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qw12er · 12-19-2004, 01:15 PM

I went out for 5 years with a girl. Last year we splitted up and after a little while we became friends again.

4 months a go we her, me and my new girlfriend went to a restaurant dicussed and laugh for like 4 hours. Two weeks later she hated me like hell. Now she don't even reply to me or just bitch me an answer when I call home to speak to her brother...

Can you explain to me why did she, for no apparent reason, made a 180 degree switch ???

(P.S. I don't love her any moore ... it's just that I feel like I lost a good friend)

I Like Chocolate · 12-19-2004, 01:17 PM

Thats a tough one to figure. Makes no sense.

Harmon · 12-19-2004, 01:17 PM

Because she thinks you are an asshole. That would be my first guess. Maybe she thinks your sausage is a bit on the cocktail weiner side? That would be my second

qw12er · 12-19-2004, 01:23 PM

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Originally posted by Harmon
Because she thinks you are an asshole. That would be my first guess. Maybe she thinks your sausage is a bit on the cocktail weiner side? That would be my second

you are one fucking genius ! You don't even know your own gender !

Wow what an idiot

Vanilla DeVille · 12-19-2004, 01:24 PM

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Originally posted by qw12er
I went out for 5 years with a girl. Last year we splitted up and after a little while we became friends again.

4 months a go we her, me and my new girlfriend went to a restaurant dicussed and laugh for like 4 hours. Two weeks later she hated me like hell. Now she don't even reply to me or just bitch me an answer when I call home to speak to her brother...

Can you explain to me why did she, for no apparent reason, made a 180 degree switch ???

(P.S. I don't love her any moore ... it's just that I feel like I lost a good friend)

Unfortunately, even I can't figure out woman... We are truely an amazing breed!

SugarSusan · 12-19-2004, 01:35 PM

mayb she still like u and shes jealous of ur new gf.... hmm u should know that we r (women) kinda comlplicated! sometimes we prefer to live so fuckin sad or mad before tell to a man wot da hell is going on!!

qw12er · 12-19-2004, 01:36 PM

Some of my friends think she is jealous because I've been dating a lot of women since then... (9 in a year).

Could that be the reason ? (Her brother probably told her cause I meat a lot of girl while clubbing with him.)

Some other friends think they started to love me again ... and since she knows she can't get back with me than she choosed to hate me instead ? I found that theory kind of strange ... but could that be it ?

tinytina · 12-19-2004, 01:36 PM

I'd have to say it's probably jealousy. You let her meet your new girl, she sees how well you are treating the other girl and gets pissed. Nevermind the fact that you laughed together the enitre night - women are crazy like that. They can want to kill each other but still act like best friends. And it doesn't necessarily mean she still has feelings for you (although that is a possibility), she just sees that you are giving someone else the love/attention that was once hers and she hate it.

BradM · 12-19-2004, 01:36 PM

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Originally posted by SugarSusan
mayb she still like u and shes jealous of ur new gf.... hmm u should know that we r (women) kinda comlplicated! sometimes we prefer to live so fuckin sad or mad before tell to a man wot da hell is going on!!

I just barely understood what that was saying. But she's right.

qw12er · 12-19-2004, 01:38 PM

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Originally posted by SugarSusan
mayb she still like u and shes jealous of ur new gf.... hmm u should know that we r (women) kinda comlplicated! sometimes we prefer to live so fuckin sad or mad before tell to a man wot da hell is going on!!

but she have a boyfriend now and I don't have a g/f anymoore ... (Well she have a boyfriend who lives in Belgium and we live in Canada ... ) Sorry but

Elli · 12-19-2004, 01:40 PM

She's jealous of your hapiness with your new girl. Every time she sees you it reminds her of when she was your girlfriend. Best to not see her again, at least until she's over you.

Sarah_Jayne · 12-19-2004, 01:43 PM

two questions:

1. Did you at anytime go to the bar, toliet, etc and leave the two of them alone.

2. What did you talk about when all three of you were together. If you at all said anything she might take as lessening your relationship (even as a joke) it may have tripped things in her head.

azguy · 12-19-2004, 01:43 PM

http://www.moveon.org

Sarah_Jayne · 12-19-2004, 01:45 PM

apparently I know longer remember to put question marks on questions.

qw12er · 12-19-2004, 01:49 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
two questions:

1. Did you at anytime go to the bar, toliet, etc and leave the two of them alone.

2. What did you talk about when all three of you were together. If you at all said anything she might take as lessening your relationship (even as a joke) it may have tripped things in her head.

I don't remember but I don't think I've leaved them alone ...

and Yes I did make a lot of joke on our passed relationship, but she look ok with it ... (I leaved her because she told me she loved an other man ... so if anyone should have been upset, it'd be me ...)

qw12er · 12-19-2004, 01:52 PM

but now my question is should I write her to ask for explainations or I would just make things worst ?

(it really bother me than a girl after 5 years of love and 6 months as a friend could turn her back on me for no reason... I don't really have a family so friendship really matter to me and losing a friend is always painful)

chase · 12-19-2004, 01:56 PM

It hurts her to see you, so it's easier to hate you than admit she made a mistake. Her level of maturity is not at a point where she can take responsibility for her actions and be honest with her feelings, so let it go, honey.
In time, either she will grow up and be able to let the past go, including what she did to mess things up, or it just won't matter to you anymore if she does or not.

Furious_Female · 12-19-2004, 02:05 PM

Maybe it took her going out with you and your new girlfriend to realize she can't be friends with you. For most people it's usually all or nothing... very VERY hard to maintain a friendship with an ex. There's so much tension and sometimes unresolved feelings. If you do not want to ever be with her again or whatever the case may be... let it go. Let her move on 100% and you move on. It just won't work if there's any type of tension or feelings between you 2, especially if it's one sided.

The Bootyologist · 12-19-2004, 02:10 PM

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Originally posted by Furious_Female
Maybe it took her going out with you and your new girlfriend to realize she can't be friends with you. For most people it's usually all or nothing... very VERY hard to maintain a friendship with an ex. There's so much tension and sometimes unresolved feelings. If you do not want to ever be with her again or whatever the case may be... let it go. Let her move on 100% and you move on. It just won't work if there's any type of tension or feelings between you 2, especially if it's one sided.

agreed

unless you have some hope of a future romantic relationship with this girl, you and she have to make a 100% clean break

it sucks but that's how life is

Webmasters2005 · 12-19-2004, 02:13 PM

Stop farting and you get her back

qw12er · 12-19-2004, 02:22 PM

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Originally posted by The Bootyologist
agreed

unless you have some hope of a future romantic relationship with this girl, you and she have to make a 100% clean break

it sucks but that's how life is

ok but the question is how do you make realize her that she still have tensions/feelings ? On my side it's really clear ... so it's not an issue

Head · 12-19-2004, 02:39 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
She's jealous of your hapiness with your new girl. Every time she sees you it reminds her of when she was your girlfriend. Best to not see her again, at least until she's over you.

Violetta · 12-19-2004, 03:01 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
She's jealous of your hapiness with your new girl. Every time she sees you it reminds her of when she was your girlfriend. Best to not see her again, at least until she's over you.

Listen to the girls

I agree.

12-19-2004, 01:15 PM	#1
qw12er Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Montreal Posts: 799	Question for GFY chicks I went out for 5 years with a girl. Last year we splitted up and after a little while we became friends again. 4 months a go we her, me and my new girlfriend went to a restaurant dicussed and laugh for like 4 hours. Two weeks later she hated me like hell. Now she don't even reply to me or just bitch me an answer when I call home to speak to her brother... Can you explain to me why did she, for no apparent reason, made a 180 degree switch ??? (P.S. I don't love her any moore ... it's just that I feel like I lost a good friend) __________________ I have nothing to advertise ... yet.

12-19-2004, 01:17 PM	#3
Harmon ( ͡ʘ╭͜ʖ╮͡ʘ) Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 20,006	Because she thinks you are an asshole. That would be my first guess. Maybe she thinks your sausage is a bit on the cocktail weiner side? That would be my second __________________ [email protected]

12-19-2004, 01:35 PM	#6
SugarSusan Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 157	mayb she still like u and shes jealous of ur new gf.... hmm u should know that we r (women) kinda comlplicated! sometimes we prefer to live so fuckin sad or mad before tell to a man wot da hell is going on!! __________________ Adult Dating Community The Ultimate XXX Dating Affiliate Program is FINALLY Here!!!

12-19-2004, 01:36 PM	#7
qw12er Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Montreal Posts: 799	Some of my friends think she is jealous because I've been dating a lot of women since then... (9 in a year). Could that be the reason ? (Her brother probably told her cause I meat a lot of girl while clubbing with him.) Some other friends think they started to love me again ... and since she knows she can't get back with me than she choosed to hate me instead ? I found that theory kind of strange ... but could that be it ? __________________ I have nothing to advertise ... yet.

12-19-2004, 01:40 PM	#11
Elli Reach for those stars! Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 17,991	She's jealous of your hapiness with your new girl. Every time she sees you it reminds her of when she was your girlfriend. Best to not see her again, at least until she's over you. __________________ Make More Money with Cams and Dating at FFN.com! email: [email protected]

12-19-2004, 01:17 PM	#2
I Like Chocolate Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 821	Thats a tough one to figure. Makes no sense.

12-19-2004, 01:36 PM	#8
tinytina Registered User Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 40	I'd have to say it's probably jealousy. You let her meet your new girl, she sees how well you are treating the other girl and gets pissed. Nevermind the fact that you laughed together the enitre night - women are crazy like that. They can want to kill each other but still act like best friends. And it doesn't necessarily mean she still has feelings for you (although that is a possibility), she just sees that you are giving someone else the love/attention that was once hers and she hate it.

12-19-2004, 01:43 PM	#12
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	two questions: 1. Did you at anytime go to the bar, toliet, etc and leave the two of them alone. 2. What did you talk about when all three of you were together. If you at all said anything she might take as lessening your relationship (even as a joke) it may have tripped things in her head.

12-19-2004, 01:43 PM	#13
azguy Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Scottsdale, AZ Posts: 5,167	http://www.moveon.org

12-19-2004, 01:45 PM	#14
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	apparently I know longer remember to put question marks on questions.

12-19-2004, 01:52 PM	#16
qw12er Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Montreal Posts: 799	but now my question is should I write her to ask for explainations or I would just make things worst ? (it really bother me than a girl after 5 years of love and 6 months as a friend could turn her back on me for no reason... I don't really have a family so friendship really matter to me and losing a friend is always painful) __________________ I have nothing to advertise ... yet.

12-19-2004, 01:56 PM	#17
chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	It hurts her to see you, so it's easier to hate you than admit she made a mistake. Her level of maturity is not at a point where she can take responsibility for her actions and be honest with her feelings, so let it go, honey. In time, either she will grow up and be able to let the past go, including what she did to mess things up, or it just won't matter to you anymore if she does or not. __________________ Need Hosting? Reality Check Network services me purrrfectly!

12-19-2004, 02:05 PM	#18
Furious_Female Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Upstate, New York Posts: 8,187	Maybe it took her going out with you and your new girlfriend to realize she can't be friends with you. For most people it's usually all or nothing... very VERY hard to maintain a friendship with an ex. There's so much tension and sometimes unresolved feelings. If you do not want to ever be with her again or whatever the case may be... let it go. Let her move on 100% and you move on. It just won't work if there's any type of tension or feelings between you 2, especially if it's one sided. __________________ Skype: j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue

12-19-2004, 02:13 PM	#20
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