Have you ever had a woman love you, but you didn't love her? - GoFuckYourself.com

DWB · 08-09-2008, 04:49 AM

I read a post a few days ago, I think the one about list 10 things about yourself that nobody knows, and one of you said that you were in a relationship with a women you loved you deeply, but you didn't love her.

I've been there. More than once. It doesn't feel good and I knew out of the gate that it was not going to go where she wanted it to. Yet I stuck it out for a while for some dumb reason.

I know I'm not alone on this.

Guys... or girls... this ever happen to you?

polish_aristocrat · 08-09-2008, 04:56 AM

If I loved a woman and she didn't love me but we weren't even in a relationship then what do I vote?

Bird · 08-09-2008, 04:58 AM

They all love the way I fuck!

Ecchi22 · 08-09-2008, 05:05 AM

Sure I do.. But no relationship.

Can't be in relationship with someone I don't love

Ecchi22 · 08-09-2008, 05:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

If I loved a woman and she didn't love me but we weren't even in a relationship then what do I vote?

I was asking myself the same question

Jens Van Assterdam · 08-09-2008, 05:07 AM

You actually love women in thailand? Did i miss something?

DWB · 08-09-2008, 05:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat

If I loved a woman and she didn't love me but we weren't even in a relationship then what do I vote?

Maybe it's just me, but I sometimes move into a relationship based on a strong LIKE. If I LIKE her a lot, I move forward, thinking perhaps my feelings for her will grow as I get to know her.

sinkiss · 08-09-2008, 09:18 AM

i have been there, and telling them i would never feel the same was really hard to do but was best for both of us.

CaptainHowdy · 08-09-2008, 09:34 AM

If a woman loved me and I didn't love her back I wouldn't be in a relationship with her ...

DWB · 08-09-2008, 09:41 AM

So it sounds that some of you wait until you are actually in love with someone to start any sort of relationship with them. Odd. You don't have a period where you date them, get to know them, and get closer?

Come on... I'm not going to believe you're all falling in love at first site. LOL

Vicious_B · 08-09-2008, 01:01 PM

I was totally into a guy that seemed was the same way with me. Well he ended things with me to go exclusive with another girl. We stayed friends bc he was always honest with me. During their whole relationship she acted more and more like a possessive domineering bitch and he realized he fucked up. He came back to me ended up more head over heels in love than ever. It really sucked while he was with her tho. I had really deep feelings for him and to talk to him and know he was so unhappy was really hard.

baddog · 08-09-2008, 01:20 PM

Hasn't everyone?

WarChild · 08-09-2008, 01:23 PM

Just hit it until it becomes a burden, then it's time for a shovel, old tarp and a bag of lime.

RevSand · 08-09-2008, 02:19 PM

Yep.. Done that a few too many times... Its not a good situation to be in yet I keep finding myself in them. Sometimes it seems I just like a girl as a friend or as a good hump BUT they seem to want to take it much further then I ever want to with them... Sucks since I do not want to give up a good friendship and/or hump over it. I try to stay from the start as non-committal as possible with the girl until its just too much of a burden.

jakethedog · 08-09-2008, 02:28 PM

just your mom .. but we broke it off because you sister wanted some ..

RobAlbaugh · 08-09-2008, 02:29 PM

I hooked up with this married chick once after listening to her sob story about her hubby beat her. Told her I couldnt be with her until she was divorced. She got divorced, hooked up and fell madly for her. One month away from marrying her, her fucking mom decides to run her life and tries pushing her back to her ex. 9 years later, she marries some other fucking dude that looks like a chipmunk. I ended up marrying someone else cuz I knew she would never come back.

Thats why I got into porn. I figured if I was fucking other girls, i would never think about her...I was wrong. Not a moment or day that goes by Im not thinking of her. FUCK!

Martin · 08-09-2008, 02:41 PM

Yes and vice versa.

Barefootsies · 08-09-2008, 06:04 PM

Yes I have. 90% of the time.

DefaultMan · 08-09-2008, 06:12 PM

Yes a few times. I tend to loose interest quick but stay around because I like having a girlfriend. I hope I grow outa that.....

RayBonga · 08-09-2008, 06:24 PM

Off course.

There's good money to be made by pimping out women that fall in love with you, married ones are the best, just have them drain the hubby bank account before you kicked them out.

d-null · 08-09-2008, 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DirtyWhiteBoy

I read a post a few days ago, I think the one about list 10 things about yourself that nobody knows, and one of you said that you were in a relationship with a women you loved you deeply, but you didn't love her.

I've been there. More than once. It doesn't feel good and I knew out of the gate that it was not going to go where she wanted it to. Yet I stuck it out for a while for some dumb reason.

I know I'm not alone on this.

Guys... or girls... this ever happen to you?

almost every time, but the word "love" is wrong, because you can still love someone but not want to be together anymore (love meaning you care about them and what happens to them, but not to the point of sacrficing your self and your freedom in staying with them)

...edit: to clarify my post, I mean you can be in love with someone even though you still dump them because freedom trumps everything else

tony286 · 08-09-2008, 07:21 PM

Had women love me and I didnt love them. Also had girls I loved and didnt love me back. I remember listening to What a Fool Believes and crying in my beer. lol

Spunky · 08-09-2008, 07:55 PM

The more you make them cum,the more they love you

klaze · 08-09-2008, 10:20 PM

/me sings "What's love got to do with it, got to do with it!"

I think every girl that has gotten close enuff to love me i've loved back.

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Yes	30	78.95%
No	0	0%
I've never been in love	0	0%
I've never been in a relationship	1	2.63%
I was the one who loved, and was not loved back. :-(	7	18.42%
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08-09-2008, 04:49 AM	#1
DWB Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Encrypted. Access denied. Posts: 31,779	Have you ever had a woman love you, but you didn't love her? I read a post a few days ago, I think the one about list 10 things about yourself that nobody knows, and one of you said that you were in a relationship with a women you loved you deeply, but you didn't love her. I've been there. More than once. It doesn't feel good and I knew out of the gate that it was not going to go where she wanted it to. Yet I stuck it out for a while for some dumb reason. I know I'm not alone on this. Guys... or girls... this ever happen to you?

08-09-2008, 04:56 AM	#2
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08-09-2008, 09:41 AM	#10
DWB Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Encrypted. Access denied. Posts: 31,779	So it sounds that some of you wait until you are actually in love with someone to start any sort of relationship with them. Odd. You don't have a period where you date them, get to know them, and get closer? Come on... I'm not going to believe you're all falling in love at first site. LOL

08-09-2008, 01:01 PM	#11
Vicious_B Confirmed User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 2,564	I was totally into a guy that seemed was the same way with me. Well he ended things with me to go exclusive with another girl. We stayed friends bc he was always honest with me. During their whole relationship she acted more and more like a possessive domineering bitch and he realized he fucked up. He came back to me ended up more head over heels in love than ever. It really sucked while he was with her tho. I had really deep feelings for him and to talk to him and know he was so unhappy was really hard. __________________ ICQ# 419 775 271

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WarChild Let slip the dogs of war. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Bermuda Posts: 17,263	Just hit it until it becomes a burden, then it's time for a shovel, old tarp and a bag of lime. __________________ .

08-09-2008, 02:19 PM	#14
RevSand Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Porn Valley Posts: 8,151	Yep.. Done that a few too many times... Its not a good situation to be in yet I keep finding myself in them. Sometimes it seems I just like a girl as a friend or as a good hump BUT they seem to want to take it much further then I ever want to with them... Sucks since I do not want to give up a good friendship and/or hump over it. I try to stay from the start as non-committal as possible with the girl until its just too much of a burden. __________________ BadBitchesGoodWeed Hire me for all your video shooting needs!! Skype = RevSandx

08-09-2008, 02:28 PM	#15
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08-09-2008, 02:29 PM	#16
RobAlbaugh So Fucking Banned Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 69	I hooked up with this married chick once after listening to her sob story about her hubby beat her. Told her I couldnt be with her until she was divorced. She got divorced, hooked up and fell madly for her. One month away from marrying her, her fucking mom decides to run her life and tries pushing her back to her ex. 9 years later, she marries some other fucking dude that looks like a chipmunk. I ended up marrying someone else cuz I knew she would never come back. Thats why I got into porn. I figured if I was fucking other girls, i would never think about her...I was wrong. Not a moment or day that goes by Im not thinking of her. FUCK!

08-09-2008, 02:41 PM	#17
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08-09-2008, 06:24 PM	#20
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08-09-2008, 07:21 PM	#22
tony286 lurker Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: atlanta Posts: 57,021	Had women love me and I didnt love them. Also had girls I loved and didnt love me back. I remember listening to What a Fool Believes and crying in my beer. lol

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08-09-2008, 10:20 PM	#24
klaze So Fucking Banned Join Date: May 2008 Location: Adult Marketing Mecca Posts: 2,167	/me sings "What's love got to do with it, got to do with it!" I think every girl that has gotten close enuff to love me i've loved back. Last edited by klaze; 08-09-2008 at 10:23 PM..