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SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 12:14 AM

this is really really bugging me - I'm NOT OK with this

the ex-employee thief who broke into my business and stole over $30K from me got the charges dropped today mostly cause the cops "forgot" to include all the evidence.

Basically he legally gets to KEEP everything, no criminal record and I'm stuck in bankruptcy

this isn't right

This is wrong

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life · 11-03-2009, 12:18 AM

aren't you in winnipeg? hire some shady fucker to go slice him up...

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

aren't you in winnipeg? hire some shady fucker to go slice him up...

I had three different gangs - SERIOUS ONES - offer to do that for me.
As a favor too.
I turned them down.

I want to exhaust all legal options.

I didn't do anything wrong.
He should get a criminal record for this.

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 12:25 AM

i truly believe live by the sword die by the sword.

(that isn't to say violence isn't necessary when someone hurts you or your family)

he didn't get violent, no violence necessary in return

Proportionate response. Intelligent Response.

I'm looking into other LEGAL actions to go after him and/or cripple his income.
I'll get that in place - I'm patient and persistent like a blood hound.
and fat like an elephant so I don't forget.

goldfish · 11-03-2009, 12:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleazyDream

this is really really bugging me - I'm NOT OK with this

the ex-employee thief who broke into my business and stole over $30K from me got the charges dropped today mostly cause the cops "forgot" to include all the evidence.

Basically he legally gets to KEEP everything, no criminal record and I'm stuck in bankruptcy

this isn't right

This is wrong

Welcome to my world, Had a guy come into my retail store, he was being an obnoxious pig so I kicked him out. 5 hours later he came back and sat in the car sent his 18 yr old daughter in, the minute my back was turned, she cold cocked me, the whole time dad is in the car yelling, egging her on. She was arrested, went to court and walked away scott free, not even a slap o the wrist. It cost me $2500 easily.

Cops and attorneys screw everything up, so I now have a baseball bat instead.

kane · 11-03-2009, 12:32 AM

It seems like you pretty much have three options.

1. Sue him in a civil court. It could cost you legal fees and if you win there is no way to know for sure how long it could take to recover any damages you win, but you could recover a decent amount of what he took and even if you end up having to take his property and garnish his wages, at least you get the satisfaction of knowing he is paying for what he did to you.

or

2. move on. Getting more and more pissed will only tear you up so you move on with your life.

or

3. You work to figure out if he has any other illegal activities and try your hardest to get him busted for those. It may not get your stuff back, but if he ends up going to jail for something it could help you get a little closure.

Jack Sparrow · 11-03-2009, 12:37 AM

Break into his house and get the 30k back.

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by kane

It seems like you pretty much have three options.

1. Sue him in a civil court. It could cost you legal fees and if you win there is no way to know for sure how long it could take to recover any damages you win, but you could recover a decent amount of what he took and even if you end up having to take his property and garnish his wages, at least you get the satisfaction of knowing he is paying for what he did to you.

or

2. move on. Getting more and more pissed will only tear you up so you move on with your life.

or

3. You work to figure out if he has any other illegal activities and try your hardest to get him busted for those. It may not get your stuff back, but if he ends up going to jail for something it could help you get a little closure.

sad part is I'm doing all 3.....................

I have a judgment on him already - he refuses to pay. it's an asset in my bankruptcy which I can't do anything with till i'm released then which I think i'll try and buy back ($10,000 for the first robbery) i'll probably be able to get it for $500 and then seize some of the tools back from a job site. It's good for 10 years

anything more than that is a waste of my time as when you seize stuff you get to count it as USED AUCTION value so I can seize probally $50,000 in replacement value of stuff. He doesn't have more than that.

- move on - i'm trying - today was a WHAMMY though - didn't think the gov't would drop the case against him. I seriously think it's tied to the dirty cop that helped him rob me the first time - the more he's scene as innocent the harder it is to prove the cop is dirty. I'll calm down but that will take time.

- other illegial activities - good idea and I'll work on this one too just for some personal satisfaction

thanks

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by mrfrisky

Break into his house and get the 30k back.

i'm not a theif.

when i want to walk away with people's money I use a legal tool called bankruptcy and give up everything I own and subject myself to all that it entails.

with the judgment when I'm cleared if I can buy it back I can use a sherrif and basically do just that BUT legally though....

kane · 11-03-2009, 02:54 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

sad part is I'm doing all 3.....................

I have a judgment on him already - he refuses to pay. it's an asset in my bankruptcy which I can't do anything with till i'm released then which I think i'll try and buy back ($10,000 for the first robbery) i'll probably be able to get it for $500 and then seize some of the tools back from a job site. It's good for 10 years

anything more than that is a waste of my time as when you seize stuff you get to count it as USED AUCTION value so I can seize probally $50,000 in replacement value of stuff. He doesn't have more than that.

- move on - i'm trying - today was a WHAMMY though - didn't think the gov't would drop the case against him. I seriously think it's tied to the dirty cop that helped him rob me the first time - the more he's scene as innocent the harder it is to prove the cop is dirty. I'll calm down but that will take time.

- other illegial activities - good idea and I'll work on this one too just for some personal satisfaction

thanks

I feel your pain. A few years back I had a so called friend steal my identity and run up about 40K in credit as well as about 6K in bad checks. It took a while to track him down and when they finally caught him the county prosecutors cut him a deal. He pleaded guilty to a few of the things he had done to me and to a battery charge and he got off with a short sentence and probation. They decided to go this route because he already had one conviction for assault and at the time he stole my identity he had a warrant for domestic violence. So with two violent convictions he has two strikes. One more and he goes to jail for at least 25 years.

It all sounded good to me, but then a few of the creditors that he had opened up accounts with still demanded their money. There was no security camera footage proving he was the guy that opened the account and with no conviction they decided to come after me for the money owed. I eventually got it all straightened out, but it cost me about 3K in legal fees and a hours and hours of headaches.

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by kane

I feel your pain. A few years back I had a so called friend steal my identity and run up about 40K in credit as well as about 6K in bad checks. It took a while to track him down and when they finally caught him the county prosecutors cut him a deal. He pleaded guilty to a few of the things he had done to me and to a battery charge and he got off with a short sentence and probation. They decided to go this route because he already had one conviction for assault and at the time he stole my identity he had a warrant for domestic violence. So with two violent convictions he has two strikes. One more and he goes to jail for at least 25 years.

It all sounded good to me, but then a few of the creditors that he had opened up accounts with still demanded their money. There was no security camera footage proving he was the guy that opened the account and with no conviction they decided to come after me for the money owed. I eventually got it all straightened out, but it cost me about 3K in legal fees and a hours and hours of headaches.

it's a nightmear.

but at least I got my health

Agent 488 · 11-03-2009, 03:04 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

it's a nightmear.

but at least I got my health

with your stress that will probably fail soon as well.

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 03:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Agent 488

with your stress that will probably fail soon as well.

thanks for making me feel better

Juicy D. Links · 11-03-2009, 04:47 AM

cam_girls · 11-03-2009, 04:51 AM

put it in perspective, no physical harm done, you live to fight another day.

Phoenix · 11-03-2009, 05:19 AM

walk softly and carry a big stick

plan something that will screw him over....something he deserves like jailtime

be in toronto that day...golfing

themadwriter · 11-03-2009, 05:33 AM

american justice system sucks!

You want justice go to a whore house, you want to get fucked go to a court house!

american pervert · 11-03-2009, 06:29 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I had three different gangs - SERIOUS ONES - offer to do that for me.
As a favor too.
I turned them down.

I want to exhaust all legal options.

I didn't do anything wrong.
He should get a criminal record for this.

well sir, you have your chance to serve up justice. Do it and have the gang split any cash they find 50/50

fuck a criminal record, he prolly already has one

pornguy · 11-03-2009, 06:33 AM

Honestly.. Go back to the cops and the court.. tell them this is actually a gay lovers thing and he is doing it to hurt you because he is straight. You spent a wonderful night being nailed by him and then he cleaned you out and now they are refusing to fdo anything because you are gay and he is not.

american pervert · 11-03-2009, 06:40 AM

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Originally Posted by themadwriter

american justice system sucks!

You want justice go to a whore house, you want to get fucked go to a court house!

he's in canada

thanks for playing.

Snake Doctor · 11-03-2009, 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I'm looking into other LEGAL actions to go after him and/or cripple his income.

Well the best you can do is the judgment really. It's not just good for 10 years either, you just have to renew it after 10 years.

If he ever wants to get a job where they do a background/credit check beforehand, that will show up. The only way he can get the judgment off his credit report is to settle with you or file bankruptcy.

If/when he gets a steady job you can garnish his wages also. So while it may not "feel" like a proportional response, you can still slowly extract your pound of flesh, legally.

plsureking · 11-03-2009, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by goldfish

..5 hours later he came back and sat in the car sent his 18 yr old daughter in, the minute my back was turned, she cold cocked me, the whole time dad is in the car yelling, egging her on...

wait, so u got beat up by an 18 yo girl?

CaroMark · 11-03-2009, 07:06 AM

Stuff like this really sucks. My old partner was into expensive go-kart racing with his sons a few years back when they had a bunch of their gear stolen, including a one of a kind painted helmet for his son. He had an idea of where it was at and was driving around the neighborhood and saw it all in a yard, called the cops, and while it had all been reported they did nothing for him. He could see it but could never legally get it back.

Best of luck with your situation and don't let the lawyers be the only ones that prosper from you grief.

docputer · 11-03-2009, 07:20 AM

Did the prosecutor drop the charges with prejudice? If so, if the cops get their act together they can refile and bring him to court again. At least in my part of the world it works that way. Half the time, they will drop charges against someone in the courtroom, then re-arrest them as they walk out the door.

JamesK · 11-03-2009, 07:27 AM

it's a good time for you to start practicing buddhism

CDSmith · 11-03-2009, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by kane

I feel your pain. A few years back I had a so called friend steal my identity and run up about 40K in credit as well as about 6K in bad checks. It took a while to track him down and when they finally caught him the county prosecutors cut him a deal. He pleaded guilty to a few of the things he had done to me and to a battery charge and he got off with a short sentence and probation. They decided to go this route because he already had one conviction for assault and at the time he stole my identity he had a warrant for domestic violence. So with two violent convictions he has two strikes. One more and he goes to jail for at least 25 years.

It all sounded good to me, but then a few of the creditors that he had opened up accounts with still demanded their money. There was no security camera footage proving he was the guy that opened the account and with no conviction they decided to come after me for the money owed. I eventually got it all straightened out, but it cost me about 3K in legal fees and a hours and hours of headaches.

I wish Canada would adopt the 3 strike rule.

Tam · 11-03-2009, 07:57 AM

That sucks so bad for you and I hope and pray he gets what's coming to him someday. Wish you the best working thru this.

We had an ex-employer giving my family shit for 2 years after my husband quit a job once. I ended up having a nervous breakdown and so did my husband. She stalked my family so bad and because she was rich, the cops didn't do shit to her. We ended up moving to 3 different states to try and find work and we couldn't because she kept finding us and calling the places and telling them that my husband was anything from a thief to a violent person, which couldn't be further from the truth.

This bitch even went so far as to catch her own house on fire and call the cops and give them my husband's description....... thank GOD we were in Texas when it happened so we had a clear alibi, but wow, she all but destroyed our lives for about 3 years.

My kids are still a little freaked out over that breakdown we had to this day. It's hard on young children when BOTH of their parents breakdown at the exact same time. And in a 3 year time span, we lost both of his parents, a baby and were stalked and ran all over the country trying to just survive and keep them from all of it.

SHE, to this day is walking along in her life doing what she does and never paid one fucking minute for the hell she put my family thru. We were so obsessed with tearing her down that we almost lost everything a second time. It was only when we gave it up that WE could move on. My husband finally got work with one of his close friends and I got work in the Porn Industry to help him make the bills.

Wow.... never spoke that out loud before.... my point is, don't let this drive YOU crazy making him pay, people like that never have to pay, not on this earth anyway.

Slick · 11-03-2009, 08:10 AM

It's rediculas how the courts are always cutting deals and dropping shit, I think it's totally bullshit. If you do the crime, you should do the time, nobody should get a break. Maybe if they ran things that way, there'd be a bit less crime going on.

A prime example of that is a guy that lives around here that I know. He's got a massive history of violence, from totally climbing over the counter at a gas station and beating the fuck outta the cashier because he wouldn't sell him alcohol when he was under age, to him sneaking into his ex-girlfriend's appartment and beating the fuck out of her, breaking the bone in her eye socket in FRONT of her kid. I could go on and on, there's also the guy that he beat the fuck out of with a lead pipe, but yet this guy gets a slap on the wrist and is back on the streets, I thought that crimes piled up against you after you repeat and repeat and reapeat. One day he's gonna kill someone.

Good luck with your situation, hopefully something will work out for ya.

will76 · 11-03-2009, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I had three different gangs - SERIOUS ONES - offer to do that for me.
As a favor too.
I turned them down.

I want to exhaust all legal options.

I didn't do anything wrong.
He should get a criminal record for this.

knowing you if you did hire someone to do something illegal you would come back here and tell us about it

so probably good idea you never do anything illegal.

On a side note, you should just move. Unless you have family or (well i would say friends but we know the status of at least one of them) keeping you there, you should move to a new city. You never going to beat the cops. All it takes is one of them to pull you over and throw a small bag of cock on your back seat and your done. Try proving it wasn't yours. I am sure they could fuck with you a million ways if you piss them off the wrong ones.

TurboAngel · 11-03-2009, 08:32 AM

Shit babe that sucks!

I hope in the end he get's what he deserves.

CDSmith · 11-03-2009, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by will76

knowing you if you did hire someone to do something illegal you would come back here and tell us about it

so probably good idea you never do anything illegal.

On a side note, you should just move. Unless you have family or (well i would say friends but we know the status of at least one of them) keeping you there, you should move to a new city. You never going to beat the cops. All it takes is one of them to pull you over and throw a small bag of cock on your back seat and your done. Try proving it wasn't yours. I am sure they could fuck with you a million ways if you piss them off the wrong ones.

Possession and/or transporting of cock isn't illegal in Manitoba. :D

goldfish · 11-03-2009, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by plsureking

wait, so u got beat up by an 18 yo girl?

Considering I am a 40(as of today) year old woman, I didn't find it quite that funny.

NBBCash Matze · 11-03-2009, 09:00 AM

really bad stories here, I bet sleazy you will never trust an employee again. Most Cops seem to be just incapable. I remember some of those freaks running around my Golf MK2 to find anything illegal to get me out of the streets, instead of hunting criminals (embarrassing).

plsureking · 11-03-2009, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by goldfish

Considering I am a 40(as of today) year old woman, I didn't find it quite that funny.

still funny to me (this is gfy) but happy birthday

and u need to upgrade to pro for your shrink the web account on your website. looks pretty hackish right now.

woj · 11-03-2009, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

Possession and/or transporting of cock isn't illegal in Manitoba. :D

Snake Doctor · 11-03-2009, 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

Possession and/or transporting of cock isn't illegal in Manitoba. :D

And you know this how? hmmmmm?

JayDeeZee · 11-03-2009, 09:15 AM

You have no control over the situation. Give up and have faith that karma will work it all out.

How much sweeter will victory taste once you've gone from a complete failure to a success once again?

will76 · 11-03-2009, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

Possession and/or transporting of cock isn't illegal in Manitoba. :D

if you had a bag of cock that would have to be illegal

because there would be a bunch of dudes running around missing their cocks.

god i've been doing this shit too long.

COKE!!!

Jdoughs · 11-03-2009, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by JayDeeZee

You have no control over the situation. Give up and have faith that karma will work it all out.

How much sweeter will victory taste once you've gone from a complete failure to a success once again?

Sleazy just don't have it in him, read some of his posts, its pretty evident. You don't blame everyone except yourself for failure and bounce back from it. You need to figure out where you failed and fix it (not blame everyone and their dog)

Also, whats with everyone of his last posts happening 60 minutes after closing time in Manitoba? You working as a bartender Sleazy? Or on the sauce?

tranza · 11-03-2009, 09:37 AM

Damn, sorry to hear that..

Brujah · 11-03-2009, 11:04 AM

Karma's really kicking your ass isn't it?

96ukssob · 11-03-2009, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I had three different gangs - SERIOUS ONES - offer to do that for me.
As a favor too.
I turned them down.

I want to exhaust all legal options.

I didn't do anything wrong.
He should get a criminal record for this.

thats the fucked up part. this guy does all this shit from you and walks away, but if you were to go bust his knee caps with a bat you would be spending 5 years in jail

Loch · 11-03-2009, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

this is really really bugging me - I'm NOT OK with this

the ex-employee thief who broke into my business and stole over $30K from me got the charges dropped today mostly cause the cops "forgot" to include all the evidence.

Basically he legally gets to KEEP everything, no criminal record and I'm stuck in bankruptcy

this isn't right

This is wrong

Is this partner an industry known person?
I dident read most of the thread here so if its in there dont mind the stupid question.

goldfish · 11-03-2009, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by plsureking

still funny to me (this is gfy) but happy birthday

and u need to upgrade to pro for your shrink the web account on your website. looks pretty hackish right now.

Thanks!

Fixed to!

kane · 11-03-2009, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by CDSmith

I wish Canada would adopt the 3 strike rule.

Yeah, our three strikes rule is cool. Some criminals will get more than 25 years depending on what their third strike is, but even if this guy so much as grabs his girlfriend and leaves a bruise and she calls the cops he is going away for at least 25 years.

I was shocked when the whole thing when down. I had no idea this guy had a record or was such a dirtbag.

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by will76

knowing you if you did hire someone to do something illegal you would come back here and tell us about it

so probably good idea you never do anything illegal.

On a side note, you should just move. Unless you have family or (well i would say friends but we know the status of at least one of them) keeping you there, you should move to a new city. You never going to beat the cops. All it takes is one of them to pull you over and throw a small bag of cock on your back seat and your done. Try proving it wasn't yours. I am sure they could fuck with you a million ways if you piss them off the wrong ones.

already did - i'm out the city of Winnipeg police's jurisdiction.

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Loch

Is this partner an industry known person?
I dident read most of the thread here so if its in there dont mind the stupid question.

no he wasn't from the industry.

worst thing I had from the industry was someone didn't pay me - happens, people have shit that goes on in their life. I had many deals go bad and many for a lot more money than the one most know about on here.

I'm over that - I was more pissed that person told me they were only my friend for the money then for the financial loss. It was pretty clear too. That's where I got really hurt there.

SleazyDream · 11-03-2009, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by JayDeeZee

You have no control over the situation. Give up and have faith that karma will work it all out.

How much sweeter will victory taste once you've gone from a complete failure to a success once again?

probally the wisest words in this thread

CamTraffic · 11-03-2009, 08:36 PM

success is the best revenge
you need to let go and move on

CDSmith · 11-04-2009, 05:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Snake Doctor

And you know this how? hmmmmm?

I transport one big enough to fill a bag all the time and have never been arrested for it.

11-03-2009, 12:14 AM	#1
SleazyDream I'm here for SPORT Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phone # (401) 285-0696 Posts: 41,470	I'm really NOT Ok here this is really really bugging me - I'm NOT OK with this the ex-employee thief who broke into my business and stole over $30K from me got the charges dropped today mostly cause the cops "forgot" to include all the evidence. Basically he legally gets to KEEP everything, no criminal record and I'm stuck in bankruptcy this isn't right This is wrong __________________ This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog! Now read without the word dog.

11-03-2009, 12:25 AM	#4
SleazyDream I'm here for SPORT Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phone # (401) 285-0696 Posts: 41,470	i truly believe live by the sword die by the sword. (that isn't to say violence isn't necessary when someone hurts you or your family) he didn't get violent, no violence necessary in return Proportionate response. Intelligent Response. I'm looking into other LEGAL actions to go after him and/or cripple his income. I'll get that in place - I'm patient and persistent like a blood hound. and fat like an elephant so I don't forget. __________________ This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog! Now read without the word dog.

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pornguy Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Homeless Posts: 62,911	Honestly.. Go back to the cops and the court.. tell them this is actually a gay lovers thing and he is doing it to hurt you because he is straight. You spent a wonderful night being nailed by him and then he cleaned you out and now they are refusing to fdo anything because you are gay and he is not. __________________ PornGuy skype me pornguy_epic AmateurDough The Hottes Shemales online! TChicks.com \| Angeles Cid \| Mariana Cordoba \| MAILERS WELCOME!

11-03-2009, 12:18 AM	#2
Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life (felis madjewicus) Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In Mom & Dad's Basement Posts: 20,368	aren't you in winnipeg? hire some shady fucker to go slice him up...

11-03-2009, 12:32 AM	#6
kane Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: portland, OR Posts: 20,684	It seems like you pretty much have three options. 1. Sue him in a civil court. It could cost you legal fees and if you win there is no way to know for sure how long it could take to recover any damages you win, but you could recover a decent amount of what he took and even if you end up having to take his property and garnish his wages, at least you get the satisfaction of knowing he is paying for what he did to you. or 2. move on. Getting more and more pissed will only tear you up so you move on with your life. or 3. You work to figure out if he has any other illegal activities and try your hardest to get him busted for those. It may not get your stuff back, but if he ends up going to jail for something it could help you get a little closure.

11-03-2009, 12:37 AM	#7
Jack Sparrow Almost goners.. Industry Role: Join Date: May 2008 Location: Netherlands Posts: 11,420	Break into his house and get the 30k back.

11-03-2009, 04:47 AM	#14
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11-03-2009, 04:51 AM	#15
cam_girls So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 2,968	put it in perspective, no physical harm done, you live to fight another day.

11-03-2009, 07:06 AM	#23
CaroMark Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Tampa, Florida Posts: 1,357	Stuff like this really sucks. My old partner was into expensive go-kart racing with his sons a few years back when they had a bunch of their gear stolen, including a one of a kind painted helmet for his son. He had an idea of where it was at and was driving around the neighborhood and saw it all in a yard, called the cops, and while it had all been reported they did nothing for him. He could see it but could never legally get it back. Best of luck with your situation and don't let the lawyers be the only ones that prosper from you grief. __________________ Mark M, 727-433-0745 [email protected] Support is everything! ICQ# 40467849, AIM MMemmer333

11-03-2009, 07:20 AM	#24
docputer Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,103	Did the prosecutor drop the charges with prejudice? If so, if the cops get their act together they can refile and bring him to court again. At least in my part of the world it works that way. Half the time, they will drop charges against someone in the courtroom, then re-arrest them as they walk out the door.

11-03-2009, 07:27 AM	#25
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11-03-2009, 07:57 AM	#27
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,484	That sucks so bad for you and I hope and pray he gets what's coming to him someday. Wish you the best working thru this. We had an ex-employer giving my family shit for 2 years after my husband quit a job once. I ended up having a nervous breakdown and so did my husband. She stalked my family so bad and because she was rich, the cops didn't do shit to her. We ended up moving to 3 different states to try and find work and we couldn't because she kept finding us and calling the places and telling them that my husband was anything from a thief to a violent person, which couldn't be further from the truth. This bitch even went so far as to catch her own house on fire and call the cops and give them my husband's description....... thank GOD we were in Texas when it happened so we had a clear alibi, but wow, she all but destroyed our lives for about 3 years. My kids are still a little freaked out over that breakdown we had to this day. It's hard on young children when BOTH of their parents breakdown at the exact same time. And in a 3 year time span, we lost both of his parents, a baby and were stalked and ran all over the country trying to just survive and keep them from all of it. SHE, to this day is walking along in her life doing what she does and never paid one fucking minute for the hell she put my family thru. We were so obsessed with tearing her down that we almost lost everything a second time. It was only when we gave it up that WE could move on. My husband finally got work with one of his close friends and I got work in the Porn Industry to help him make the bills. Wow.... never spoke that out loud before.... my point is, don't let this drive YOU crazy making him pay, people like that never have to pay, not on this earth anyway. __________________ "Want to get listed on The Porn Map? Email [email protected] or message me on Skype (TamboSpr)!"

11-03-2009, 08:10 AM	#28
Slick Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Houghton, MI Posts: 7,338	It's rediculas how the courts are always cutting deals and dropping shit, I think it's totally bullshit. If you do the crime, you should do the time, nobody should get a break. Maybe if they ran things that way, there'd be a bit less crime going on. A prime example of that is a guy that lives around here that I know. He's got a massive history of violence, from totally climbing over the counter at a gas station and beating the fuck outta the cashier because he wouldn't sell him alcohol when he was under age, to him sneaking into his ex-girlfriend's appartment and beating the fuck out of her, breaking the bone in her eye socket in FRONT of her kid. I could go on and on, there's also the guy that he beat the fuck out of with a lead pipe, but yet this guy gets a slap on the wrist and is back on the streets, I thought that crimes piled up against you after you repeat and repeat and reapeat. One day he's gonna kill someone. Good luck with your situation, hopefully something will work out for ya.

11-03-2009, 08:32 AM	#30
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	Shit babe that sucks! I hope in the end he get's what he deserves.

11-03-2009, 09:00 AM	#33
NBBCash Matze Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1,368	really bad stories here, I bet sleazy you will never trust an employee again. Most Cops seem to be just incapable. I remember some of those freaks running around my Golf MK2 to find anything illegal to get me out of the streets, instead of hunting criminals (embarrassing). __________________ -= NBBCash - 30+ Sites To Promote - Up To 70% RevShare - 10% Webmster Referral =- Products:BurningTicket, Hot MILF Porn Site, JugTicket Tools: FHGs, Banners, Tubeclips, RSS, etc. contact: ICQ 551-331-470 or matthias[at]nbbcash.com

11-03-2009, 09:15 AM	#37
JayDeeZee Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,595	You have no control over the situation. Give up and have faith that karma will work it all out. How much sweeter will victory taste once you've gone from a complete failure to a success once again? __________________

11-03-2009, 09:37 AM	#40
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11-03-2009, 11:04 AM	#41
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11-03-2009, 08:36 PM	#49
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