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Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 11:40 AM

She is sorta bored just hanging around the house all day.

We dont need the money...but she thinks it would be nice for her to be doing something.

I dont know what to tell her....we will have kids in maybe one year. So she can take care of them better if she isnt working.

Maybe i should get her making galleries or some shit to keep her busy....lol
jokes

She can go shopping or some shit with her friends each day.

If she was going to be doing any work..id rather it was just for us....maybe she can start another little store or something.

i need her here for gochew baggie

ronaldo · 04-19-2007, 11:41 AM

You're the man, you're the boss. She should do what you want her to do. WHAT do you want her to do?

EBORG9 · 04-19-2007, 11:45 AM

Dude, i can't find a girl that will pay for dinner once in a while.
Let her do something. You are fortunate to have a woman that is mature, responsible and giving.
You should look at it as an honor, and be proud of the kind of Lady you have.
It's not like she's going to be running Intel in the next few months, and can't take off for kids, if that is in your future.

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by ronaldo

You're the man, you're the boss. She should do what you want her to do. WHAT do you want her to do?

i want here to stay home and keep me company..lol

go to the gym with me in the mornings or early afternoon

keep me well fed etc

we are a team

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by EBORG9

Dude, i can't find a girl that will pay for dinner once in a while.
Let her do something. You are fortunate to have a woman that is mature, responsible and giving.
You should look at it as an honor, and be proud of the kind of Lady you have.
It's not like she's going to be running Intel in the next few months, and can't take off for kids, if that is in your future.

true enough...maybe i should give here a fixed allowance or something so she always has her "own" money

ronaldo · 04-19-2007, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

i want here to stay home and keep me company..lol

go to the gym with me in the mornings or early afternoon

keep me well fed etc

we are a team

Then she stays home. Problem solved.

J. Falcon · 04-19-2007, 11:48 AM

Let her do what she wants.

Elli · 04-19-2007, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

i want here to stay home and keep me company..lol

go to the gym with me in the mornings or early afternoon

keep me well fed etc

we are a team

She sounds like she needs something a little more challenging than keeping her man well fed.

What about a summer project like landscaping the yard or doing volunteer work?

ronaldo · 04-19-2007, 11:50 AM

Seriously though, my wife stayed home for a year to work with me and was miserable. She wanted to spend more time with the kids and have more freedom, but after a couple of months found herself missing the adult interaction she got outside the home.

So I allowed her to go back to work.

Sly · 04-19-2007, 11:50 AM

If you're not having kids for another year, she can still work up to that point. After that, I definitely think someone should stay home with the kids. I really don't understand the desire some have to send kids to a day-care type setting so both parents can work if it isn't really needed.

Anyway, where are the feminists of the board? How dare you think you can control your wife like that!

Ramos · 04-19-2007, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

go to the gym

Don't you have some content she could upload for you?

baddog · 04-19-2007, 11:53 AM

I did not let my first ex-wife work. Pretty dumb idea.

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Elli

She sounds like she needs something a little more challenging than keeping her man well fed.

What about a summer project like landscaping the yard or doing volunteer work?

landscaping the yard wouldbe perfect

she is girly girly though...korean girly girly which is a step above..lol

however you never know....volunteer work sounds cool..and would probably make her happy

Shakula · 04-19-2007, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

She is sorta bored just hanging around the house all day.

We dont need the money...but she thinks it would be nice for her to be doing something.

I dont know what to tell her....we will have kids in maybe one year. So she can take care of them better if she isnt working.

Maybe i should get her making galleries or some shit to keep her busy....lol
jokes

She can go shopping or some shit with her friends each day.

If she was going to be doing any work..id rather it was just for us....maybe she can start another little store or something.

i need her here for gochew baggie

Here´s what you do.
When she comes home today, you tell her you need to talk to her.
Take her to your livingroom and go close to her and give her the hardest bitchslap ever known to man. And say, you will stay home and take care of the house, food.

justsexxx · 04-19-2007, 11:54 AM

Should I let my wife work? Lol, doesn't your girl have an opinion herself?

BlackCrayon · 04-19-2007, 11:55 AM

I don't think i'd want to be with a girl who didn't work, or didn't want to work. I don't need someone bugging me all day while im trying to get shit done and its not like its the 50's any more. the more income the better i say.

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Ramos

Don't you have some content she could upload for you?

i do it myself i have a couple computers..so it is really just click and it goes..just sucks to wait for it.

dude i have been hitting the gym hard lately.
complete with cardio

im at 212lbs and the stomach is receding

in maybe 6 months ill be 205 or somethig and fairly fit

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by baddog

I did not let my first ex-wife work. Pretty dumb idea.

hmmm...maybe some wisdom here

id be fine if she could find something like a flower shop around the way

Elli · 04-19-2007, 11:59 AM

If you tell her that she and her friends are in charge of making the yard beautiful for a big summer party/bbq (pick a date to make it a real goal), she'll get excited about it. Heck, I'd love to do that!

WiredGuy · 04-19-2007, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

i need her here for gochew baggie

OMG

but seriously, its a nice feeling doing some sort of work, to make your life have meaning. Even if it doesn't pay well, sitting at home and doing nothing is really boring. Have her do something that takes up her time or have her find a hobby to enjoy life a little than having her do nothing than watch tv all day

WG

Jman · 04-19-2007, 12:00 PM

If you guys can live 24/7 together more power to you ;-)

Ramos · 04-19-2007, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

i do it myself i have a couple computers..so it is really just click and it goes..just sucks to wait for it.

dude i have been hitting the gym hard lately.
complete with cardio

im at 212lbs and the stomach is receding

in maybe 6 months ill be 205 or somethig and fairly fit

since you don't need anymore money, perhaps you can get some new shirts. I've seen that green one way too many times. Shit, I think I wore it one time. LMAO

Jman · 04-19-2007, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

I did not let my first ex-wife work. Pretty dumb idea.

Same thing for me

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Ramos

since you don't need anymore money, perhaps you can get some new shirts. I've seen that green one way too many times. Shit, I think I wore it one time. LMAO

my sergei shirt? i love that shrit man..lol

lets go shopping when you come here for the toronto show

Queen street has some cool shops..and you dont have to be a twink to fit the clothes

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy

OMG

but seriously, its a nice feeling doing some sort of work, to make your life have meaning. Even if it doesn't pay well, sitting at home and doing nothing is really boring. Have her do something that takes up her time or have her find a hobby to enjoy life a little than having her do nothing than watch tv all day

WG

yeah...dang..i guess i need to find her something close to home then.
i dont want her to be a regular job...something like 11-3 and close by.
she doesnt need the money...just somethign for her to do

i guess im the only one having fun being home all day..lol

Shakula · 04-19-2007, 12:06 PM

If you dont take control over this situation you will be divorced in the future.

Jimmy Rock · 04-19-2007, 12:07 PM

Let her start an Ebay store

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by JMan

If you guys can live 24/7 together more power to you ;-)

we are together 24/7 everyday now for years...save when i leave for biz etc

Jensen · 04-19-2007, 12:08 PM

would it be cool if she told you what to do?

DateDoc · 04-19-2007, 12:11 PM

Why don't you suggest she do some part time volunteer work. Lots of people need help and if you do not need the $$ it is a great way of giving back to society.

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Jensen

would it be cool if she told you what to do?

dude she tells me what to do everyday...when to wake up...when to work...when to stop slacking off...when to hang with my friends..lol

shes kinda my handler...but it is funny as she is korean so im the man

so dont take me wrong..im not dominating her on everything

we happily give in to each other on things

i guess i need to give in to her and let her find some happiness doing something outside the home.

fuzebox · 04-19-2007, 12:33 PM

Job??? WTF is she doing out of the kitchen

shoeaholicanon · 04-19-2007, 12:40 PM

she needs to do what SHE wants.
no husband is the BOSS...wtf comment was that?

k0nr4d · 04-19-2007, 12:49 PM

Your wife having a job is the first step to your wife cheating on you with her boss.

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 12:57 PM

i think id rather find somethig small for her to work on around here

maybe she can open an import/export business

hell we are shipping so many vitamins tokorea it isnt funny..we could charge for what we send and shed have pocket money..lol

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by shoeaholicanon

she needs to do what SHE wants.
no husband is the BOSS...wtf comment was that?

i dont date americanized girls

my wife is korean from korea....not even the same ballpark as dealing with a cdn or american girl

jonesonyou · 04-19-2007, 12:58 PM

get her setup on gfy with a sig.... get her a laptop and she can cruse around town to all the wifi hotspots and post here.

Dwreck · 04-19-2007, 01:31 PM

Phx you have very traditional values which I can appriacate however I would never enforce them.

some of the wording you use .......

Giving her permission to work is hilarious to me. What year is this.

Michaelious · 04-19-2007, 01:40 PM

If she wants to then, then it's not that you should let her.. It's up to her.

mattz · 04-19-2007, 01:42 PM

Maybe just have her get a part time job somewhere, sounds like she wants to get out of the house

mattz · 04-19-2007, 01:42 PM

Mcdonalds is hiring in your area, or if you want to take it a step up from that, try Burger King

Marie · 04-19-2007, 01:50 PM

Is she really waiting for you to give her your consent??

Damn. Once again I am glad I grew up in a western society. This truly sounds ridiculous to me.

Ssv · 04-19-2007, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix

true enough...maybe i should give here a fixed allowance or something so she always has her "own" money

allowance

She must be bored serving you all the time lol

Princess Ellisa · 04-19-2007, 02:15 PM

Let her get a job? Should it be your choice?

You know what I am going to say so I will not bother typing it out here but if I were you I would push her to go to work before she starts hanging out with me more often and she really learns more about Canadian Culture LOL

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Marie

Is she really waiting for you to give her your consent??

Damn. Once again I am glad I grew up in a western society. This truly sounds ridiculous to me.

WE are a team..we need consent on everything.

she asked me if she should as someone offered her a job as a wedding planner for korean people over here or something. In the end i think it is too far away.

She doesnt need the stress.
If she really wants to she can do it.

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Princess Ellisa

Let her get a job? Should it be your choice?

You know what I am going to say so I will not bother typing it out here but if I were you I would push her to go to work before she starts hanging out with me more often and she really learns more about Canadian Culture LOL

cripe i know...when we had the party the other night i was thinking..i shouldnt let her get too many ideas from Elissa..lol..jk

You know she will make it her choice....she doesnt really want a job...she wants something cool to do.. as it gets boring as fuck watching me work all day and night.

Phoenix · 04-19-2007, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by mattz

Mcdonalds is hiring in your area, or if you want to take it a step up from that, try Burger King

when i was 14 i worked at Mcdonalds.

and sure enough we had a lady...pretty hot milf bordering on older.

anyway she came to work in her little benz everyday, i cant remember the exact one, but it was obvious she was only there for the gossiping she got to do all day with the other ladies.

shekinah · 04-19-2007, 02:29 PM

Staying at home, watching the four corners of your room is boring.. You need to let your wife do as what she likes that will make her feel happy

ServerGenius · 04-19-2007, 02:32 PM

No man keep her chained down in the basement......ha jobs.....fuck jobs

lazycash · 04-19-2007, 02:36 PM

She could stay at home and submit galleries for Franck, I hear he pays pretty well.

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