Date or Marry a girl with KIDS?
 

Would you Marry a girl with Kids?

Personally I would never.

Yes I might, but being careful as where I live at least if you live together long enough and get separated you pay the child support... Yes even though they're not your kids.

Depends. I also had a kid. So we got married. After twenty two years.

I've had a few friends get divorced and the horror I witnessed them endure there's no way in hell I would ever put myself in situation. Both of these guys had 6 figure incomes and both ended up back living with their parents because they couldn't afford their exwife's mortgage payment, alimony, child support etc.

My sister just got divorced after 10 years of marriage. The poor son of a bitch has to pay her this ridiculous alimony payment till he retires (in 9 years) and then she gets 30% of his pension...FOR LIFE! And he has to cover her heath insurance... FOR LIFE!!


Check your local alimony laws before you jump into anything.

Even though my step dad basically raised me thus taking a woman with a kid, I don't think I could do it. It's hard enough to love your own kids sometimes let alone someone elses. Besides that, her having a kid is basically irrefutable proof that someone was cumming in the pussy you're eating, and i'd always have that on the back of my mind.

My divorce lawyer was expensive, but she was worth every penny. A good lawyer will cost you way less than half your shit and alimony and child support. A really good lawyer gets you custody of the kid, no alimony, and a judgement against the ex for the legal fees they brought as well :)

Of course, being a decent human being and an outstanding father plays a lot into that. The courts aren't going to reward a piece of shit person, even with a good attorney.

Actually, if you know how to represent yourself a lawyer is an unnecessary expense. And courts have to follow the law, no matter if someone is a dick or not.

As if you have any control on who you fall in love with. LOL

Living with someone saves the hassle of divorce.

i would not. if i take care of a kid it would be my own.

it's like when playing a game, loading up someone else's save and continuing it.

hookups with gals w/ kids is a whole different story though

accommodating birds

A Girl with Kids? Why would you even marry a Girl to begin with.

There's zero benefit for a Man to get married.
Females will ruin your life eventually. Stay single and happy.

never. not even if it is the last woman in the world.

Yep, if there is one right factor, it can override 10 other negative factors.

Is everyone tired of these overmedicated, ridiculous posts yet? Guy bumped his head in a motorcycle accident 15 years ago and it gets worse constantly.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh Keep dreaming Paul2

Most of you guys are older than brown coal.
Where should the virgins, without children come from, at your age?

ex Lesbian ? :1orglaugh

LOLZ :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

18 year old girl ? :1orglaugh

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Time to eat ass then? :)

Or, what comes out of ass?

You know, just so as you are one more step further removed...

I married one with a kid. And she married me with three of my own.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Yeah, this is true for small claims court or other petty shit. Otherwise pretty terrible advice.

Depends. I think it's quite different if you a young healthy man with no kids or if you are older and maybe have your own kids already.

Shhh, don't interrupt nappy time.

I have a step daughter. It is what it is. I treat her like my own, I get along with her dad. Me and him actually kinda "co-parent" her. We make sure we're on the same page with everything so it's the same rules and regulations regardless who's house she's in.

As an alpha, I don't have the typical worries.

so you only date virgins? how horrible for you...

first thing that came to mind when i read this thread title...

Although the marriage laws in the US are ridiculous and I can almost understand the hesitation there.

:1orglaugh

An Alpha doesn't raise other Lions cubs. He eats them.

You're just a Beta provider.

To understand his perspective, you have to look at it from the standpoint of someone who has limited assets. In Civil Court, such a person is judgment proof.

married a woman with 2 kids. They are my kids now.

I represented myself in my last divorce, I speak from experience

Marriage is a scam, (but without it, porn sales would suck) don't do it!

The woman I dated before I met my wife had a nine year old daughter. I love kids and I sort of enjoyed being a "dad". When we broke up it was really hard because I felt like I lost two people. Years later she hit me up on FB and thanked me for being a part of her life. It was kind of neat.

No, I would never get involved with someone who had kids. I would never do that again.

It's still pretty terrible advice. I have a friend who "represented himself" but it was all extremely amicable anyways so no reason to spend money on an attorney for either party. That's usually not the case; especially if there are considerable assets involved.

If you truly understand English you should not ignore "if you know how to represent yourself."

2 homes
2 kids
1 car
1 truck
2 Harleys

I got everything but the car (Dodge Caravan), and got 50/50 custody of my kids with no alimony. I did have to give her 20% of my pension. Nothing amicable; it took a couple years to finish.

If you understand anecdotes you'd know why nobody should give a fuck about yours. It is known that representing yourself in court is a bad fucking idea. Many judges don't like it in the first place, you definitely don't know as much as you think as shown in your decade + of GFY history and it's a stupid gamble to take. This is extra special true in a damn divorce court. :1orglaugh

I don't identify with lions bro.

In civilized human society, if you chose to be in a person's life then the kids are part of the package.

Only a real alpha man (the human kind) can fulfill those duties.

When the kid is at my house I provide for her as my own. When she's at her dad's he does his thing.

You'd probably get small dick syndrome around a man who's slayed your wife in the past. That's not a thought for an alpha.

I also bring a kid to the table and the wife does her step mom thing as well.

There's no petty fuckshit. I deal with alphas. It's an alphaganza.