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Ladyboy King · 03-28-2010, 07:46 AM

Because you are fucking lazy.

In the past 3 months, I have dealt with programmers, designers, 3rd party companies and a few guys who were paid to help. ALL ended up being slackers and either didn't finish the project, or couldn't or just went MIA.

Seriously, it is no wonder why all of you cry about being broke. If you want to know why you're life is a mess and you have no money, look in the mirror. It is because YOU SUCK.

People who succeed in life and their job, GET SHIT DONE. No excuses. They get it done. The rest of you suck and are wasting the oxygen for those of us who want to get shit done. Please get out of the way for those who want to own life. In fact, do the world a favor and end your own life, as it is clearly useless.

Please don't post your services here because you probably suck too. In fact, if you have to spam your work, you do suck. People who get shit done are busy and don't have to spam for jobs. A step further, people who get shit done DON'T have to beg for work, they have people working for them.

I've wasted enough time on you losers, I have to get back to getting shit done. Fuck off and die already, slackers.

SBJ · 03-28-2010, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Ladyboy King

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I've wasted enough time on you losers, I have to get back to getting shit done. Fuck off and die already, slackers.

tell us how you really feel!

Barefootsies · 03-28-2010, 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Ladyboy King

Because you are fucking lazy.

In the past 3 months, I have dealt with programmers, designers, 3rd party companies and a few guys who were paid to help. ALL ended up being slackers and either didn't finish the project, or couldn't or just went MIA.

Well said. True dat. Bravo fine sire..

Loch · 03-28-2010, 08:08 AM

LMAO, but so true

rob04 · 03-28-2010, 08:24 AM

lol that's awesome... and so true!

CamTraffic · 03-28-2010, 08:27 AM

Huh huh and stop wasting your precious time on the boards

Serge Litehead · 03-28-2010, 08:28 AM

amen to that

LiveDose · 03-28-2010, 08:34 AM

I'll finish reading the rest of your post later. Too long, have to grab a snack.

JP513 · 03-28-2010, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by LiveDose

I'll finish reading the rest of your post later. Too long, have to grab a snack.

nice one!

Toni · 03-28-2010, 09:40 AM

a lot of truth in your post, especially I wonder about a lot of companies and even processors who spend tons of cash on advertising but fail to deliver or even answer emails in a reasonable time....

Cyber Fucker · 03-28-2010, 09:52 AM

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CaptainWolfy · 03-28-2010, 10:03 AM

slackers from work buy your porn ...

Paul Markham · 03-28-2010, 10:07 AM

For many it's so true. I use to work one day a week or less and make money. Now have to work everyday and make sure I am looking after customers.

xNetworx · 03-28-2010, 10:43 AM

Kinda true. However, I know a lot of lazy people who made bank in this biz.

Ladyboy King · 03-28-2010, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by pimpporn

Kinda true. However, I know a lot of lazy people who made bank in this biz.

In the past, they may have been able to skate by. I also know some lucky sons a bitches who lucked into piles of money. These days, it's not gonna happen. It's fuck or walk in 2010.

xNetworx · 03-28-2010, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Ladyboy King

It's fuck or walk in 2010.

You sound desperate. Just sayin

fatfoo · 03-28-2010, 12:41 PM

Most of the time, work = money.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life · 03-28-2010, 12:45 PM

Sorry what's this thread about? I missed the point. Is it about "getting shit done"?

FrozenJag · 03-28-2010, 12:50 PM

haha definetly true and I agree with it all except for the ending your own life thing. A bit excessive IMO.

I also think that some responsibility comes back to the employer though. If you run a tight ship and screen your employees then you shouldnt have near the trouble you are having. First sign of bullshit then give a warning and 2nd sign let them go. Its just the way it is. We dont have time to be fucking around because trust me your competitors are busting ass and catching up or pulling ahead further.

hjnet · 03-28-2010, 12:56 PM

But But, I told you I couldn't finish the job cause I was in hospital, and then my grandmother died, and I had a car accident, and my house burnt down, and my Internet was cut off, and my grandmother died, and we had no electricity, and my grandmother died, and my dog farted, etc. etc.

Ladyboy King · 03-28-2010, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by pimpporn

You sound desperate. Just sayin

Yea, I'm desperate to work with processionals who GET SHIT DONE who are not scammin' felons, hacks, losers, wife beaters, drunks, druggies, and all the other shit types that find their way into this business. If you have a deadline, meet it or off yourself. If you say you will do something, do it or jump off a bridge. You're wasting the air and in my way. Most are in adult because you fail at EVERYTHING you do, and they bottom out here. The ones who have a brain and a drive, make money. Unless of course, you're just one of those dumb fucks who get lucky, but those people will end up broke anyway. They always do.

The best people I've known, made their money in adult and moved on. Now, it's all fucking shit stains and dribble. You all know what I'm talking about. Each of you have had to deal with these fuck nuts at one time or another. Even the good ones end up being flakes.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life · 03-28-2010, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Ladyboy King

Yea, I'm desperate to work with processionals who are not scammin' felons, hacks, losers, wife beaters, drunks, druggies, and all the other shit types.

Boy did you get into the wrong business...

Ladyboy King · 03-28-2010, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

Boy did you get into the wrong business...

I had a great group of people I worked with before. Solid guys. They have all moved to mainstream and no longer want anything to do with adult. So... I'm looking for new blood now, which has brought me back to do most of it myself because all of them have flaked.

SJCollegeboy · 03-28-2010, 01:42 PM

Well said, unfortunately.

Robbie · 03-28-2010, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Ladyboy King

The best people I've known, made their money in adult and moved on.

Just out of curiosity...who?
I've made pretty good money in adult over the years, but I've never found anything that could remotely come close to making the kind of money I do in adult. Who were the big players that move on to make even more money in another field? I'm just curious as to who and what the circumstances were for further inspiration.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life · 03-28-2010, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Ladyboy King

Solid guys. They have all moved to mainstream and no longer want anything to do with adult.

Well I guess that could be a dilemma.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life · 03-28-2010, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Robbie

Just out of curiosity...who?
I've made pretty good money in adult over the years, but I've never found anything that could remotely come close to making the kind of money I do in adult.

I think he's talking more along the lines of designers, and coders and whatnot. Mainstream marketers fork over way better money for design/code than your average pissbroke adult webmaster. So I can't say I'm all that surprised if they were good and ran off elsewhere...

Agent 488 · 03-28-2010, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

Well I guess that could be a dilemma.

all the lazy and stupid have dropped out in the last year. you can't be a baller with a geocities looking 6 gallery tgp anymore. sales are actually picking up this year.

Robbie · 03-28-2010, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

I think he's talking more along the lines of designers, and coders and whatnot. Mainstream marketers fork over way better money for design/code than your average pissbroke adult webmaster. So I can't say I'm all that surprised if they were good and ran off elsewhere...

That makes sense.

mikke · 03-28-2010, 02:10 PM

sick of programmers? gfy! ...

for good services you need pay good money.. not like $9.95 for yt clone, with tons of bugs, and after few days script stopped working!!

chupachups · 03-28-2010, 02:21 PM

you are 100% correct

Ladyboy King · 03-29-2010, 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbie

Just out of curiosity...who?
I've made pretty good money in adult over the years, but I've never found anything that could remotely come close to making the kind of money I do in adult. Who were the big players that move on to make even more money in another field? I'm just curious as to who and what the circumstances were for further inspiration.

I was just about to reply, then Angry Cat Jew beat me to it.

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Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat

I think he's talking more along the lines of designers, and coders and whatnot. Mainstream marketers fork over way better money for design/code than your average pissbroke adult webmaster. So I can't say I'm all that surprised if they were good and ran off elsewhere...

I've known some great programmers over the years, now all out of adult. A few kick ass designers too. All gone mainstream. Seems all the best guys now have full time gigs elsewhere (in or out of adult) or are trash. Not a lot left in the middle.

Brujah · 03-29-2010, 02:43 PM

So ... Work Harder, not Smarter?

CybermedAndy · 03-29-2010, 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ladyboy King

Because you are fucking lazy.

In the past 3 months, I have dealt with programmers, designers, 3rd party companies and a few guys who were paid to help. ALL ended up being slackers and either didn't finish the project, or couldn't or just went MIA.

Seriously, it is no wonder why all of you cry about being broke. If you want to know why you're life is a mess and you have no money, look in the mirror. It is because YOU SUCK.

People who succeed in life and their job, GET SHIT DONE. No excuses. They get it done. The rest of you suck and are wasting the oxygen for those of us who want to get shit done. Please get out of the way for those who want to own life. In fact, do the world a favor and end your own life, as it is clearly useless.

Please don't post your services here because you probably suck too. In fact, if you have to spam your work, you do suck. People who get shit done are busy and don't have to spam for jobs. A step further, people who get shit done DON'T have to beg for work, they have people working for them.

I've wasted enough time on you losers, I have to get back to getting shit done. Fuck off and die already, slackers.

Well said. And I feel your pain, 100%.

ArsewithClass · 03-29-2010, 03:12 PM

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$5 submissions · 03-29-2010, 03:23 PM

Maybe the WRONG kind of laziness. I know very lazy people that are very successful. They are lazy in the RIGHT WAY. Example: you don't want to fuck with manually finding sites to hit for backlinks. You hire a coder to do a link scraper. You are too unmotivated to go through scraped links to look for patterns. You break up the process into 3 parts and hire outsourced staff. So on and so on.

It's not laziness per se, its having a PLAN that makes all the difference in the world. Also, being lazy the right way often involves being lazy paying too much money so you're forced to be creative and clever. Laziness plus imagination plus focus (despite little motivation or energy) can mean success.

Conversely, there's many people that work hard (mentally and/or physically) and they are less successful.

Bman · 03-29-2010, 03:25 PM

Designers and programmers were probably sick and tired of getting nickeled and dimed and unrealistic expectations for what they were putting out. Its like every time I hear somebody say "yeah I hired an Indian programmer" i wait 12 months and always ask how did it work out for you?

Argos88 · 03-29-2010, 08:47 PM

Interesting.

BIGTYMER · 03-29-2010, 08:53 PM

Posted in honor of BF.

Nicky · 03-29-2010, 09:08 PM

I was gonna reply with insight but I'm just too god damn lazy. After this past weekend I actually start to think I might be a drunk too. Good thing I can always off my self if shit hit's the fan.

Argos88 · 03-30-2010, 02:16 PM

It's funny to see that some guys answering to this thread say "i totally agree", "well said" or something like that, BUT they claimed to work AT MOST 3-4 hours per day in other threads...

very funny.

Barefootsies · 03-30-2010, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Argos88

It's funny to see that some guys answering to this thread say "i totally agree", "well said" or something like that, BUT they claimed to work AT MOST 3-4 hours per day in other threads...

very funny.

It's a good thing we have you here on GFY to keep track of everyone's work schedules. As 'work' is subjective to whatever they do. For example, a content shoot is a few hours of work. The rest of the time taken up by a machine. Which includes software doing encoding, compression, uploading. That is one of endless examples.

Nothing shows 'success' like someone with the free time to worry about, much less keep track of, others on message boards.

We're in good hands.

No offense.

BradM · 03-30-2010, 02:37 PM

All true.

03-28-2010, 07:46 AM	#1
Ladyboy King Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Ladyboy Land Posts: 215	Why most of you don't make money. The hard truth. Because you are fucking lazy. In the past 3 months, I have dealt with programmers, designers, 3rd party companies and a few guys who were paid to help. ALL ended up being slackers and either didn't finish the project, or couldn't or just went MIA. Seriously, it is no wonder why all of you cry about being broke. If you want to know why you're life is a mess and you have no money, look in the mirror. It is because YOU SUCK. People who succeed in life and their job, GET SHIT DONE. No excuses. They get it done. The rest of you suck and are wasting the oxygen for those of us who want to get shit done. Please get out of the way for those who want to own life. In fact, do the world a favor and end your own life, as it is clearly useless. Please don't post your services here because you probably suck too. In fact, if you have to spam your work, you do suck. People who get shit done are busy and don't have to spam for jobs. A step further, people who get shit done DON'T have to beg for work, they have people working for them. I've wasted enough time on you losers, I have to get back to getting shit done. Fuck off and die already, slackers. __________________ I'll make you feel dirty and 13.7% gay. XXX - All your ladyboys are belong to me!

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03-28-2010, 10:43 AM	#14
xNetworx So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Whore Island Posts: 14,445	Kinda true. However, I know a lot of lazy people who made bank in this biz.

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Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life (felis madjewicus) Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In Mom & Dad's Basement Posts: 20,368	Sorry what's this thread about? I missed the point. Is it about "getting shit done"?

03-28-2010, 12:50 PM	#19
FrozenJag Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,763	haha definetly true and I agree with it all except for the ending your own life thing. A bit excessive IMO. I also think that some responsibility comes back to the employer though. If you run a tight ship and screen your employees then you shouldnt have near the trouble you are having. First sign of bullshit then give a warning and 2nd sign let them go. Its just the way it is. We dont have time to be fucking around because trust me your competitors are busting ass and catching up or pulling ahead further.

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Argos88 So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,732	Interesting.

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Nicky Judge Jury and Executioner Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sweden Posts: 30,069	I was gonna reply with insight but I'm just too god damn lazy. After this past weekend I actually start to think I might be a drunk too. Good thing I can always off my self if shit hit's the fan. __________________ gfynicky @ gmail.com

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Argos88 So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,732	It's funny to see that some guys answering to this thread say "i totally agree", "well said" or something like that, BUT they claimed to work AT MOST 3-4 hours per day in other threads... very funny.

03-30-2010, 02:37 PM	#43
BradM Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: 1123,6536,5231 Posts: 3,397	All true.