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Tube groupie.
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![]() So today I am checking out a site I've had link trades up for maybe over five years and take a look and see that my link had been dropped without notice, while I had maintained his.
I hit him up about it and he says he emailed me blah, blah, blah... So I start looking further into it and start seeing that a large percentage of link trades I had with "friends" had all been dropped as well -- maybe almost 50% of them. Look, if you want to drop a trade, drop a trade...that is fucking fine. Just have the courtesy to tell me about it! Otherwise you are just leaching MY TRAFFIC / PR and hoping I don't notice? That is some real scumbaggy shit. IT IS TOTAL BULLSHIT, DISHONEST, AND IT REALLY PISSES ME OFF!!! OK that rant is done, I gotta get back to pulling links! |
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Etology.com
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That sucks
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#3 |
I guarantee it
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Lol its funny you just start a thread about this.
I was checking links on my blog and 50% have dropped my link of their sites. Sucks. |
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Damn Right I Kiss Ass!
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Sorry, bro, adding your links again ;)
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#5 |
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had a bunch drop here too..
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It's coming look busy
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Location: "Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn".
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I get it all the time too. I swear some just count on people not checking and I would guess that most do not check. I am just about to the point of re-adding software that will check for me on my sites. I used to like to be able to just trust someone.
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#7 |
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thats seriously shady shit
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Tube groupie.
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I am thinking that anyone who wants to trade links with me from now on, it will be mandatory you use this. |
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#9 |
So Fucking Banned
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It has gotten to the point that I rarely trade links with people and never recommend it to clients.
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Choice is an Illusion
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Tube groupie.
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Yeah dood...it is called STEALING!
The really sad part if about a half dozen of the guys I've found so far are people I have a long history with. It sucks. It really fucking sucks! |
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Affiliate
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bullshit you deleted my links from sites you bought from kush without notice and didnt reply to my icqs about it....talk about being a hypocrite.
p.s. im not the guy he is refering to btw, at least i dont think so. |
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Masterbaiter
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linkex, thunderball...
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Banned!
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Jay whats your ICQ?
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Yeah I know how that shit goes..
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#16 |
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I had one of our programmers whip up a quick script that runs checks every night. Lot of people pulling link trades these days.
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This shit is still on my site: http://www.snizzshare.com/index.php
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Tends to happen alot when people update their sites. They forget or rearrange links and don't add them back. Sometimes they go through traffic stats and don't see you pushing them enough and just drop 'ya.
Has happened to me a few times. So much for "hard link exchanges" being meaningful. Google Webmaster Tool will alert you when another site is no longer linking to you. Pretty nifty. |
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Even worse, with the recent changes in pagerank some people think they deserve a new link and drop the trade, mailing you that your site isn't PR X any more and ask for a new PR X link.
Funny enough, these guys don't mind if the PR of your site is suddenly higher, they won't ask for a lower PR link to their sites. Straight to the blacklist... |
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So Fucking Banned
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Why is it that some of us don't have any problem remembering while others just seem to have amnesia when it comes to trades? You know they would be the first ones coming here to complain if someone forgot to re-add them. "I forgot" is a bullshit excuse. |
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Every month I check all of the links up on my blog and lots of them drop me each month. Fuck 'em. I just remove the links and move on.
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Any trades we have are still in place
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I remember we setup a couple linkexchanges years ago..will double check them..
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I'm still waiting on you guys to approve that excel sheet I sent you 6 months ago. hehe
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So Fucking Banned
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So Fucking Banananananas
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that sucks man. dunno if it would help, but ill give you a hard link, hit me up.
i had 2 or 3 sites that i had friends put hardlinks on, and they would pull them down constantly and would have some lame ass excuse. sucks when people are dicks like that
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lurker
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I agree, alittle courtesy goes a long way.
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I dont know why you wouldnt have in the first place. That looks like a great site/service |
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I need a beer
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Just checked a bunch of mine..removed them all..fuck it
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Been there and done that.. Makes you realize some of your "friends" are not really your friends
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that shit is ghey when people drop you. it fucks with your pr as well not just helps them. |
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hahaha. nevermind i am an idiot.
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Tube groupie.
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When I bought that piece of shit network probably 90% of the sites on it dropped trades as soon as they knew Kush sold it. It took me a minute to realize that, so I had someone go through the entire network and if there was even the suggestion of that someone had kept a trade up, I left it alone. Keep in mind that is not even knowing how most of the trades were set up in the first place because I wasn't the original webmaster. That is BS you couldn't find me. Here is all my contacts, I respond to everything: [email protected] icq: 62835707 323-845-9350 Use them before you talk shit. I am very easy to get a hold of. |
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Tube groupie.
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#36 |
So Fucking Banned
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cause your site was linking to donkeys humping giraffes porno |
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So Fucking Banned
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Jay i still got your links up verbal venom
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#39 |
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Jay - I dont think I am but if any of my ABC links with you have disappeared please hit me up - Ive been pulling links all over the place for the same reason - but I dont think Ive ever pulled any of yours - I do know of one LL owner that had a few major LLs that shut down at least two of his LLs about 6 months ago - and he had that same reaction when I confronted him about it - and finally he went public and told others
BTW - if you want to know some people that I know youve trusted for quite a few years that have redirected all their free sites - hit me up - you will be extremely surprised |
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Too lazy to set a custom title
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people do it all the time too, hence why i stopped trading with people i dont know
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#41 |
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Yeah, I recently went through my links and a good portion had dropped the trades or simply ceased to be. Sucks to think how long I was either funneling traffic to nowhere, or to some douche who dropped me.
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#42 |
making it rain
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Believe me, with my service I deal with this sooooo much. I'd say 35% of my trades need to be replaced within 30 days. I have scripts to scan for this but it still takes up a good chunk of my day.
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#43 |
So Fucking Banned
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Jay, I have been shocked at the people who dropped links that, when I contacted, just sort of went "whatever". I understand mistakes, I understand recoding a page and forgetting a group of links... but just blindly dropping links without a reason just ain't cool at all.
If you want to trade some, I am always up for some trades icq 64-103-248 |
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(felis madjewicus)
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well, i hateto go against the hrain, but i just checked my links exchanges and some of my blogs have gotten retardedly huge lists of cheaters and crap ass sites all over them. i'll probably drop a good 50% if not more of the links on these blogs shortly, and i ain't gonna be sending notice to every one of them.
i have also decided, NO MORE FUCKING LINKEX, from now on every link exchange i do is done manually... |
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#45 |
It's coming look busy
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It really shows the state of the industry. Many of the trades I have done were with people who you would not think would steal from you. Meaning I did not just post random who wants to trade links threads and swap with everyone who asked. On top of that I checked a few sites that I purchased one or two year hardlinks on, guess what... No fucking link anymore.
I liked it more when the majority could be taken at their word. Where I did not need to babysit every single tiny little trade or small purchase. Where ones word actually meant something. I am so damn ready to just get a group of people together each with their own strengths and just primarly work with them.
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(felis madjewicus)
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that's the only way to do it. i haven't even been around that long and i am realizing that i just want to get a handful of people i've dealt with already who are running larger networks and stick to exchanging with them. then if i want to later, i can buil another lower tier feeder network yet, that i will open to whoever wants to swap links, but ultimately my top tier blogs will be my own links, and my middle tier links will only be exchanged with those i trust, manually...
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xxxjay if your not sending much traffic or poor quality traffic that could be the reason why many adult webmasters are dropping your links...
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So Fucking Banned
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This is funny.. because you never accept trades from honest guys.. It looks like your stupid review guy doesn't know how to identify a honest trade and a guy who will drop your link... don't blame others, blame yourself for being so stupid.. That said, I have never ever removed a link from the sites I trade with. And I have never ever got a link accepted at your fucking dumb link list... Go figure. I don't even bother sumitting in your link farm stupid link list anymore... And BTW, I have seen tons of sites listed in your "Retro" link list, that redirect or install trojans.. I really wonder why are you so attracted to cheaters and not to honest webmasters... .... |
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TOTAL BURN !!! .
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Tube groupie.
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