Can you ever really trust someone? - GoFuckYourself.com

SleazyDream · 12-09-2004, 03:26 AM

trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

how do you get to that point?

discuss

TheFrog · 12-09-2004, 03:28 AM

Trust is built on delivered promises.

At least in my book anyway. If someone's as good as their word, I trust them a little bit more.

The only people I trust by default are my family.

detoxed · 12-09-2004, 03:29 AM

I would guess it would take years and years of no fuckups and thinking in a very similiar way. And both parties must have something to lose by breaking the trust.

SleazyDream · 12-09-2004, 03:31 AM

i feel sorry for both of you

iFliPcEss · 12-09-2004, 03:33 AM

I learned my lessons the hardest way you coulc ever imagine, and it is really hard for me to trust once again, but if there is one person that i really trust it has to be my mom

Manowar · 12-09-2004, 03:33 AM

i trust everyone until they fuck me over, then they lose my trust. i think my system works well

Theo · 12-09-2004, 03:35 AM

i feel sorry for all five of you

Harmon · 12-09-2004, 04:35 AM

Nope. You can't. The only person you can TRULY ever trust is yourself. If you claim to trust someone other than yourself, you are doing nothing more than humoring yourself and putting your rotten and skeptical mind at ease, even for just a few minutes.

Theo · 12-09-2004, 04:38 AM

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Originally posted by Harmon
Nope. You can't. The only person you can TRULY ever trust is yourself. If you claim to trust someone other than yourself, you are doing nothing more than humoring yourself and putting your rotten and skeptical mind at ease, even for just a few minutes.

don't you trust your family?

The_Oracle_Porn · 12-09-2004, 04:41 AM

I trust only one person in this world.
Myself.

Harmon · 12-09-2004, 04:41 AM

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Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
don't you trust your family?

To a certain extent. I have just learned through whatever avenues that I have crossed throughout my life not to give 100% of it away.

The_Oracle_Porn · 12-09-2004, 04:43 AM

"true friends" bla bla bla is a fucking myth.

Living For Today · 12-09-2004, 04:44 AM

You never know what can happen in life. ANYTHING is possible.

div3x · 12-09-2004, 07:00 AM

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Originally posted by The_Oracle_Porn
I trust only one person in this world.
Myself.

me too

Shoehorn! · 12-09-2004, 07:03 AM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

how do you get to that point?

discuss

I don't think you ever SHOULD trust someone 100%. To me, I always question all motives behind what people are doing. If someone says hi to me, I think "oh, that was nice of them," but right after that I think "I wonder what they want."

Mutt · 12-09-2004, 07:05 AM

you MIGHT be able to put your trust 100% in ONE or TWO people in this life and they are usually family. Also depends on what you consider a breach of trust - some people are overly sensitive, so ANY slight wrongdoing by somebody they care about is taken as a serious breach of trust when to most other people it wouldn't.

even the nicest people with alot of integrity have an agenda - their own. the only people i think you could be able to trust 100% are people who would die for you basically, and that would be family, a parent usually. they have no other agenda than you being happy, not for them, but for yourself. That said, I don't trust my mother farther than I could throw her. My old man was the only one I could trust 100%. Siblings - at one point i thought i could but I realized they have their own agenda as well.

Once you start mixing in sex/romance/serious relationship/marriage, gets dicey. There are agendas there and expectations that sometimes never get mentioned - until things break down under the pressure of real life.

Most Likely To Be 100% Trustworthy

1. Parent
2. One best friend, long long time best friend
3. Sibling
4. Lover

coolfuck · 12-09-2004, 07:08 AM

no .. i only trust myself

Herb Kornfield · 12-09-2004, 07:08 AM

Just my immediate family and thats it.

Alot of people will talk shit about being freinds, partners and all that happy lovey shit.... Then get some money involved and you'll see the real personalities come thru...

Anytime there is money involved, dont trust a motherfucker at all or you'll wind up looking for places to hide the bodies.

chemicaleyes · 12-09-2004, 07:11 AM

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Originally posted by TheSmutPeddlerDOTcom
I don't think you ever SHOULD trust someone 100%. To me, I always question all motives behind what people are doing. If someone says hi to me, I think "oh, that was nice of them," but right after that I think "I wonder what they want."

monaro · 12-09-2004, 07:18 AM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

how do you get to that point?

discuss

One would consider that the person you decide to tie the knot with in marriage.

When only once trust is broken, marriage then follows suite. Something I learned long time ago with my marriage breakdown.

chodadog · 12-09-2004, 07:19 AM

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Originally posted by Manowar
i trust everyone until they fuck me over, then they lose my trust. i think my system works well

Fuck that.

I trust very few people. I take the odd leap of faith, but it's normally a calculated risk and has nothing to do with trusting the other person. The only people i trust one hundred percent are my family, less than a handful of close friends and a few people i've done business with. Everyone else can eat my ass until they earn my trust.

groark · 12-09-2004, 07:27 AM

Well.... It's really hard or impossible to know what twisted ways thouhgts of other humans go.. I know mine are twisted

kmanrox · 12-09-2004, 07:28 AM

Never trust ANYBODY, EVER.

One of my Jewish friends told me this.

Trixxxia · 12-09-2004, 07:30 AM

My way of working is everyone has 'level 1' trust to start - they are tested - they are checked & rechecked and if they are good, they get to level 2 - then the tests start again & so on until level 5 - The only person on level 5 is my husband - he's been put through all tests & comes through with flying colors & nobody ever has.

My father always warned me that respect & trust was earned, not acquired through relation - I always keep that in mind.

EyesWideShut · 12-09-2004, 07:33 AM

There are different levels of trust. For example, I trust myself with my credit card #. I trust my family with a key to my house. I trust a friend with my phone #. So I guess I trust everybody but at the same time I don't trust anybody 100%

Rebel D · 12-09-2004, 07:56 AM

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Originally posted by Manowar
i trust everyone until they fuck me over, then they lose my trust. i think my system works well

I agree With that as wel there are different levels of trust. i wouldn;t lend $1000 to someone i just met. but someone i have known for years i can do it. But if you fuck me over once you get nothing from me

Fred Quimby · 12-09-2004, 08:30 AM

I trust my 3 year old daughter more that most people

2HousePlague · 06-02-2006, 10:51 PM

Yes, I think so.

2hp

KRL · 06-02-2006, 11:16 PM

I trust my kid and my dogs and I'm grateful for that.

germ · 06-02-2006, 11:56 PM

yes

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Tempest · 06-03-2006, 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

how do you get to that point?

discuss

The correct answer is... no... not even yourself...

Anal Hobbit · 06-03-2006, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

trust, can you REALLY trust - truly trust - another human being?

how do you get to that point?

discuss

Trust them with what???

Anal Hobbit · 06-03-2006, 12:13 AM

Trust Jesus...

If you cant trust Jesus who can you trust???

Dang.. That sounds familiar....

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Harmon ( ͡ʘ╭͜ʖ╮͡ʘ) Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 20,010	Nope. You can't. The only person you can TRULY ever trust is yourself. If you claim to trust someone other than yourself, you are doing nothing more than humoring yourself and putting your rotten and skeptical mind at ease, even for just a few minutes. __________________ [email protected]

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Mutt Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 34,431	you MIGHT be able to put your trust 100% in ONE or TWO people in this life and they are usually family. Also depends on what you consider a breach of trust - some people are overly sensitive, so ANY slight wrongdoing by somebody they care about is taken as a serious breach of trust when to most other people it wouldn't. even the nicest people with alot of integrity have an agenda - their own. the only people i think you could be able to trust 100% are people who would die for you basically, and that would be family, a parent usually. they have no other agenda than you being happy, not for them, but for yourself. That said, I don't trust my mother farther than I could throw her. My old man was the only one I could trust 100%. Siblings - at one point i thought i could but I realized they have their own agenda as well. Once you start mixing in sex/romance/serious relationship/marriage, gets dicey. There are agendas there and expectations that sometimes never get mentioned - until things break down under the pressure of real life. Most Likely To Be 100% Trustworthy 1. Parent 2. One best friend, long long time best friend 3. Sibling 4. Lover __________________ I moved my sites to Vacares Hosting. I've saved money, my hair is thicker, lost some weight too! Thanks Sly! Last edited by Mutt; 12-09-2004 at 07:09 AM..

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12-09-2004, 03:28 AM	#2
TheFrog Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 4,095	Trust is built on delivered promises. At least in my book anyway. If someone's as good as their word, I trust them a little bit more. The only people I trust by default are my family.

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detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	I would guess it would take years and years of no fuckups and thinking in a very similiar way. And both parties must have something to lose by breaking the trust.

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iFliPcEss Registered User Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 3,087	I learned my lessons the hardest way you coulc ever imagine, and it is really hard for me to trust once again, but if there is one person that i really trust it has to be my mom

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Manowar jellyfish Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 71,528	i trust everyone until they fuck me over, then they lose my trust. i think my system works well

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Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	i feel sorry for all five of you

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The_Oracle_Porn So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 563	I trust only one person in this world. Myself.

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The_Oracle_Porn So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 563	"true friends" bla bla bla is a fucking myth.

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Herb Kornfield Is on the 1 Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Philly Burbs Posts: 4,996	Just my immediate family and thats it. Alot of people will talk shit about being freinds, partners and all that happy lovey shit.... Then get some money involved and you'll see the real personalities come thru... Anytime there is money involved, dont trust a motherfucker at all or you'll wind up looking for places to hide the bodies.

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groark So Fucking Banned Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Germany Posts: 1,966	Well.... It's really hard or impossible to know what twisted ways thouhgts of other humans go.. I know mine are twisted

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kmanrox aka K-Man Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: The Gutter Posts: 29,292	Never trust ANYBODY, EVER. One of my Jewish friends told me this. __________________ Crypto HODLr Crypto mining Angel investor

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Trixxxia Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 5,600	My way of working is everyone has 'level 1' trust to start - they are tested - they are checked & rechecked and if they are good, they get to level 2 - then the tests start again & so on until level 5 - The only person on level 5 is my husband - he's been put through all tests & comes through with flying colors & nobody ever has. My father always warned me that respect & trust was earned, not acquired through relation - I always keep that in mind.

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EyesWideShut Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 354	There are different levels of trust. For example, I trust myself with my credit card #. I trust my family with a key to my house. I trust a friend with my phone #. So I guess I trust everybody but at the same time I don't trust anybody 100% __________________ $$$$$$ $$$$$$ $$$$$$

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germ ( o Y o ) Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 3,108	yes </thread>

06-03-2006, 12:13 AM	#33
Anal Hobbit So Fucking Banned Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Old Skool GFY Negro Posts: 2,308	Trust Jesus... If you cant trust Jesus who can you trust??? Dang.. That sounds familiar....