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Transform my name to numbers it'd be 121058710. Posts: 3,861	I think you guys are missing the point entirely, this guy is smooooooooove. From now on I'm telling all the virgins I meet that I'm a virgin too....and we can lose our virginity together...on a very special night...like uh...Thursday.

08-12-2001, 12:58 AM	#24
kingpapa Registered User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: fl Posts: 2	if you can slip it in a few times and still be a virgin can i slip it in a few times and tell my girlfriend i didnt cheat?

08-12-2001, 02:44 AM	#25
drumsicle Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: St. Louis Posts: 1,049	He is a half virgin. Technically he is NOT a virgin, but probably feels like one just the same. If he tells this girl "I'm a virgin" and leaves it at that, he isn't being honest. However, if he tells her about his experience, she understands that he's the closest thing to being a virgin without actually being one.