What makes a girl hit on a guy?
 

To me this is a curious question...

Is it all looks, attitude, mojo...????

Some guys DEFINITELY get hit on and they don't even have to try --

leave out the phermone jokes -- this is a serious inquiry...

I got hit on today (she was really obvious) --

I'm just wondering what you all think is the determining factor that makes girls hit on guys...

the Bulge

Charm, looks and ... booze.

Money

hehe, how could I forget that one. The #1 reason by far.

About the same reasons you hit on girls; attraction.

Which is a distant 2nd to money :winkwink:

It is like a four way balancing act between your charm, looks and money and her desperation. If you are deficient in one or more of those, you have to make it up in the others. If you are like me you pretty much just hunt for the desperate ones...

Looks are important very important when your under 25 but it's really all about attitude

You see, All women have ESP

They can sense if your getting laid, happy and making money.
If they sense that, they will hit on you, because it is their motivational imperative to use their female power to disrupt that situation. It will not matter what you look like. As long as you have the first three.

If they sense you are a loser, they will avoid you. Even if you are handsome.

if you don't show interest, they'll hit on you. typical reverse psychology shit.

NOTHING. I NEVER bother to give guys ANY attention.... I don't give a damn how much bling bling they got,
it doesn't impress me.

If they want to get to know me, they better talk to ME first.
:2 cents:

BUT YOU CAN'T JUST SAY "MONEY" -- you have to be more explicit -- how does she KNOW that you have money??? Please describe how SHE KNOWs you have money... these are the kind of details that I think we should investigate...

He's got to have a cute butt, good looks and great sense of humor. Money is not important...cause it's love that makes the world go round :thumbsup

40,000+ expired names daily plus a TON more.

get Lambo, believe me she'll notice it

Pete, were you alone or did you have another girl on your side ?

Yeah I think a lot of girls are like that -- until now maybe 95% of the "dates" that I've had -- it's always me to make the first move...

BUT A LOT OF GIRLS *will* gravitate to certain guys -- these guys never need to make the approach -- and girls know this... I've heard it! They say, "That's the kind of guy that gets hit on so often he never needs to even hit on a girl like me..." -- so she makes the decision that she is "good enough" -- and that needs to make the first move...

Here is what I think:

1. Must be good looking. It helps if you look like Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise or Josh Hartnett.

2. Must have confidence. Girls love confident guys. If they see you standing in the corner like a frightened little bunny, you aint gonna get any pussy.

3. Must be fun to be around. Tell jokes. Lead the conversation. Have some charm (helps if you're Irish).

I thought it was the other way around :)

MAN I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT! There are other powers at work -- and 90% of it is not conscious... I would give some examples but nobody would believe me...

There are so many vague signals that we aren't even aware of... Just think of how you feel after a really good fuck -- you're walking down the street like a totally different person... Can anyone tell that I just had the best fuck of my life? Sure they can!

BTW Sinnister -- no I was totally alone. And I figured maybe she was trying to make more sales but after I had already paid is when she really started talking away -- I hardly had to say anything and I'm getting her life story... Even wierder is I tell her I'm going to a wedding and she says she wants to plan her wedding -- so is she engaged or what the fuck? I didn't ask because I don't give a shit! Haha.

Mystery..Get's them all the time.. And you gotta smell good..Eye contact.

Ok, fine then. "Those type of guys that I would gravitate towards" have to be :

1.) Good looking. This is common sense. Most people will agree that "good looking" equals, tall, dark, sharp symmetrical features, clear skin, and good body with muscle tone. These are the basics of what a decent looking guy is all about. Well, that's my definition of good looking anyways.

You can't just be "average" either, but there has to be something really "outstanding" or "catching" about you. You either have it or you don't. If you are ugly guy....well... no amount of money is gonna make you good looking, so it doesn't matter how much bling bling you have, You'll just be an ugly dude with a lot of bling bling. Tough luck. Personally, I will totally ignore an ugly dude talking to me, let alone initiate some conversation with one!!!

2.) You have to have charisma and be confident. Know the right things to say at the right time.

3.)A good sense of humour is also important. I love guys who are funny sarcastic smart asses and can make me laugh. If you can make me laugh, you are probably already halfway there.

4.)Be well groomed and dressed. There's nothing worse with a guy that wears pants that are loose fitting at the top but the pant legs go IN at the bottom! Or guys that wear pointy shoes!!
Or guys with dirty fingernails!! You think I am going to let a guy with dirty hands come near me?

5.)I personally gravitate towards more intelligent guys, I HATE guys who are uneducated, have bad grammar, don't know how to add 2+2, etc...
I just want to smack them in the face :winkwink:

6.) A lot of girls (not me though) will like a guy more if he makes $$$ It's easy to spot if a guy makes loot by the brand names of his clothes, his car etc...

when she see's you driving your F50, she'll know...

Its in his shoes. If they are stylish then you know he's a keeper. For me I'm usually drawn to the tallest and best looking men.

ACTUALLY - its all about P & A baby... :winkwink:

just be yourself for christ sakes, if they dont like you for you than fuck em

exactly :)

Ruffies :Graucho

All women are chimps........

They like bananas?

Dunno about the rest of you ladies....but my mind is my most erogenous zone!

If a guy cant carry on an intelligent conversations with me, for more than a few minutes, then there's absolutely no point in even persuing it any farther...

its all in the pheremones

All men are DOGS.
Never trust a man.

"nuff said.

u can trust me, i'm an iguana :thumbsup

And above all...learn how to fix your own damned car...cuz ya will wait forever for a man to do it, then ya gotta do it yourself anyhow, cuz they probably screwed it up! :1orglaugh

EVERYONE LOVES TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES.... get a girl to start talking about herself and make sure of the eye contact. keep her talking and she will love you for it. soon she will get more comfortable and if you are lucky she will hit on you, or at least give you a chance maybe.

getting someone to talk about themselves is the key and remember their name. this can be used in everyday life and it works great. i have done it many times. people will see me again and i say hi "Blah" and they cannot remember my name and now they feel like maybe they should have paid more attention to me since i went all that way just to remember an easy name.

So true, so true. I almost died when I had to install my car battery myself. Turns out I put it in backwards :( The only things guys are good for are; fixing cars, opening doors, opening jars, lifting heavy things. O'h yea, and free food! :thumbsup

People, you are trying to answer the oldest question of all. If there was a real answer, than we'll all be getting some.

The mind of a woman is beyond our understanding. No two woman are alike, so just be yourself, and if that doesn't work.... than GO FUCK YOURSELF.

:winkwink:

I just fell over laughing. :1orglaugh

Duh.... Tell her your a KINGS fan and maybe she'll feel sorry for you. And if that dont work, just go to COWTOWN yourself... .all the chicks there are fat, ugly and easy to hook!!!! :thumbsup

So damm true man Cheers..

It all comes down to natural selection money, power, strength, attitude, looks, whatever they need to fill their void, so it varies for every person