FACT: Black people do not belong in the hospitality industry

[GeXus]

So I was at a Mexican restaurant for lunch and was waited on by a nice black man. (Ya right..). We were sat down by the hostess. Our waiter comes by after probably a solid 4 minutes of him ignoring us and says "U kno what u want?".... no hello. no how are you. just "U kno what u want"... gimme a fucking break. I ask him very politely for water, he doesn't even respond, but just walks away. He came back after about 3 minutes with a glass of water and says "Rdy now?"...

Ok... seriously.. I don't give a flying fuck if it's busy or if your in a bad mood, or if your crack whore sister just got locked up and your baby mommas in jail for prostitution... if you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen... and so far I've experienced quite a few "bros" that simply have poor hospitality.

[2012]

Oh No You Didnt Just Ask Me For Extra Ketchup !

[GeXus]

Originally Posted by fartfly

Oh No You Didnt Just Ask Me For Extra Ketchup !

haha.... exactly.

[baddog]

FACT: GeXus is a racist/idiot.

[marketsmart]

maybe he's a great waiter, he just doesnt like white ass crackers....

[Theo]

why did you associate his behavior with his color? Do you get treated like that all the time by black people?

[wdsguy]

They also don't tip.

[2012]

the real funny part is what he did to your food dude. mmmmm tasty eh ?

[GeXus]

Originally Posted by Soul_Rebel

why did you associate his behavior with his color? Do you get treated like that all the time by black people?

All the time? No. But, it has happened more than once and NEVER by another race. Explain that shit!

[GeXus]

Originally Posted by marketsmart

maybe he's a great waiter, he just doesnt like white ass crackers....

So I am correct in my factoid? If someone does not like a certain race, then they should not be in hospitality... Thanks for the affirmation!

[DaddyHalbucks]

Sure they do:

My Daughter's Fucking A Black Dude

[DBS.US]

[Elli]

I've received poor service from just about every race. Heck, try getting less than snotty service from a little rich girl whose daddy told her to get a summer job.

[Ayla_SquareTurtle]

oh please, shitty waiters/waitresses are everywhere and in every color. Every city I've ever been in, in the US and abroad, shitty service at least once. I've found that the worst are the speed-head guys (and sometimes girls) who work in little bar and grills and chains.

[GeXus]

Originally Posted by Elli

I've received poor service from just about every race. Heck, try getting less than snotty service from a little rich girl whose daddy told her to get a summer job.

I take it your not very attractive...

[D]

Originally Posted by DaddyHalbucks

Sure they do:

My Daughter's Fucking A Black Dude

Gexus - people can be rude in general. You're the one making a racial issue out of it.

[frostyimpressions]

Originally Posted by fartfly

Oh No You Didnt Just Ask Me For Extra Ketchup !

[Brother Bilo]

Originally Posted by baddog

FACT: GeXus is a racist/idiot.

FACT: GeXus is right, unfortunately. Doesn't it suck when stereotypes are right?

Could of been worse though, your waiter could of been French.

[Libertine]

Originally Posted by baddog

FACT: GeXus is a racist/idiot.

Hmm. I think you're wrong. That / should definitely be an "and".

[Redmanthatcould]

Originally Posted by GeXus

I take it your not very attractive...

A.) I think she is.

B.) It's "you're"

C.) It's "too" - in reference to the image in your sig.

D.) If you expect great service every time you eat, then the only place to insure that is at home.

[jimthefiend]

Originally Posted by fartfly

Oh No You Didnt Just Ask Me For Extra Ketchup !

bwahahahahah

[ronaldo]

I can't recall EVER getting bad service from a black man. The ones I've had have been more than hospitable, but I've had bad service from MANY black WOMEN. I've noticed many of them have a serious attitude problem. Not all of them, but if I had to pick one sex of one race, I'd have to say black women seem to have the worst people skills...of the ones I've dealt with frequently.

[bronco67]

yeah, I've noticed the same thing. Whether they're waiters, or cashiers or whatever. Almost every black cashier will not even acknowledge your existence when you get to the register, or even thank you at the end of the transaction. I thought that maybe my thoughts on this are just racist, but it's a really distinct thing that I've noticed, like a slap to the face.

they're also really bad at treating others who wait on them. I've seen some really bitchy behavior by blacks at cash registers. I know this because I used to be a cashier. The worst customers were some upper income whites, and many, many lower income blacks.

[GeXus]

Originally Posted by ronaldo

I can't recall EVER getting bad service from a black man. The ones I've had have been more than hospitable, but I've had bad service from MANY black WOMEN. I've noticed many of them have a serious attitude problem. Not all of them, but if I had to pick one sex of one race, I'd have to say black women seem to have the worst people skills...of the ones I've dealt with frequently.

Yeah totally, but don't limit yourself man, just stereotype and call it all blacks. It's easier then breaking it down by gender.

[baddog]

Originally Posted by GeXus

I take it your not very attractive...

I hope that was a joke.

[GeXus]

Originally Posted by baddog

I hope that was a joke.

Or else what.... nigga..

[Honez]

Originally Posted by GeXus

I take it your not very attractive...

Elli is very attractive and a sweetheart to boot

[baddog]

Originally Posted by GeXus

Or else what.... nigga..

Or you have proven that you are pretty clueless.

[tony286]

Originally Posted by wdsguy

They also don't tip.

We were at our favorite diner and there was a table next to us of 8-10 black people. When they got to leave my wife saw they left 4 dollars for a tip.

[Elli]

Thanks for all the love in this thread, guys and gals. Big Elli hugs for you all!

[ronaldo]

Originally Posted by bronco67

yeah, I've noticed the same thing. Whether they're waiters, or cashiers or whatever. Almost every black cashier will not even acknowledge your existence when you get to the register, or even thank you at the end of the transaction. I thought that maybe my thoughts on this are just racist, but it's a really distinct thing that I've noticed, like a slap to the face.

they're also really bad at treating others who wait on them. I've seen some really bitchy behavior by blacks at cash registers. I know this because I used to be a cashier. The worst customers were some upper income whites, and many, many lower income blacks.

I'm pretty forgiving of people and their attitudes for the MOST part, because we were all raised differently. One story I'll never forget and one reason I don't take offense is this...I worked with a Native guy. He was one of the funniest fuckers I'd ever met. Always cracking jokes. Just a super nice guy. Well, one day he and I and his nephew went to play some pool. The nephew was a young kid, like 17 or so. He seemed uncomfortable so I made a point of chatting with him and being friendly. He answered my questions short and sweet, talking to me while looking at the ground. Not rude, but definitely not friendly either. I mentioned this to my wife when I got home that it kind of annoyed me. She told ME, that in their culture, looking people in the eyes is an insult. Now, when I talk to someone, I've always been taught that it's a respect thing TO look someone in the eye. I thought back on it and couldn't remember my other buddy looking me in the eye either. So while I thought I was being friendly and respectful, the NEPHEW probably thought "I" was being DISRESPECTFUL. Two different cultures with two different expectations.

Now, none of that should dismiss basic politeness like, thank you and you're welcome. But if they're not brought up like that, it's highly unlikely they're going to have it in them. They probably don't MEAN to be what we consider "Rude", they just don't know any better. That's how racism continues today imo. Noone is born racist, it's taught. Just like noone is born with good manners, it's taught. Ideally someone in the service industry SHOULD understand basic politeness, but like I said, unless they're overtly RUDE, I'll usually overlook it.

[tony286]

I personally get good service from everyone. My wife says I act like the mayor, I ask them how they are, say please and thank you.Treat them like people, servers tend to get treated as non people and that adds to the atitude.

[bobby666]

this thread really helps all webmasters..................

[sortie]

Originally Posted by Libertine

Hmm. I think you're wrong. That / should definitely be an "and".

OK, that was fucking funny.

[Tom_PM]

What did the manager say when you complained?

[sortie]

Originally Posted by tony404

I personally get good service from everyone. My wife says I act like the mayor, I ask them how they are, say please and thank you.Treat them like people, servers tend to get treated as non people and that adds to the atitude.

Yeah, it's about you sometimes and not them.
I always tip real good at places I go to often and people are like why do you tip that much, your crazy.

Ha! They are the crazy ones. In return my drinks are poured twice as strong and I get entire meals for free. They serve me 5 drinks and charge for 3 etc..etc..

I get my tip back 2 times more!!

[Brother Bilo]

Originally Posted by ronaldo

I'm pretty forgiving of people and their attitudes for the MOST part, because we were all raised differently. One story I'll never forget and one reason I don't take offense is this...I worked with a Native guy. He was one of the funniest fuckers I'd ever met. Always cracking jokes. Just a super nice guy. Well, one day he and I and his nephew went to play some pool. The nephew was a young kid, like 17 or so. He seemed uncomfortable so I made a point of chatting with him and being friendly. He answered my questions short and sweet, talking to me while looking at the ground. Not rude, but definitely not friendly either. I mentioned this to my wife when I got home that it kind of annoyed me. She told ME, that in their culture, looking people in the eyes is an insult. Now, when I talk to someone, I've always been taught that it's a respect thing TO look someone in the eye. I thought back on it and couldn't remember my other buddy looking me in the eye either. So while I thought I was being friendly and respectful, the NEPHEW probably thought "I" was being DISRESPECTFUL. Two different cultures with two different expectations.

Now, none of that should dismiss basic politeness like, thank you and you're welcome. But if they're not brought up like that, it's highly unlikely they're going to have it in them. They probably don't MEAN to be what we consider "Rude", they just don't know any better. That's how racism continues today imo. Noone is born racist, it's taught. Just like noone is born with good manners, it's taught. Ideally someone in the service industry SHOULD understand basic politeness, but like I said, unless they're overtly RUDE, I'll usually overlook it.

Dude, I'm not sure what tribe your wife is an expert on, but as far as I know, making eye contact with wild animals is disrespectful. Not looking at a human while talking is a sign up submission not respect.

That kid was probably like a lot of other indians, antisocial by nature because they live completely isolated on the reservations. Nice try though.

[Skillz Unlimited]

Originally Posted by GeXus

So I was at a Mexican restaurant for lunch and was waited on by a nice black man. (Ya right..). We were sat down by the hostess. Our waiter comes by after probably a solid 4 minutes of him ignoring us and says "U kno what u want?".... no hello. no how are you. just "U kno what u want"... gimme a fucking break. I ask him very politely for water, he doesn't even respond, but just walks away. He came back after about 3 minutes with a glass of water and says "Rdy now?"...

Ok... seriously.. I don't give a flying fuck if it's busy or if your in a bad mood, or if your crack whore sister just got locked up and your baby mommas in jail for prostitution... if you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen... and so far I've experienced quite a few "bros" that simply have poor hospitality.

Fuck You. I've been had horrible service from waiters of all races. I've had horrible service from white people many a time but you dont see me coming on this board saying white people dont belong in the hospitality department. What kind of shit is that? Why dont you tell us how you really feel about black people you racist prick. I hope he spit in your food and i pray that every time you eat out for the rest of your life some one pisses, spits, or throws a hair in your food. Ihope they drop some of it on the floor and even sneeze over a plate. Hopefully one day someone will lick your silverware too because you deserve it. From the way your post sounds, you probably deserve all the bad treatment you receive. You seem like a total dick.

Fuck you, you bitch.

[Fletch XXX]

i dont eat out












































old ladies

[ronaldo]

Originally Posted by Brother Bilo

Dude, I'm not sure what tribe your wife is an expert on, but as far as I know, making eye contact with wild animals is disrespectful. Not looking at a human while talking is a sign up submission not respect.

That kid was probably like a lot of other indians, antisocial by nature because they live completely isolated on the reservations. Nice try though.

Actually my wife had to take some course on Native Studies and learned it there. Based on that and my personal experiences, I'll take her word for it.

[ronaldo]

Just a quick search...

http://www.awesomelibrary.org/multic...-patterns.html

Native American Communication Patterns

Eye contact: Direct prolonged eye contact is seen as invasive. It?s avoidance is practiced to "protect the personal autonomy of the interactors" (Darnell, 1988, p. 6). Eye contact is usually fleeting, and the gaze of listener and speaker will often remain around the forehead, mouth, ear or throat area. Direct gaze to an elder or very respected person is seen as especially rude, unless one is in a formal listening/storytelling situation, in which case "?listeners may look at (the speaker) more directly ? without violating his or her personal space by eye contact"

[Sly]

You can tell a lot about somebody by the way they treat waiters. There's actually a book about this by some CEO, can't remember where I saw it.

[pornguy]

Originally Posted by GeXus

I take it your not very attractive...

Actually she is. Quite cute and with a hell of a rack. I have seen photos of her with plenty of people drooling.

[pornguy]

Originally Posted by Brother Bilo

Dude, I'm not sure what tribe your wife is an expert on, but as far as I know, making eye contact with wild animals is disrespectful. Not looking at a human while talking is a sign up submission not respect.

That kid was probably like a lot of other indians, antisocial by nature because they live completely isolated on the reservations. Nice try though.

Get your head out of your ass.

And if you stare any of my ancestors or family in the eyes to long you might get your clock cleaned.

I take offense to people doing that. It is one thing to look someone in the eye when you speak with them, but thats it.

Of, and Im 1/4 american Indian. Seminole

[Brother Bilo]

Originally Posted by ronaldo

Actually my wife had to take some course on Native Studies and learned it there. Based on that and my personal experiences, I'll take her word for it.

Ya, well based on living in AZ and actually knowing the "natives", I would take my word over your wifes courses on Native Studies, which most likely was taught by some old white professor. Next.

[Brother Bilo]

Originally Posted by pornguy

Get your head out of your ass.

And if you stare any of my ancestors or family in the eyes to long you might get your clock cleaned.

I take offense to people doing that. It is one thing to look someone in the eye when you speak with them, but thats it.

Of, and Im 1/4 american Indian. Seminole

Ohhhhhhh one whole quarter Indian. Listen you douchebags, there is a difference between staring someone down and making eye contact when you speak to them. Not looking at someone when you talk to them is not respectful, it's submissive. I'm not arguing that staring someone down is disrespectful, I agree with that. Maybe you should go take some courses on reading and comprehension.

[MicDoohan]

the racist redneck chicken shit mother fuckers are alive and well

[Sean]

Originally Posted by GeXus

I take it your not very attractive...

your dad hit you when you were a kid, didnt he?

[GeXus]

Originally Posted by Irish Pimp

your dad hit you when you were a kid, didnt he?

No but your dad tried when he found I seduced your mom at age 9.

[eightmotives]

GeXus you sound like a racist imbreed. I am sure you enjoyed the pubes in your food and the piss in your water. Come one what racist imbreed wouldn't? ;)