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C H R I S 07-16-2008 01:52 PM

Is Helmy right??? Did I slam XBIZ - you be the judge???
 
So Helmy took this post that I was slamming them, I wsas actually being a little silly - but I had no malintentions. If the general consensus is that I was slamming I will personally apologize to Mr Helmy......

So here is the post I made that got Helmy all miffed.....

Was I "slamming Xbiz" you be the judge.....

Quote:
Originally Posted by NetBilling
Free admission to all attendees? That would be awesome.

Thats a good one.......

Who would be silly enough to do that?????



Originally Posted by AVNChris
And all joking aside Mitch - there are several good reasons too charge for badges:

1. Qualification - If you pay for something you are invested. Unqualified offers and attendees attract high number but low quality.

2. Quality - We really dont want to be talking to Real Estate and Yahoos who are not in the industry. Charging for a badge cuts those asshats out.

3.Quantity - Even with the charge, we get the largest number of attendees of any industry show. Sponsors have time and again invested in our events because of that.

4. Event Quality - With the news that you will be hearing in the next few days you just may change your tune..... maybe

I love you man....
Mitch

tony286 07-16-2008 01:55 PM

from someone who doesnt go to either xbiz or avn shows. Based on those words it doesnt seem like it to me. The only show I have been to was webmaster access in atl and it was a great show and it was free.

DarkJedi 07-16-2008 01:57 PM

Sig spot secured.

MetaMan 07-16-2008 01:57 PM

lol what kind of man needs the advice from others to let him know if his statements are ok or not? that is how bitches operate, not real men. :2 cents:

C H R I S 07-16-2008 01:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetaMan (Post 14467694)
lol what kind of man needs the advice from others to let him know if his statements are ok or not? that is how bitches operate, not real men. :2 cents:


No advice needed - I am being accused of something that is false in my opinion. Helmy is making a huge deal out of this.

Don Pueblo 07-16-2008 02:00 PM

the insinuation is there that someone was silly enough to give away free badges. to me it makes you look like you think you're better than other people and that other people don't know what they're doing.

MetaMan 07-16-2008 02:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AVNChris (Post 14467704)
No advice needed - I am being accused of something that is false in my opinion. Helmy is making a huge deal out of this.

"If the general consensus is that I was slamming I will personally apologize to Mr Helmy"

this is how bitches act, i am man enough to know when i am right or wrong,

what the "general consesus" is what bitches do because they have no idea when they are right or wrong and by somehow someone else agreeing with them it makes them more right.

jact 07-16-2008 02:08 PM

Chris, I love ya, but I took it as an attack on Xbiz.

chri$tian 07-16-2008 02:08 PM

From that post i don't see anything wrong, but you guys both represent competing companies and I'm sure there is gonna be some words said (Xbiz is wrong, no avn is wrong... it's gonna happen... Your both great guys, and I have know Chris for many years, he is not the shit talking type (joking around and grabbing your balls type, yes)

I like the fact that your both doing thing a bit differently... keeps it fresh

commonsense 07-16-2008 02:10 PM

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Chauncy 07-16-2008 02:11 PM

well even if it was not your intention I can see how it could be taken as bit of a shot at XBIZ.

baddog 07-16-2008 02:12 PM

I would rather see a link to the thread. Need to see the entire conversation.

BradM 07-16-2008 02:15 PM

Alec is known for overreacting, and taking things completely out of context.

Everyone in this business is an overtouchy faggot, so I vote that you are both wrong, just because I can.

mikesouth 07-16-2008 02:18 PM

helmy is thin skinned and whiney

tell him to suck it up.

he and I had a screaming match on the phone once over .xxx

as it turned out I was right and he didnt apologize to me...not that I care.

yer comments are fine

~zombiegirl~ 07-16-2008 02:22 PM

I'm actually surprised that this stuff doesn't happen more often. & it's going to happen again in the future....

Yes, in your post it basically says you think Helmy is silly. Now how he takes it and how he decides to react is is own freedom. But you did write those words possibly wanting to tick someone off? Either way, this whole thing is just silly :P

Fetish Videos 07-16-2008 02:22 PM

It's a tiny slam, c'mon..you know you were comparing the two different shows..what's stupid is even caring about it because you're allowed to compare the two shows..

hypedough 07-16-2008 02:24 PM

Cross-drama thus cross-promotion?

Dollarmansteve 07-16-2008 02:26 PM

meh, who cares either way. You are competitors, this isn't a hug-fest, it's business. No one should ever be hung-out to dry for having an opinion.

Lots of people make objective business decisions based of facts and rationale not on personally biased emotions.. but some people are different, to each their own.

C H R I S 07-16-2008 02:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dollarmansteve (Post 14467835)
meh, who cares either way. You are competitors, this isn't a hug-fest, it's business. No one should ever be hung-out to dry for having an opinion.

Lots of people make objective business decisions based of facts and rationale not on personally biased emotions.. but some people are different, to each their own.

good points steve

MichaelP 07-16-2008 02:30 PM

Chris, you know I love you both guys, but yeah especially right in the week after Xbiz's, that was kinda... silly to say :winkwink: ...

If you'd have been working for any other company not competing with Xbiz whatsoever, that would go thru with prolly no mentions. I'm in the same boat as you two at a smaller level of course. Since I run a show myself, I have the right to think what I want, but sometimes I need to keep my thoughts for myself regarding my "competition".


...

Now I think you guys can shake hands and have a drink in Florida.... See you there both :)

BradM 07-16-2008 02:31 PM

If Coke said that Pepsi shouldn't market to teenagers, would Pepsi flip out and act like a 24 year old pissed off girl in response and get Tab and Jones soda involved in an all out PR flipoutfest?

So why does Alec act like this to a competitor... wait I just answered my own question n/m.

amacontent 07-16-2008 02:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Don Pueblo (Post 14467710)
the insinuation is there that someone was silly enough to give away free badges. to me it makes you look like you think you're better than other people and that other people don't know what they're doing.


Thats what I say. Why didnt you just talk to someone from XBIZ off the boards , considering internext on Vegas has become a ghosttown, id think maybe you can take some advise on show improvemnt. Ive lost a fortune at internext shows due to poor show management hence why i dont do them anymore. Its all about the dollar but its REALLY all about the dollar with AVN lately.

XPays 07-16-2008 02:36 PM

where is the poll?

XPays 07-16-2008 02:38 PM

BTW Everyone License The Paris Hilton Sex Video for your site now- see sig-

O MARINA 07-16-2008 02:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dollarmansteve (Post 14467835)
You are competitors, this isn't a hug-fest, it's business. No one should ever be hung-out to dry for having an opinion.





quoted for truth

AlienQ - BANNED FOR LIFE 07-16-2008 02:39 PM

I think AVN forget's that XBIZ is competition and any thing to Sand bag another by either side is held as an opportunity. One will always be at the other's throat under any attempt to be civil or "Brothers in arms". Bottom line you two compete with another.

Being pretentious, being underhanded, being spiteful is on all levels between these two organizations dispite the effort to appear as comrad's on the public view.

Was Helmy being pretious? Hells fucking yeah he was. You can bet any kind of insinuation would get a cry baby face out of him. So he got what he wanted and you guys played into it.

Helmy will never apologise, never indicate that he is wrong, neither would top heads at AVN.

I say draw teh fucking line in the sand, and openly attack each other, it's competition and thats just the way it is. Both organizations compete for the same sponsorships and ad's within the publications, both organizations know for a fact that many advertiser's have to make a choice to promote in print. So it's all about who looks better, throws a better show, has better attendence and so forth.

So stop being pussy's and just accept that neither organization will ever get along.

C H R I S 07-16-2008 02:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by XPays (Post 14467917)
BTW Everyone License The Paris Hilton Sex Video for your site now- see sig-

Evan is loving the drama fest.... how you been - coffee working for you?

Don Pueblo 07-16-2008 02:41 PM

Anyone have any numbers for fat woman brothels in Florida?

baddog 07-16-2008 02:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlienQ (Post 14467924)
I think AVN forget's that XBIZ is competition . . .

Really??

Anthony 07-16-2008 02:44 PM

Chris,

I can understand why Helmy's shackles got raised on this. If I were in his shoes, I would take it as such. A slam though, no? Maybe a snide comment at my exspense.

However with as much as been said about this whole misunderstanding, on both sides, it should really just go the way of the dodo.

Have to admit, some good business posting on multiple threads due to this one "silly" comment :)

Dollarmansteve 07-16-2008 02:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by O MARINA (Post 14467922)
quoted for truth

You're basement styles are weak, our 2nd floor skills make you inferior.

XPays 07-16-2008 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AVNChris (Post 14467929)
Evan is loving the drama fest.... how you been - coffee working for you?

good bro-

we are getting some lifers on board for the http://nonadult.com :)

also the HotelHeiress® Feeds are being adopted by some great programs, which is nice!

mikesouth 07-16-2008 02:45 PM

hey helmy you gonna have yer boys send chris pics of themselves with guns and text that say they bust heads for fun.....Oh wait that kinda backfired last time huh?

mikesouth 07-16-2008 02:48 PM

OOOH I know kick chris off of XFANS LOL there ya go that'll teach him

DWB 07-16-2008 02:52 PM

His comeback should have been: "At least we don't charge people to have garbage cans in their booth, and then charge a daily emptying fee."

;-)

Maybe they do, but it would have made me laugh.


Nothing wrong with what you said.

DWB 07-16-2008 02:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mikesouth (Post 14467954)
hey helmy you gonna have yer boys send chris pics of themselves with guns and text that say they bust heads for fun.....Oh wait that kinda backfired last time huh?

He really do that before? :1orglaugh

C H R I S 07-16-2008 02:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by XPays (Post 14467952)
good bro-

we are getting some lifers on board for the http://nonadult.com :)

also the HotelHeiress® Feeds are being adopted by some great programs, which is nice!

Sweet I gots to get me some of that coffee.....

Site looks great - long time no see - you coming to Miami this year?

mikesouth 07-16-2008 03:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DirtyWhiteBoy (Post 14467990)
He really do that before? :1orglaugh

I dunno if he was behind it but yes his boys did it to me and I posted the pics and threats on my site and they went nuts...Helmy didn't do the honorable thng and call me and say hey sorry this got way outta hand I took care of it.

Matter of fact he never said anything so by his silence It seems to me he approved.

Turned out not to be such a good PR move though.

sandman! 07-16-2008 03:00 PM

he is being a bitch for complaining about the comment and your being a bitch asking people that they think about it.

:pimp

Sebastian Sands 07-16-2008 03:16 PM

if you said it then yeah it's uncool and bad timing for sure. You kind of said that the people who attended are of low quality, however you want the exact same people to come to your show for a "crazy" fee. So I have to say I would have taken it as an insult not only to me but to everyone attending too.

Then again this is text, and text and tone are 2 different things.


MikeSouth, no offense man, but you only show up when there is drama and often times you act like a little kid whose icecream just fell of the cone. All that talk that you have been in the business for a million years and that you know it all. It's always a fun read to see you get all heated up over bullshit..

Sebastian


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