Girlfriend Crap, What would you do? - GoFuckYourself.com

maxcom · 09-09-2002, 09:37 PM

Hey,
Got a girlfriend of 3 years. Been making money off porn secretely for a year now, making good money.

She today finds out and wants me either out of porn or out of her life, what would you do? Other than this crap the relationship is honestly perfect.

-max

JFPdude · 09-09-2002, 09:39 PM

Can you get me a beer hun on your way up to pack your shit ?

pentae · 09-09-2002, 09:39 PM

One Word: UPGRADE

quiet · 09-09-2002, 09:39 PM

m.o.b. lol

Joe Sixpack · 09-09-2002, 09:39 PM

Tell her to deal with it or get the fuck out.

Otherwise you'll be a little pussy-whipped bitch!

Brown Bear · 09-09-2002, 09:39 PM

Fuck her! Money is more important than a girlfriend.

maxcom · 09-09-2002, 09:40 PM

3 years though? And seriously, shes fucken amazing.

Dawgy · 09-09-2002, 09:40 PM

be gay.

JFPdude · 09-09-2002, 09:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by maxcom
3 years though? And seriously, shes fucken amazing.

I stick to my original answer .... you think there aren't more amazing girls out there ?

If my old lady didn't like what I did for a living and I had to change everything .... see ya !!!!!

playa · 09-09-2002, 09:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by quiet
m.o.b. lol

Money Over Bitches,,

edmo · 09-09-2002, 09:43 PM

take pictures of her sleeping naked and post them here.

BJ · 09-09-2002, 09:43 PM

explain to her that the only reason you do it is for $$$. explain to her that without this income, she can no longer have all of the nice things she has come to enjoy. Explain to her you are trying to build a comfortable future. Explain to her its marketing. Explain to her that you are simply selling whats in the highest demand in the curernt internet market.

Explain to her that without you, shes nothing

EscortBiz · 09-09-2002, 09:44 PM

dump her so many girls out there

Sly_RJ · 09-09-2002, 09:44 PM

Three years? So what! She's willing to drop you, right? Fuck her, literally, and then kick her out.

maxcom · 09-09-2002, 09:45 PM

Fuck, i think im going with PureMeds and if not then... oh well, anyone got a cute sister?

Brown Bear · 09-09-2002, 09:46 PM

how old are you?

maxcom · 09-09-2002, 09:47 PM

21

... lol here come the "dump the bitch" replies...

tree · 09-09-2002, 09:47 PM

if shes not down for you for who you are fuck the ho...theres millions of them and they all feel the same

my girlfriend loves the porn! i would show her a good bukkake video that should set her straight

BJ · 09-09-2002, 09:48 PM

do you have a day job? If not, and if you work at home, she needs to understand that from 9-5 or whatever you are working, just like at any normal job.

beerbust03 · 09-09-2002, 09:48 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by maxcom
Hey,
Got a girlfriend of 3 years. Been making money off porn secretely for a year now, making good money.

She today finds out and wants me either out of porn or out of her life, what would you do? Other than this crap the relationship is honestly perfect.

-max

This is from a girls point of view. You can take it or leave it. This is your life not her's. She knew who and what kind of person you were when she got with you. She probably already knew about the porn. We always suddenly know shit conveniently. Forget the relationship, fuck it. Your makin bank, your young, shit get somebody else. Nobody needs a negative playa hater around anyway. Okay?

<IMX> · 09-09-2002, 09:49 PM

Dude, I hope she's not living with you.
If she is you'd better check the common law marriage statues in your state...

maxcom · 09-09-2002, 09:49 PM

No day job. Contract work. I wish it was 9-5, its more like 9-11:30. Im gonna get off GFY and try to work this shit out. Will keep you guys updated.

edmo · 09-09-2002, 09:50 PM

take pictures so we can "see" how it's going.

Brown Bear · 09-09-2002, 09:50 PM

Dude! Your 21...its not like you're gonna get married. Nobody gets married anymore until they're like 32.

Ditch the bitch!

BJ · 09-09-2002, 09:51 PM

tell her to hang out at gfy for a week before she makes her final decision. Best advice ever!

FATPad · 09-09-2002, 09:51 PM

3 years and you didn't tell her in all that time you worked in porn?

Sounds like a solid relationship...

pornJester · 09-09-2002, 09:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Dawgy
be gay.

i concur... gay is in

tree · 09-09-2002, 09:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by beerbust03

This is from a girls point of view. You can take it or leave it. This is your life not her's. She knew who and what kind of person you were when she got with you. She probably already knew about the porn. We always suddenly know shit conveniently. Forget the relationship, fuck it. Your makin bank, your young, shit get somebody else. Nobody needs a negative playa hater around anyway. Okay?

your a man! admit it!

RogerV · 09-09-2002, 09:54 PM

Been there..
if its not this it will be something else.

3 years is a long time I feel your pain.

If you love her set her free if it's right then she will come back and its ment to be. Or something like that.

Porn just aint for everyone good luck!

tree · 09-09-2002, 09:56 PM

wait till shes sleeping and give her a facial

Brown Bear · 09-09-2002, 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tree
wait till shes sleeping and give her a facial

and hardcore anal pounding!

Turboface · 09-09-2002, 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by maxcom
Hey,
Got a girlfriend of 3 years. Been making money off porn secretely for a year now, making good money.

She today finds out and wants me either out of porn or out of her life, what would you do? Other than this crap the relationship is honestly perfect.

-max

Girlfriend problems? I feel for you.

Thomas N · 09-09-2002, 10:01 PM

Rent the movie "John Q" with Denzel Washington. Watch as she cries like a little bitch during the part where Denzel is telling his son goodbye as he is dying in the hospital bed. Watch as Denzel is about to blow his own brains out so his son can have his heart. Denzel's last words he tells to his son. Basically:

"Son, do what you have to do to have money in life. Sell out if you have to, but make money. Don't let this happen to you."

You see, his son was going to die because they couldn't afford medical care. As your girl is crying like a baby at that scene, you pause the movie and ask her if she agrees with what Denzel was saying. She'll be like fuck yeah I agree.

Then you tell her that is exactly what you are doing. You are doing what it takes so that you have money to take care of her and your future kids, that you aren't going to sit on your ass and let your children die someday because you can't afford health insurance and shit.

Maybe she will see the light...

Brown Bear · 09-09-2002, 10:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SwordFish
Rent the movie "John Q" with Denzel Washington. Watch as she cries like a little bitch during the part where Denzel is telling his son goodbye as he is dying in the hospital bed. Watch as Denzel is about to blow his own brains out so his son can have his heart. Denzel's last words he tells to his son. Basically:

"Son, do what you have to do to have money in life. Sell out if you have to, but make money. Don't let this happen to you."

You see, his son was going to die because they couldn't afford medical care. As your girl is crying like a baby at that scene, you pause the movie and ask her if she agrees with what Denzel was saying. She'll be like fuck yeah I agree.

Then you tell her that is exactly what you are doing. You are doing what it takes so that you have money to take care of her and your future kids, that you aren't going to sit on your ass and let your children die someday because you can't afford health insurance and shit.

That was deep.

Maybe she will see the light...

LiveDose · 09-09-2002, 10:06 PM

Ask her what she is insecure about regarding your work. Otherwise this could be more of a control thing. I agree with everything RogerV said.

Finally post a nude pic so we can all give you some serious advice.

Good luck man... We've all been there in one way or another.

BV · 09-09-2002, 10:06 PM

what is your definition of "good money" and just how amazing is she?

if the money is that good and she is that amazing just say:

ok honey i would rather have you over this porn money any day!

then hide your porn shit better in the future!

cheers,
BV

Theo · 09-09-2002, 10:08 PM

wow, a girlfriend will decide the way you'll make your living.......

great

Jaded_Fool · 09-09-2002, 10:11 PM

Hey Turboface I read that post, not good man :/

As for the question, I recently offered my brother some work making some sites as he's just had a kid and needs all the money he can get.
His gf said no.
"I dont care how good the pay is, I dont want you doing it!".

What I think it comes down to is being close minded, my opinion is try and convince her it's just a money thing, it's not like you beat off over it all day! (do you?)

Otherwise fuck her off, anyone willing to throw away a 3 year relationship over your profession isnt worth DICK.

Thomas N · 09-09-2002, 10:14 PM

Quote:

it's not like you beat off over it all day! (do you?)

Yes.

titmowse · 09-09-2002, 10:20 PM

"3 years and you didn't tell her in all that time you worked in porn?"

this is what i'm wondering. nobody breaks up over just one thing, especially after three years. perhaps she's pissed cause you've been lying to her for a whole year.

just a thought.

EscortBiz · 09-09-2002, 10:22 PM

sometimes this helps

quiet · 09-09-2002, 10:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by EscortBiz
sometimes this helps

hehe

Joe Sixpack · 09-09-2002, 10:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SwordFish
"Son, do what you have to do to have money in life. Sell out if you have to, but make money. Don't let this happen to you."

You see, his son was going to die because they couldn't afford medical care.

Socialized medicine is the answer!

wouncie · 09-09-2002, 10:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SwordFish
Rent the movie "John Q" with Denzel Washington. Watch as she cries like a little bitch during the part where Denzel is telling his son goodbye as he is dying in the hospital bed. Watch as Denzel is about to blow his own brains out so his son can have his heart. Denzel's last words he tells to his son. Basically:

"Son, do what you have to do to have money in life. Sell out if you have to, but make money. Don't let this happen to you."

You see, his son was going to die because they couldn't afford medical care. As your girl is crying like a baby at that scene, you pause the movie and ask her if she agrees with what Denzel was saying. She'll be like fuck yeah I agree.

Then you tell her that is exactly what you are doing. You are doing what it takes so that you have money to take care of her and your future kids, that you aren't going to sit on your ass and let your children die someday because you can't afford health insurance and shit.

Maybe she will see the light...

Thats fucked up, I didnt see the movie, yet I couldnt stop reading your reply

But back to the thread ....

I'd tell her "Pick a direction, .....Now GO in it!"

Nismo · 09-09-2002, 10:41 PM

wow she sounds like a beeeyotch

Theo · 09-09-2002, 10:54 PM

tell her that you love her and you do all these things in order to be able to buy her a big house and a convertible car.

When she will smile (this is for sure) and tells you that she didnt know that you could do all these things for her

SLAP her face and kick her out of home.

wouncie · 09-09-2002, 10:55 PM

Aww Fuck it.... Let me fuck her

Turboface · 09-09-2002, 11:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by wouncie
Aww Fuck it.... Let me fuck her

Let Boneprone fuck her.

wonton · 09-09-2002, 11:10 PM

i quickly scrolled this post looking for pics. there are no pics of your girlfriend. we could better evaluate the situation if we saw what she looked like, and we could do an even better job if we saw her breasts

Supercharged · 09-10-2002, 12:09 AM

A friend of mine in this business once told me, when I asked how I should break it to my current wife....

He told me to tell her that I was a porn star in hardcore straight, gay and group sex, and that I have made over 100 movies....

Then say, I was just kidding I only design adult pay sites...

worked like a charm... lol

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tree Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 1,601	if shes not down for you for who you are fuck the ho...theres millions of them and they all feel the same my girlfriend loves the porn! i would show her a good bukkake video that should set her straight

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RogerV Banned! Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 12,591	Been there.. if its not this it will be something else. 3 years is a long time I feel your pain. If you love her set her free if it's right then she will come back and its ment to be. Or something like that. Porn just aint for everyone good luck!

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tree Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 1,601	wait till shes sleeping and give her a facial

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Thomas N Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 973	Rent the movie "John Q" with Denzel Washington. Watch as she cries like a little bitch during the part where Denzel is telling his son goodbye as he is dying in the hospital bed. Watch as Denzel is about to blow his own brains out so his son can have his heart. Denzel's last words he tells to his son. Basically: "Son, do what you have to do to have money in life. Sell out if you have to, but make money. Don't let this happen to you." You see, his son was going to die because they couldn't afford medical care. As your girl is crying like a baby at that scene, you pause the movie and ask her if she agrees with what Denzel was saying. She'll be like fuck yeah I agree. Then you tell her that is exactly what you are doing. You are doing what it takes so that you have money to take care of her and your future kids, that you aren't going to sit on your ass and let your children die someday because you can't afford health insurance and shit. Maybe she will see the light...

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Jaded_Fool Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Australia Posts: 25	Hey Turboface I read that post, not good man :/ As for the question, I recently offered my brother some work making some sites as he's just had a kid and needs all the money he can get. His gf said no. "I dont care how good the pay is, I dont want you doing it!". What I think it comes down to is being close minded, my opinion is try and convince her it's just a money thing, it's not like you beat off over it all day! (do you?) Otherwise fuck her off, anyone willing to throw away a 3 year relationship over your profession isnt worth DICK. Last edited by Jaded_Fool; 09-09-2002 at 10:13 PM..

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titmowse Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: TEXAS Posts: 5,320	"3 years and you didn't tell her in all that time you worked in porn?" this is what i'm wondering. nobody breaks up over just one thing, especially after three years. perhaps she's pissed cause you've been lying to her for a whole year. just a thought. __________________ I still love everybody Last edited by titmowse; 09-09-2002 at 10:26 PM..

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