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AaronM · 01-03-2009, 11:32 PM

Would you rather be single and unhappy or in an unhappy relationship?

A friend of mine asked me that today and I wasn't quite sure how to respond.

He's single and I thought he was happy.

WTF?

01-03-2009, 11:33 PM

I don't mind being single, it has its pros and cons for sure.. But every once and awhile you do need a lady by ya side.

Barefootsies · 01-03-2009, 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by HouseHead

I don't mind being single, it has its pros and cons for sure.. But every once and awhile you do need a lady by ya side.

Agreed.

I flip back and forth. I do not mind having a lady to go places with, but the other 95% of the time I prefer they not be around bitching in my ear about how much I work, how I never get away from a computer, I only care about money, and so on.... and so on...

Fucksakes · 01-03-2009, 11:59 PM

thats a very hard and good question.

Spunky · 01-04-2009, 12:01 AM

Single and unhappy.I think everybody has issues with their partners that they hate

WiredGuy · 01-04-2009, 12:06 AM

The grass is always greener on the other side... It always seems you'll be happier changing to the other status, but yet, it never seems to work out.
WG

D Ghost · 01-04-2009, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

Agreed.

I flip back and forth. I do not mind having a lady to go places with, but the other 95% of the time I prefer they not be around bitching in my ear about how much I work, how I never get away from a computer, I only care about money, and so on.... and so on...

Couldn't have said this better

DefaultMan · 01-04-2009, 12:18 AM

Being in an unhappy relationship sucks for sure so I'll have to go with being single and unhappy. At least I don't make anyone else unhappy.

Spunky · 01-04-2009, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by HouseHead

I don't mind being single, it has its pros and cons for sure.. But every once and awhile you do need a lady by ya side.

For when I need some poozle,beats the hand

hypedough · 01-04-2009, 12:27 AM

I'd prefer to be single and unhappy, why drag someone down if you're unhappy?

After Shock Media · 01-04-2009, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by hypedough

I'd prefer to be single and unhappy, why drag someone down if you're unhappy?

Cause misery loves company.

woj · 01-04-2009, 01:01 AM

it depends why you are unhappy... but probably single and unhappy, if it's just you, you just have to pull yourself together and problem is solved... when there are 2 people involved it's not as easy, way more drama involved...

Matyko · 01-04-2009, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

Agreed.

I flip back and forth. I do not mind having a lady to go places with, but the other 95% of the time I prefer they not be around bitching in my ear about how much I work, how I never get away from a computer, I only care about money, and so on.... and so on...

Same here

d-null · 01-04-2009, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

Agreed.

I flip back and forth. I do not mind having a lady to go places with, but the other 95% of the time I prefer they not be around bitching in my ear about how much I work, how I never get away from a computer, I only care about money, and so on.... and so on...

very well said

AaliyahLove · 01-04-2009, 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by AaronM

Would you rather be single and unhappy or in an unhappy relationship?

A friend of mine asked me that today and I wasn't quite sure how to respond.

He's single and I thought he was happy.

WTF?

AaronM I sent u an email today, I hope it was the correct email address

I look fwd to hearing from u!

Paul Markham · 01-04-2009, 02:34 AM

Been in both and both suck. But being with a person who is making you unhappy is far worse than being on your own and unhappy.

In a perfect relationship you drag each other through the bad times into the good times.

Anyone here met Eva?

SomeCreep · 01-04-2009, 02:37 AM

Would I rather be unhappy or unhappy? Hmmm, I pass.

Ross · 01-04-2009, 04:00 AM

In an unhappy relationship. Coz sometimes the relationship will make you feel happy. If you're single and unhappy you'll just bring others around you down - thats from past experience with friends.

AlCapone · 01-04-2009, 04:04 AM

How can someone be unhappy and single? I don't understand that. If it's just you, it's just you. If you're unhappy in that mode, you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.

seeandsee · 01-04-2009, 04:04 AM

Be unhappy and fuck that slut

TurboAngel · 01-04-2009, 04:26 AM

I would rather be happy single or not.

sexandcash · 01-04-2009, 04:52 AM

hard question...I guess I'd rather be unhappy and in a relationship just to have some company if I'm bound to be unhappy....

misery loves company?
and it's always much nicer to have company going to the movies and going out and everything

sicone · 01-04-2009, 05:06 AM

I seem to do the single and unhappy thing better then relationships

AngusAl · 01-04-2009, 06:30 AM

how can you be single AND unhappy??
That does NOT compute.........I guess some people need to have "someone" to complete them. Single is the way to be. I do what i want, when i want, as often as i want and with whoever i want.........but that's just me

Penny24Seven · 01-04-2009, 06:31 AM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy

The grass is always greener on the other side... It always seems you'll be happier changing to the other status, but yet, it never seems to work out.
WG

haha 9 times out of 10 this guy beats me to it. what he said

million · 01-04-2009, 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by AngusAl

how can you be single AND unhappy??
That does NOT compute.........I guess some people need to have "someone" to complete them. Single is the way to be. I do what i want, when i want, as often as i want and with whoever i want.........but that's just me

Exactly! If you are single and have money you can't be unhappy!

ContentSHOOTER · 01-04-2009, 07:22 AM

I was miserable for 6 years in a relationship, never thought I would ever regain any sanity after I ended it, but I feel so much better now

Sednub997 · 01-04-2009, 07:26 AM

So fucking single is much better

Hank_Heartland · 01-04-2009, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by TurboAngel

I would rather be happy single or not.

Best answer

Tell him both are bad choices and if you are in either situation...fix it

wyldblyss · 01-04-2009, 07:40 AM

I think I would rather be single and lonely, than lonely in a relationship.

CaptainHowdy · 01-04-2009, 08:02 AM

Singlehood always means happiness to me...

SilentKnight · 01-04-2009, 09:47 AM

The wife and I have been together 14 years (this Jan.) - and its been so long since I was single I can hardly recall.

jmcb420 · 01-04-2009, 09:51 AM

I would rather be single and unhappy because being in an unhappy relationship is killer hard to deal with.

RayVega · 01-04-2009, 09:51 AM

Much rather be single and unhappy. At least you can sample different women. If you are in a relationship and unhappy then you are fucking the same person all the time AND you are unhappy, a double negative.

Then again, it is almost impossible to be single and unhappy...

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CrkMStanz · 01-04-2009, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

Agreed.

I flip back and forth. I do not mind having a lady to go places with, but the other 95% of the time I prefer they not be around bitching in my ear about how much I work, how I never get away from a computer, I only care about money, and so on.... and so on...

wise words from my point of view

sortie · 01-04-2009, 10:47 AM

Unhappy relationship is worse than death.

Better to be unhappy and single because then you have all the time you
want to become happy and find a good relationship.

baddog · 01-04-2009, 10:48 AM

How can you be unhappy if single?

Tom_PM · 01-04-2009, 10:49 AM

I smell a trick question. Because in either case, it's still YOUR happiness in question. It's not like it's someone elses job to "make" you happy or not.

If someone is dragging you down and you're sick of it, let them know and hit the bricks (or other resolution).

Perspective is key also. Feeling unhappy? Take a trip to your local veterans hospital and visit some patients. You get the idea? Wheres the happiness scale anyway? One was not included in my package so I cant compare..

Sebring Studios · 01-04-2009, 10:53 AM

Great question. Personally, I function best in a relationship, just the way I'm wired.

However, I'd rather be single and unhappy than unhappy in a relationship simply because the odds of meeting someone new than I can be happy with are greater than when trapped in a shitty situation.

Grapesoda · 01-04-2009, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefootsies

Agreed.

I flip back and forth. I do not mind having a lady to go places with, but the other 95% of the time I prefer they not be around bitching in my ear about how much I work, how I never get away from a computer, I only care about money, and so on.... and so on...

that's why I shoot POV at various times

hjnet · 01-04-2009, 11:08 AM

Single, at least I can fuck any Girl I want that way....

Imortyl Pussycat · 01-04-2009, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by wyldblyss

I think I would rather be single and lonely, than lonely in a relationship.

exactly what i was thinking but couldn't find the words to explain it

Imortyl Pussycat · 01-04-2009, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Sebring Studios

Great question. Personally, I function best in a relationship, just the way I'm wired.

However, I'd rather be single and unhappy than unhappy in a relationship simply because the odds of meeting someone new than I can be happy with are greater than when trapped in a shitty situation.

excellent point

GAMEFINEST · 01-04-2009, 12:02 PM

Is he having a hard time getting ladys?

96ukssob · 01-04-2009, 12:11 PM

id rather be single and unhappy, then in an unhappy relationship. Mainly because its easier to get into a relationship than get out of one... at least without having to change the locks on the door

being single can be a downer at times, but much much better than being stuck in something

John-ACWM · 01-04-2009, 12:13 PM

Hard to tell, both answers suck...

Donfoolio · 01-04-2009, 12:24 PM

single if that were the only choice. The ideal solution is polygamy.

baddog · 01-04-2009, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ

I am married now, but was single for 6 years by choice. Here's my analogy. I love pussy and women in general and had more then my fair share, but I for damn sure don't need a women... When you truly understand this the good women come out of the woodwork.

You got married when you were 7?

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Originally Posted by Donfoolio

single if that were the only choice. The ideal solution is polygamy.

You ever been married?

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 01-04-2009, 12:31 PM

Would rather be single and happy...unhappy sucks, I try not to waste the time being miserable..life is too short.

VeriSexy · 01-04-2009, 10:03 PM

Single.. less frustrations

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01-03-2009, 11:32 PM	#1
AaronM Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: ┌∩┐ ◣_◢ ┌∩┐ Posts: 46,909	Would you rather be single and unhappy or..... Would you rather be single and unhappy or in an unhappy relationship? A friend of mine asked me that today and I wasn't quite sure how to respond. He's single and I thought he was happy. WTF?

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DefaultMan Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Hell.A. Posts: 1,869	Being in an unhappy relationship sucks for sure so I'll have to go with being single and unhappy. At least I don't make anyone else unhappy. __________________ mypornolife [at] gmail [dot] com

01-03-2009, 11:33 PM	#2
HouseHead Guest Posts: n/a	I don't mind being single, it has its pros and cons for sure.. But every once and awhile you do need a lady by ya side.

01-03-2009, 11:59 PM	#4
Fucksakes Shit... Fuck! What the Hell? Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 7,567	thats a very hard and good question.

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Ross Ik ben een aap Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Traffic Force Towers, Canada! Posts: 18,874	In an unhappy relationship. Coz sometimes the relationship will make you feel happy. If you're single and unhappy you'll just bring others around you down - thats from past experience with friends.

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sexandcash Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Los Angeles, California Posts: 1,566	hard question...I guess I'd rather be unhappy and in a relationship just to have some company if I'm bound to be unhappy.... misery loves company? and it's always much nicer to have company going to the movies and going out and everything __________________ SexandCash ICQ: 490-947-295

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Tom_PM Porn Meister Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 16,443	I smell a trick question. Because in either case, it's still YOUR happiness in question. It's not like it's someone elses job to "make" you happy or not. If someone is dragging you down and you're sick of it, let them know and hit the bricks (or other resolution). Perspective is key also. Feeling unhappy? Take a trip to your local veterans hospital and visit some patients. You get the idea? Wheres the happiness scale anyway? One was not included in my package so I cant compare.. __________________ 43-922-863 Shut up and play your guitar.

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