Dating Single Moms?

[reynold]

Anyone on here dated somebody with a child? I'm just curious because I am considering dating one, and there's that myth that if 'she has a baby, its a NO!"

[sickkittens]

Another question?

[adamneve]

it's called banging

[budz]

Originally Posted by reynold

Anyone on here dated somebody with a child? I'm just curious because I am considering dating one, and there's that myth that if 'she has a baby, its a NO!"

you like babysitting?

[Pete-KT]

I have and its not that bad, dated her when her daughter was 4 month old and all the way till she was 2 years old. The only thing is you will most likely get attached to the kid, so be careful if its not somethign you want. I still talk to my ex and send Tori gifts once in a while. So give it a try if you like the girl but dont let anyone tell you not to do it because its a girl with lugage, I am glad i didnt listen to people and dated her.

Pete

[Spunky]

It doesn't bother me,usually they are really horny

[plyndrty]

I don't know what myth you are talking about because from what I understand if she has a kid atleast you know she fucks...

[MickeyG]

Raising someone elses kid sucks and its not worth it at all. You spend all this time getting attached and trying to teach the kid only to have it ripped away from you because the mother is a slut and went off and cheated on you while you were home watching her kid. It hardly ever works out and the guy always loses.

[bigdog]

if you get attached to kids easily proably not a good idea

[Vitasoy]

Depends how attached the kid is to their mother, and at what age.

[psili]

Single moms rock, especially if they're divorced -- they have this chip on their shoulder to go out and show men that it wasn't their fault the divorce happened, so they're usually pretty freaky and very, very giving.

However, don't be a fucking prick and "snatch the pooty" just to get laid, because there's a kid involved and fucking with a kids emotions is a horrible, horrible thing.

[Herb Kornfield]

It depends on a few things that I have encountered since my wife had a 5 year old when we met 7 years ago.

- Does the child live with the mother full time / part time / only on weekends?
- How involved is the father in the child's life?
- How involved is the father with the mother?
- How old is the child?
- What is your comfort level with the father if he's around?
- What do you think of having to do quite a bit of activities that are kid centric?

In my case, My wife and her ex were already broken up for 5 years when I met her. The father was involved in the child's life to an extent but, tried his hardest to make things difficult for me and her to do almost anything. If he had to drop his kid off at 7pm, that meant a window of 5pm to 10pm I came to find.

He continued to be as difficult as possible with me with phone calls, emails, trying to see if I'd leave the picture. I tried to be as calm as possible since there is a child involved here that loves her father and I dont want to upset her.

It came down to us both just knocking on his door one day and confronting him to lay it out that he is the childs father and that is it. There are no other aspects of our life that are of his concern. He was pissed and still vents to this day, however, not nearly as much as he once did.

If you are willing to take on what comes with the terrority then, it can be cool, just be aware of what you are walking into when it comes to being around people's kids and the new man in mom's life.

[Va2k]

I know it is hard as a single father of two kids to get a date without paying for it :love-smil But I would if she was a good person.

Tom

[dodger21]

They're horny but the drama and baggage is just not worth it.

[titmowse]

just don't shoplift the pootie

[slapass]

Take her and the kid to one of those Hot Zone type of things. it is cheaper then a spendy dinner. the kid will be tired as hell and she will be so greatful, she will rub the hair off your nuts. Works every time.

[brand0n]

tons of single moms out there. if you say no to that entire group your missing out on alot of action.

[chase]

I was a single mom for 6 years before I married my husband.
I always kept my boyfriends separate from my son until it because something I coudl see lasting some time-even though it usually didn't end up that way, lol.
It was really hard to go out, but if I wanted to go bad enough, I'd pay a sitter or my mom would watch him.
His father wasn't around until he was four, so I didn't have any of those ex issues.
A single mom is just like any other girl, but try to remember she is struggling to make her way in this world with only half of the full equation. It is really hard when there is no one else to help you, and sometimes you do hope your knight in shining armor will come riding in and resue you, so single moms may be ready for something more serious that you are ready for. Just be honest with her about it...don't make future plans if you don't mean it, and hold off on meeting the kids until you are more sure of where it is going.

[bvds]

only if she gets a babysitter for the kid

[chase]

Originally Posted by chase

I was a single mom for 6 years before I married my husband.
I always kept my boyfriends separate from my son until it because something I coudl see lasting some time-even though it usually didn't end up that way, lol.
It was really hard to go out, but if I wanted to go bad enough, I'd pay a sitter or my mom would watch him.
His father wasn't around until he was four, so I didn't have any of those ex issues.
A single mom is just like any other girl, but try to remember she is struggling to make her way in this world with only half of the full equation. It is really hard when there is no one else to help you, and sometimes you do hope your knight in shining armor will come riding in and resue you, so single moms may be ready for something more serious that you are ready for. Just be honest with her about it...don't make future plans if you don't mean it, and hold off on meeting the kids until you are more sure of where it is going.

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[BV]

Twice! I said I would never do it again after the first wife of almost 10 years, but I met my new girl and she is way hot and super nice to me!

Everybody was a kid once. My real dad and mom divorced when I was a baby, they were 17 & 18. I grew up having 2 different step dads so I guess I'm used to it. To this day I still don't call my biological father dad or any variation of. I was never forced to call my stepdads dad, I just called them by their name. So I am probably more conditioned for such a relationship as this.

I can't lie though, sometimes I wonder WTF I am doing! lol
:D

[r3ap3r]

I say go for it. I have found that single mothers are the horniest beasts alive. She will tear your member apart. Go for it.

[Scrapper]

Originally Posted by Herb Kornfield

It depends on a few things that I have encountered since my wife had a 5 year old when we met 7 years ago.

- Does the child live with the mother full time / part time / only on weekends?
- How involved is the father in the child's life?
- How involved is the father with the mother?
- How old is the child?
- What is your comfort level with the father if he's around?
- What do you think of having to do quite a bit of activities that are kid centric?

In my case, My wife and her ex were already broken up for 5 years when I met her. The father was involved in the child's life to an extent but, tried his hardest to make things difficult for me and her to do almost anything. If he had to drop his kid off at 7pm, that meant a window of 5pm to 10pm I came to find.

He continued to be as difficult as possible with me with phone calls, emails, trying to see if I'd leave the picture. I tried to be as calm as possible since there is a child involved here that loves her father and I dont want to upset her.

It came down to us both just knocking on his door one day and confronting him to lay it out that he is the childs father and that is it. There are no other aspects of our life that are of his concern. He was pissed and still vents to this day, however, not nearly as much as he once did.

If you are willing to take on what comes with the terrority then, it can be cool, just be aware of what you are walking into when it comes to being around people's kids and the new man in mom's life.

Nice answers, but here are few others I have ran in to:

-It?s almost impossible to be spontaneous

-You will never be first in the relationship

-She will rarely sleepover after a date

I can list many many more, but I try never to date a single mom unless I am going for the long term..

[Huggles]

Originally Posted by dodger21

They're horny but the drama and baggage is just not worth it.

Totally right