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Old 12-11-2007, 09:29 PM   #101
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Is the LC video on the web someplace? Some of us have never seen it. Post a link if you have it.
I've got the videos if anyone has a server to put them on.
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Old 12-11-2007, 09:35 PM   #102
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Old 12-11-2007, 10:44 PM   #104
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i read this thread earlier and thought it necessary I stamp my approval on it. Both for the submitter and for the subject. A timeless thread only bill and ted can unlock true substance from, 5000 years from now due to present mans lack of true understanding.
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Old 12-12-2007, 07:38 AM   #107
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7. What is your wildest convention story?

I have had a few ? one that DonMike won?t let me forget, is when I forgot DonMike. There was some weed involved (supplied by my boss who handed it to me in a Burger King bag) ? actually the size of a softball ? and the weekend was lost. Though I do remember sitting in my room with the sales team laughing our asses off watching Jaws by putting words in the fishes mouth. I also apparently I did an interview with ronaldo (Ron Steward) and had the best sales of anyone on the team, but I still can?t remember a single day of Vegas.

Though I feel that isn?t what your getting at ? there was a Internext convention in Vegas when I was working with a gay company. A brief history will tell you that although I did sales with the company , they were having difficultly finding a writer so to help out I said I would do it much to their surprise. A straight man writing gay advice column's and erotic stories?

Well 3 years later I was still writing for them and actually the magazine had grown huge in the gay community and won a Cybersocket award! They had pulled me to the center of the bar (Gypsy's) and had a male stripper dancing all over me. What was more comical was the idea that in that room ? I was the only straight man who turned out helped win a gay award for the company that was totally gay owned and operated.

That to me meant more than any other compliment at the time because I have always prided myself in learning what webmasters and clients want. To cross over into sales/marketing to the gay community by having a knowledge and sensitivity to what their needs were ? to understand their culture and be accepted ? meant that I did my job right and my network grew even stronger.

Soon after that I became a moderator on the gay chat board of YNOT and held that with pride for several years until they closed it down and I carried on as mod in the general area ? many thought at that time I was gay but honestly I didn't care, I was actually glad that they thought that because it meant I was doing my job right and at the time I was able to help and work with both markets when I knew few others could. I spoke on seminar panels, talk shows - even interviewed a Gay Archbishop on YNOTRadio and also got to know the Godfathers of the gay market very well. It has made me a better man to have worked with that community by dropping my guard - ego and pride to just relax and open my horizon's to a community that had so much dynamics and lessons to teach me that as time went on. The community knew I was straight but were amazed that I had no judgments against them and was willing to listen. In the end it helped me become a better and stronger voice within the adult industry.
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1. Is it true that you are the one person responsible for introducing Lawrence Connor to the adult industry? Explain how this happened, from the conception of the idea to selecting Lawrence to how it went down.

Introduced? No ? he was annoying and harassing people long before I got here begging for a chance to get into the industry as a model. When sexxxycontent hired me on to help bring their company to the next level hoping that within a few months by Vegas Internext that their companies name would be on everyone?s lips my name came up as a solution when they searched around.

First off I want to say that in any company I have worked with it has never been a ?me? situation. I know the concepts/resources of success and how to get a company there, but without the agreement and team atmosphere then the comany's success simply won?t work. The owners at the time trusted me to create this event and gave me the resources and their time to make it happen. My network is my strength ? as I have said many times ? I don?t know everything about this industry ? but I sure as hell do know those that do know the answers. So here is how it happened.

I had an epiphany that if we created a webcam show with the hottest porn star around matched with a wanna-be pornstar who is prepared to risk everything for his shot ? someone that everyone hated and wanted to see fail ? then you have married content with passion.

The stakes were if he failed that Lanni would fuck him in the ass symbolizing every adult film stars feelings of surfers who feel they can do a better job than them. What Lawrence failed to realize was that it was to the company?s best interest that he succeeded. With that he would have had the chance to have a website and more opportunities to carry the idea along ? but we all know the history - that the pressure was too much as he was warned by many adult film stars who jumped in during radio interviews to give him advice

To this date he still feels that I ?set him up? or that I somehow had control over his weenie?s performance when faced with a beauty such as Lanni. Well - no more than any male performer who has to retain an erection while 10 stage hands get the lighting right, the model is on her cell phone screaming at her boyfriend and the director is telling him to keep his leg up so he can get his camera in tight.

I should have heeded Vid Vicious?s (my brother from a different mother) warning when he was doing the production that LC was unstable and he continually requested that LC think about what he is doing and hoped he would back out. In the end (no pun) Lawrence stayed strong to his conviction that he could do it and marched on into industry history.

Personally my goal was to promote the company and not myself in all this. They needed their name to make sales not me. No one wants their name associated with LC and I have tried to keep it that way. I already had a strong reputation long before LC came along and will long after he is gone. I smile as many GFY?ers and industry people still talk about it and yet many don?t realize who it was behind the scenes ? as it should be.

Those of you with different opinions don't realize that whether he did this show or not he still would have been around. In one month alone I had over 12 different ICQ numbered requests by LC and the list goes on. He even called webmaster paradise's office and spoke to the owner hoping to make my life hell. The list goes on but I think you see my point.

Truth is - I have been in this industry for 12 years - LC showed up in the latter of that - the past 4 years would have been a great deal more enjoyable without him continually bothering me and my friends. My hope is that I never heard of him again - my advice is to simply not speak of him or even respond to his emails or ICQ alerts.
I like to refer to this time in our carreers as the weekend we unleashed a retarded devil on the adult online webmaster community ...LOL

there is alot more to this story, but certain things wil remain un said .. the weekend proved to be a winning combo for both Sexxycontent and lovesexxy ... Lanny and myslef had a grea weekend filled with lots of fun and laughter ...

Great Ambush sleazy, Legacy is a good person and I consider him to be a close friend ..our inducstry can only benifit from more peole like him ..

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Great Ambush so far... but let's not make it all about LC and PSU please...
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Im amazed and how well written Robert is. Im having a good time reading this.
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Im amazed and how well written Robert is. Im having a good time reading this.
Agreed! I am very interested to hear more! Especially #13, Me being from Utah and all.

Awesome so far Robert!
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8. Are you aware that some industry veterans were surprised when you announced you were getting married because they thought you were gay? Is your marriage a front?

Definitely there was industry veterans who would contact me surprised - even Bob Rice hit me up on ICQ wondering if it was all a fake ? we had a long discussion as to what gay truly meant and what is happening between SheDevil and myself. My feelings were that just fucking a man doesn?t mean your gay. Being in the gay industry I noticed many guys who were hitting on women as much as men. That is just horny ? prepared to fuck anything that moves and gets you off.

Being truly gay means that sex isn?t always an option ? it is more than physical. I have seen gay couples who have lived together for over 20 years, and truly love each other as a straight couple. One where the partner died of AID?s as the other one watched, holding his hand as he passed on. It wasn?t about sex at all ? it was about commitment to another soul ? a human being. The physical aspect was not the primary reason they were together.

So no - my marriage is not a front at all. I was married before to a stripper who left me for a DJ. I certainly didn?t want to get into another relationship much less marriage. When SheDevil came along she was totally into women ? never figuring she would love a man at all. Yet in saying that, it was our souls that connected in a strong way. I totally felt at peace with the idea of living my life with her, as she did with me. In some cosmic way it worked, and we just knew.

When my dad asked me, ?why would you ever marry again?? I responded with, ?Because dad, I can tell her to shut the fuck up and she can do the same to me!!? He smiled and said, ?Marry her?. He knew that what I was saying is that we can truly be ourselves together, for all our good points and lousy ones. Few marriages can boast that each partner is secure in the relationship that they have no secrets from each other. That they speak their mind and resolve the issue with love and refuse to consider separation as on option. I will remember always the senior citizen I asked who was married for over 50 years, ?During all the time, did you once think of divorcing your husband?? She looked back at me, smiled and said, ?Divorce? Never. Murder YES ? but Divorce never?. That?s an act of the will ? commitment to make it work.

I can go into a long version as to what love is ? but in short - it is not a feeling but an act of the will.
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8. Are you aware that some industry veterans were surprised when you announced you were getting married because they thought you were gay? Is your marriage a front?

Definitely there was industry veterans who would contact me surprised - even Bob Rice hit me up on ICQ wondering if it was all a fake ? we had a long discussion as to what gay truly meant and what is happening between SheDevil and myself. My feelings were that just fucking a man doesn?t mean your gay. Being in the gay industry I noticed many guys who were hitting on women as much as men. That is just horny ? prepared to fuck anything that moves and gets you off.

Being truly gay means that sex isn?t always an option ? it is more than physical. I have seen gay couples who have lived together for over 20 years, and truly love each other as a straight couple. One where the partner died of AID?s as the other one watched, holding his hand as he passed on. It wasn?t about sex at all ? it was about commitment to another soul ? a human being. The physical aspect was not the primary reason they were together.

So no - my marriage is not a front at all. I was married before to a stripper who left me for a DJ. I certainly didn?t want to get into another relationship much less marriage. When SheDevil came along she was totally into women ? never figuring she would love a man at all. Yet in saying that, it was our souls that connected in a strong way. I totally felt at peace with the idea of living my life with her, as she did with me. In some cosmic way it worked, and we just knew.

When my dad asked me, ?why would you ever marry again?? I responded with, ?Because dad, I can tell her to shut the fuck up and she can do the same to me!!? He smiled and said, ?Marry her?. He knew that what I was saying is that we can truly be ourselves together, for all our good points and lousy ones. Few marriages can boast that each partner is secure in the relationship that they have no secrets from each other. That they speak their mind and resolve the issue with love and refuse to consider separation as on option. I will remember always the senior citizen I asked who was married for over 50 years, ?During all the time, did you once think of divorcing your husband?? She looked back at me, smiled and said, ?Divorce? Never. Murder YES ? but Divorce never?. That?s an act of the will ? commitment to make it work.

I can go into a long version as to what love is ? but in short - it is not a feeling but an act of the will.

What a great answer. I have to admit, I thought you were gay. I met you at a dinner for members of one of the gay boards, and at the time I was not used to your sarcastic wit, so you made a comment about a guy being hot or something like that and I said, "I thought you were straight" and you replied, "what would make you think I'm straight". LOL! Evil man.
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Being truly gay means that sex isn?t always an option ? it is more than physical. I have seen gay couples who have lived together for over 20 years, and truly love each other as a straight couple. One where the partner died of AID?s as the other one watched, holding his hand as he passed on. It wasn?t about sex at all ? it was about commitment to another soul ? a human being. The physical aspect was not the primary reason they were together.
I'm going backwards here. This is an excellent point. I work for a company that often features straight guys having sex with other straight or gay men. Sex is an activity and an activity that feels good, but that's not what makes a person gay or straight. Your sexual orientation is all about who you find attractive, who gets you hot. You can have sex with every woman you meet and never touch a guy because you want to be straight, but you know if you are honestly and deeply attracted to men or women. The same way you can be a straight man who enjoys an occasional blowjob from a buddy, just for the fact that it feels good. That doesn't make you gay. It goes so much further than sex.
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Being truly gay means that sex isn?t always an option ? it is more than physical. I have seen gay couples who have lived together for over 20 years, and truly love each other as a straight couple. One where the partner died of AID?s as the other one watched, holding his hand as he passed on. It wasn?t about sex at all ? it was about commitment to another soul ? a human being. The physical aspect was not the primary reason they were together.

So no - my marriage is not a front at all. I was married before to a stripper who left me for a DJ. I certainly didn?t want to get into another relationship much less marriage. When SheDevil came along she was totally into women ? never figuring she would love a man at all. Yet in saying that, it was our souls that connected in a strong way. I totally felt at peace with the idea of living my life with her, as she did with me. In some cosmic way it worked, and we just knew.

Very nice articulate answers Robert!

This means your not gay right? Do you think DonMike should have found out this way?
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When SheDevil came along she was totally into women ? never figuring she would love a man at all. Yet in saying that, it was our souls that connected in a strong way. I totally felt at peace with the idea of living my life with her, as she did with me. In some cosmic way it worked, and we just knew.
Hmmmm, I'd have never guessed you'd turn a woman in THAT direction.
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Hmmmm, I'd have never guessed you'd turn a woman in THAT direction.
And who would have thought you would turn me in THAT direction either
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This has turned out to be a fascinating read! Truly one of a kind in this industry Robert has the unique ability to help with out making a person feel like a retard. It would be hard to find any one in this industry who could utter a bad word about him.
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Never had a chance to get in personal touch apart from a very recent mail exchange (that I off course hope results in further dealing and a business relation.. ).

But Robert and his posts / articles made him in my eyes immediately to be one of the most easily recognizable and outstanding people in the business since the day one of my presence in the industry. I used to spend a lot of time / hours and days reading at YNOT, it was actually the first board where I dared to post (off course on more of a general and less business topics first...).

All The Best and looking forward to get down to read this Ambush once finished!
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9. In the past you've had "issues" with 12clicks, AaronM, and even Sleazy Dream. How has your impression of these people changed, and do you really call Sleazy Dream "Uncle Scott"?

For starters yes we do call SleazyDream ?Uncle Scott?. He is actually one of SheDevil?s clients so naturally he has called our home a lot and we chat all the time so he is family to us. I have a great deal of respect for him ? but that wasn't always the case. There was a time I was annoyed at his postings but when I finally read an article in AVN along with being on a speakers panel during a Qwebec Expo a few years back I found that he has more to offer webmasters if they were only prepared to listen.

I remember actually speaking up during the seminar and admitting my error in judgment for him. I am always happy to correct myself and be willing to admit it, that is how we all grow by learning from our mistakes. Sadly this industry has individuals that are so egotistical and full of themselves that they simply can?t admit that they made a mistake, which usually leads to more threads and verbal assaults from others who know better. That is probably why you won't find much dirt or negative threads about me. I realize that I am here only because of the grace and friendship of those who helped me throughout the years. If you feel I am doing an excellent job after 12 years in this industry then thank all those who have had a part in my growth.

Scott today I can speak on a personal level sharing my frustrations and thoughts as I listen to his wisdom and sincere advice. I am truly thankful that I have that opportunity and look forward to many years in the future learning about this enigma.

The same admission on my part was true with AaronM and 12clicks (Ron) both of whom started off the same way - but I willingly admit that I was totally wrong in prejudging their character.

AaronM more than anyone knows how stupid I was and how far my arrogance and pride took over. Thankfully I came to my senses and asked for forgiveness hoping that he was the man I hoped he was ? sure enough we started a friendship that I hope will last a long time. In LA, AaronM along with Baddog took me out for a great dinner and some awesome laughs - thank you again. That to me was as important as going to the Mansion for the first time ? but it also showed that there is no disagreement that can?t be overcome. Now I truly respect that man, humbled and honored to be able to call him friend when we meet now ? thank god I grew up or I would have missed everything.

12clicks (Ron) - I have learned even in the past year has a heart of gold and truly appreciates those he works with. As we speak I hear it in his voice that his first concern is that of those who put their trust in him.

Our friendship grew I believe after I saw him being banned on a board that I was moderating. My conscience could not justify the board taking such drastic action after what I felt was started by them attacking him first ? and whether I liked the man or not at the time, my ethics and morals had me standing up for him - I refused to go with the flow against Ron when I knew the board was wrong in what they did. It was then that we started speaking as human beings and I started to see a side of him and his care that only few do. Whether he wants to admit it or not ? his heart is as big as his stature.
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10. Why did you leave Sexxxycontent?

This is not complicated – once the event with LC was over it was time to move on. I had a nice talk with Greg (one of the owners) and we both knew that. I am still friends with them and we parted on very good terms. They are an awesome company and I wish them all the success in the world. "It was the best of times – it was the worst of times", pretty much sums the experience with LC for all of us there.
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LOL that first pic is hella funny ... Damn I lost that fubar tuque that same weekend ...

Great ambush so far ..
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LOL that first pic is hella funny ... Damn I lost that fubar tuque that same weekend ...

Great ambush so far ..
is that a Hint ??
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The only way two people who eventually will work in the adult industry could meet ? on the MSN chat rooms. January 13, 2001 I believe was the actual date. After chatting for sometime online we decided to get together ? thankfully she wanted to meet at a complex an hour away from my home rather than that first house I drove up to where DateLine NBC?s truck was parked ? so dodged a bullet there.

The rest is history as she tells me that even though she only liked women ? during that ?date? she knew I was the one she was going to marry. For me, it was only a matter of time as soon as I saw her eyes and could see myself growing old staring at them.



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12. Has anyone ever sent you hookers? Care to name which person/company would do such a thing? What did you do with them?

Problem in the past with sales rep’s (as well as companies) is that when you are being interviewed then hired, 9 times out of 10 one of the first questions is – how many webmasters or webmaster lists from a previous job can you bring to us? Second problem is in firing an employee is how many webmasters are they going to steal should they get a job with a competitor. This is why many companies do a strong forensic on a employee's computer when they go in order to figure out who they talked too and how bad the damage is.

We all know whoever has the hits has the power – and lists are gold. This is also true with sales rep’s and managers who are well networked. Companies sometimes only hire short term hoping to steal lists from as many rep’s as possible then after a few months let them go based on “performance”.

For 12 years now I have never once sold or offered up any list of previous employers to any new company. I specifically remember sexxxycontent’s conversation before I left when he said, “I know you have all our lists but I also know your character in that you would never allow them to fall into our competitors hands or use them in any way”. I was very impressed and taken back at the trust level but also his ability to know exactly who he was talking too. Yet over the years when I am being asked if I would consider working with a company I know immediately their reasonings when they requested lists as one of their first questions. Often the negotiations die when but I refused to surrender them.

I will not mention who sent hookers to my room – but while working for one employer I was being courted to work at another company. We were to meet in Vegas during Internext one year but before the scheduled meeting they insisted that I offer up any webmaster lists I had from previous employers which I had an ethical and moral problem doing. My first evening while in Vegas I got a knock on my hotel room and there standing in front of me were two, very beautiful ladies saying that they were mine for some fun times.

I realized then and there not only how valuable my connections were but also to what level some companies will go to get it. What the company didn’t realize was at the time I was married (before SheDevil), and that being married I would never cheat on my wife. I reached into my pocket and pulled out 400$ and had them split it between each one saying, “I know it’s not much, but take this down to the casino and enjoy – if it is at all possible – when you do speak to whoever sent you – tell them that I was the best fuck you ever had!!”

They laughed, and I closed the door a better man knowing that I never compromised my belief’s in that I could not be bought or sold by a piece of ass. In this case - two. If I was - then who would trust me again in the future? If I could be bought and sold like that, then who's to say that someone else wouldn't come around and get all your company secrets by sending me more women? My reputation and legacy would be lost.

Mind you –now that I think about this question – it happened around the time that people started thinking I was gay – wonder if this had anything to do with it?
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Since we met in 2003 TheLegacy has been a true friend, productive collegue, and inspiring mentor to many. How many boards have we moderated together? 3 now.. it's like we are kin I'm glad our paths have intertwined so often throughout the years, you meeting SheDevil simply completed the picture and what a beautiful one it is. Thanks for being so thoughtful, for looking out, and for doing what you feel is right no matter how sticky the situation.

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Bump..fuck bump !
This thread should be a sticky!
The Legacy is the best thing that could happened to any newbie....like it did to me at Ynot.

Very interesting read indeed...

You see, the problem with The Legacy is that your are not just a "webmaster", you are a human being too....with epiphanies and all...

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is that a Hint ??
Hee hee .. It's getting awefully cold here .. and with the new hair lose, me needs some head warmth .. LOL
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13. I'm guessing your family is religious? What do you tell them you do for a living?

Actually both SheDevil and my family are religious, that is actually one of the main reasons why SheDevil and I had such a rough start in our relationship ? her family knew I was in porn and had to work out their biased attitudes towards someone in the industry. Like most in North America as soon as you say you work in porn immediately they think you are into child pornography and get women drugged against their will to take pictures.

Safe to say I was not allowed around their children or even to park in their driveway. Yet after a while they realized the person I am and not what they thought I was, and today ? we are a very close family. Even her mom who once was my nemesis, are now best friends speaking constantly - and yes ? I can now park near the house and no one is hiding their kids from me.

I cannot speak for everyone only myself ? but I am not ashamed of the work that I do or try to hide it when asked, though I do need to be sensitive to those under 18 or even a few that simply are too closed minded. I have some of the closest friends in my life right here in this industry - even more so that my own family. When our daughter was born in December of 2007, industry veterans sent gifts including JFK who send clothing ? LAJ who sent an amazing fur coat for when she gets a little older, and others who sent cards and phoned us with their best wishes. Bob Rice was the first person I called after the baby was born along with my boss and Vid Vicious. Why would I be ashamed of people like this? You rarely get to have one close friend in your life you can be yourself with ? I have many and am truly blessed.

My dad was a church deacon and actually was the architect of one of the largest Baptist church?s in Canada ? even though he may not ?like? what I do, he realizes that it is not going to affect my character or the way I treat my family, wife and child. We had a long conversation recently when I called to tell him I went to the Playboy Mansion ? I was surprised at his knowledge of Heff and the Mansion, but I knew he was merely attempting to show interest in my life and not judge me also that I had come to terms with it and my faith and that is all he needed to know.

I learned a long time ago ? that there are people who will like me and those who will not. I can try my hardest, be as sweet as possible and guess what? I will still have those who hate me and those who don?t. It is me that I have to accept and love when I look into the mirror in the morning. No one else.

During my time at the seminary I had asked a pastor friend of mine, ?is it okay to go into bars?? He said some of the wisest words to me. He said, ?As a Christian as long as it is not an addiction for you then fine. Problems arise when you speak of it to others who do have an addiction. If they see you going in then to them it may be okay, and that will cause them to falter. You have no choice because as a minister you are in the spotlight all the time? He knew that people watch what I do and that I have a responsibility to those around me that are influenced by me.

Right now all I care about is my relationship with myself ? if someone can?t handle the fact I work in porn, then do I really want them as a friend? I mean seriously ? working in porn makes me as much of a bad person and threat to your family as going to a movie makes me an actor. It?s a product ? simple as that. You don?t harass a corner store employee or brand them pervert because they sell nude magazines on the shelf?

Now I do not walk around boasting about it nor wear T-Shirt?s that kids can see, but when asked I am not going to necessarily shy off the topic unless I know that the person I am speaking to simply is too immature to handle such news ? then it becomes a matter of, ?do I really want to get into a debate of morals right now??

Look - be my friend or don?t be ? the choice is yours and my door is always open. I am not going to run after you. Same as family ? my door is always open should you choose to enter. I am happy with my life and who I am as a person ? I follow my heart and what it is saying is that religion doesn?t like what I do, but I don?t follow man?s religion on how my life should be dictated ? my gut is that God doesn?t have a problem since He/She is the only one who knows my heart/intentions and I have not sensed that my life is in anyway offensive.

So trust me, my inner child is a real shit head sometimes - but on the whole, I'm happier now than I ever have been in all my 46 years.
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14. Who from the industry attended your wedding?



We initially wanted Bob Rice to minister the wedding but our schedules unfortunately could work together but as you can see Vid Vicious and Sweetums were directly on my side at the front. I remember when SheDevil came into the church she started crying ? I looked over at Vid and Sweetums and said, ?What the fuck did I do now?? We smiled together.

Ron Stewart also flew a great distance for the wedding and a few others. We were extremely humbled at the flood of love and care that came from our adult family that made it a very special day in our life. There were so many who were there in the city but refused to go to a church so instead a party was arranged by them the same day downtown so after the reception we drove down to be with our extended family in the industry.

Bob Rice headed the list of well wishers as we also had a massive volume of cards and phone calls from just about everyone I could think of wishing us all well and asking the same question, ?Fuck dude, I thought you were gay!!?
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15. Your rather old and your wife is rather young. Has anyone called your wife "your daughter" to your face? How do you deal with the age difference?

To date no one has mistaken Shannon for my daughter ? in fact overall we hear that she looks more mature and I look younger than I appear. Generally the perceived age gap range is 10 to 15 years rather than 25. There are actually many celebrities who have the same difference from Humphrey Bogart, Michael Douglas to Paul McCartney, Rod Stewart and Bruce Willis.

I remember my dad said to me, ?No one here has a problem with the age difference but you? when I asked him about this same potential problem. In short if it?s legal and we can be ourselves together then who cares what others think? The difficult part comes in as I get older. I don?t want our children to feel ripped off if their dad is only around for 30 years of their life, not too mention I need to look after my health so that SheDevil has me around well into her 70?s.

My feeling is that anyone who dares to judge without honestly meeting us first has no right or valid opinion in my mind. SheDevil is a tremendous addition and value to this industry and has spoken at many conferences. She has done work for Playboy, Rochard, Bob Rice, Sleazy along with 2Much just to name a few big names. It honestly means a great deal when I hear webmasters say, ?Who is that guy (pointing to me) with SheDevil??

In all honestly I have seen more maturity and industry smarts from her than I have in some 50 year olds. That can be said for anyone who has worked with or listened to her presentations during seminars at Internext or Webmaster Access. Even Xbiz has asked her to be a writer for several articles. So I really don?t have to deal with anything in regards to her - especially age difference as I treat her on the same level with anyone and everyone else. She is not my slave nor am I hers. She is a very strong and determined player in this industry who commands respect from anyone she works with ? including and most of all ? me.

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Right now all I care about is my relationship with myself ? if someone can?t handle the fact I work in porn, then do I really want them as a friend? I mean seriously ? working in porn makes me as much of a bad person and threat to your family as going to a movie makes me an actor. It?s a product ? simple as that. You don?t harass a corner store employee or brand them pervert because they sell nude magazines on the shelf?

Now I do not walk around boasting about it nor wear T-Shirt?s that kids can see, but when asked I am not going to necessarily shy off the topic unless I know that the person I am speaking to simply is too immature to handle such news ? then it becomes a matter of, ?do I really want to get into a debate of morals right now??

Look - be my friend or don?t be ? the choice is yours and my door is always open. I am not going to run after you. Same as family ? my door is always open should you choose to enter. I am happy with my life and who I am as a person ? I follow my heart and what it is saying is that religion doesn?t like what I do, but I don?t follow man?s religion on how my life should be dictated ? my gut is that God doesn?t have a problem since He/She is the only one who knows my heart/intentions and I have not sensed that my life is in anyway offensive.

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[QUOTE=TheLegacy;13508201]...... For me, it was only a matter of time as soon as I saw her eyes and could see myself growing old staring at them.
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my brutha, it wasn't her eyes you were staring into



Great interview.

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This guy has ethcis, seems to be monogamous...(hard to spell harder to do), and you know what, he really is a good guy.

Robert, thanks for helping me out when I came back to the biz!

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This is a long awaited ambush. Robert is a great guy, this should be interesting.

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16. You put Webmaster Paradise on the map. Why did you recently leave them and who are you working for now?

I do appreciate the compliment but Webmaster Paradise has been around for 12 years as well ? I don?t think I put them on the map. I believe as the community grew that I only assisted in pointing them out on the map. A lot of the top affiliate programs were already using them before I started.

To be honest I saw myself retiring there ? they are family to me and making a decision to leave was one of the most difficult moments of my life. I had security for my family and a team atmosphere with a work ethic that many envied and emulated. An atmosphere you only see in the largest trained Fortune 100 companies that spend a great deal of money on positive ? motivational ? teamwork driven campaigns.

They already knew the strategies for success so I was merely complimenting their current program. They saw their employees as important as the webmasters who were their clients. Not driving them as slaves and cutting benefits for bottom line. Employees were motivated to work harder simply because they cared about the company rather than the paycheck. The company rewarded this by making sure employees weren?t worried about their personal lives knowing that you couldn?t focus you entire attention onto the job if you think you can?t make your mortgage or rent. Not too mention employees are more than likely to quit for a better paying job and atmosphere which ultimately affects the trust of webmasters when they see good people leaving.

Managers realized that good management style happens when you are not in the office. To trust and entrust decisions to those under you then if any problems arose, worked on a solution together. Employee?s were never belittled or treated negatively. It was part of that strategy already in place that put them on the map. I only introduced more webmasters to it. No matter how networked you are, the only thing you can do is open the door so webmasters can take a look, if the program/content sucks no level of kissing ass will have someone sign up or risk loosing money over.

Webmaster Paradise did need some tuning, but they quickly and willingly took the advice given and we had the entire company changed within a few months and immediately growth started to occur once it was done. Webmasters merely waiting for the doors to re-open to have a second look but liked what they saw. Still today after I left the growth continues with Ron Stewart running the show as Director of Sales and Marketing. He was the only person I could see settling into the position I once held.

Sexdatecash.com contacted me requesting that I use my networking and management style to bring similar success to their team. In a world where adult dating sites have such a bad name because of fake profiles and unwanted programs ? these guys grew the old fashioned method by getting one real profile at a time. They lacked the ability for global dominance and needed a strong representative to compliment their program not only to get them there but to tell others they arrived.

Still - my first reaction was no way. I was happy ? secure ? and had a team that worked well together. Why would I sacrifice any of that for a risky venture in a team I knew nothing about and in a field that was already stained by negative programs?

As I considered the offer, I then realized that this is what I do best. Change the landscape of a company?s future for the best by working with them to open the right channels for success in addition to remolding their management style for optimum sales potentials and they seemed to have that same goal in mind. They were hungry for change. The past few months have been working directly with each person accomplishing the larger goal of making the company world wide so webmasters can now get the maximum dollar return on their traffic.

Anyone in this industry knows of my reputation and that I have spoken and helped many webmasters/company?s over the 12 years rise to worldwide recognition and or company growth. I?ve done seminars and written articles on the topics.

Yet success is not accomplished by one person - it is only through the teamwork and positive management styles that a company offers in return. Those companies in the past that contacted me that were too stubborn, arrogant, watching pennies while dollars floated by or micro-managed themselves into a slow sales slump simply could not be helped and I had to leave them to their own preferred old style of managing in frustration as they simply could not let go of the reins in order to let their company grow.

It is not pride that I say this, the methods I suggest are not my own - but the experience and wisdom I have gained over all this time from speaking to owners who now are multi-millionaires of successful adult companies that offer advice to me. I do not know everything about this industry, but I sure as hell know those who do. It is that combined knowledge of success from those greater than I that I draw upon to help others out.

If some companies chose to ignore the advice from successful business men who turned their companies around from nothing to garnishing respect from everyone else in this industry then who am I to force them? Whether it was pride or something else is not my concern, but I can only say I gave it my best shot.

Sexdatecash?s president Mark is an amazing guy to work with and I am often taken back that in his early 30?s he has driven this company along with his natural abilities for success. How many presidents of large dating sites actually contact the members personally to thank them? Or stand up for their employee?s? If the sexdatenetwork membership had a planned get together, not only would Mark be asked to come but he would want to show up ? that?s a community and dedicated man.

I an excited about what the future of this company has to offer and how each employee can shine by bringing to the table their insights along with those successful owners and legends who are much wiser than I in this industry.
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17. Do you think Bromasters is childish or extremely funny? Who do you think is behind it?

I honestly had to ask Cyndalie from 12clickscash.com about this and she said, “A bromaster is an idiotic male webmaster with few actual technical skills, who has a so called over the top "personality" often confused with "marketing skills", a half rotten liver, very little sexual prowess, and essentially one who seeks success through the attention and approval of other males in the industry.”

Let me answer the second question first – I think Juicy is behind it, but like any masterpiece there are always copies out there, and we all know what happens when you copy from an original. Do it enough times and you have a bunch of idiot clones out there. What many out there who try and copy Juicy’s style fail simply because they do not have his abilities and smarts that make that style work for him. It is natural for him. He’s cool. But now you find skinny white kids walking around as though they are from the hood – when in fact if they only looked in the mirror they would see that “dude your white.. and your from the suburbs!!!!” It truly is sad that you need to loose your own identity just to get people to like you. When in fact when I meet these people and they drop the act and allow themselves to be real – they are seriously great people, but just want to play an act that someone told them works in this industry for success.

This is a multi-billion dollar industry with sales agents who get drunk and splash around in hotel fountains and basically humiliate their company by making fools of themselves. I can only blame the owners who are un-imaginative that focusing on your companies features as to why they are a better choice – instead they try and draw attention by either price wars or by saying, “look who has the most arrogant party animal employed here”.

Webmasters care about money – and if your showing them that you don’t know how to make them money then your program is no different than anyone else’s. Show them your company’s strength in product and service first, THAT is how webmasters will sign up – NOT who can literally fuck more hookers in Vegas than the next guy.

More adult companies are waking up that more money is wasted on this style of marketing and sales then actually doing marketing and sales.
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I remember actually speaking up during the seminar and admitting my error in judgment for him. I am always happy to correct myself and be willing to admit it, that is how we all grow by learning from our mistakes. Sadly this industry has individuals that are so egotistical and full of themselves that they simply can?t admit that they made a mistake
I always say that admitting when your wrong or when you've made a mistake is a sign of strength, NOT weakness. That's something you should be very proud of.
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Old 12-13-2007, 02:17 PM   #146
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Good reading Robert! One of the best Ambush Interviews yet.
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Old 12-13-2007, 02:49 PM   #148
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you know Robert & Martina are brother & sister, right
joking joking

bumping for my man Robert
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Old 12-13-2007, 02:52 PM   #149
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you know Robert & Martina are brother & sister, right
joking joking

bumping for my man Robert
Oh man - just having the same last name gives me quivers, and when she touched my coat - wooooot - I use it as a pillow now. She is simply stunning

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I love these answers. Great Job Robert!!! Keep them coming!!!
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