why do woman want to be "Choked" during sex?
 

ive been with several woman who wanted to be choked while im drilling them with my obnoxiously large penis...kind of scares me as i dont want to strangle them:Oh crap

is it like a lack of oxygen high thing? or a control thing? what gives?:helpme

maybe it's an obnoxious dick thing????

Do not try to understand. Just do it.

yeah just fuck them :)

It's not just women, although men have a tendency to accidentally suffocate themselves doing it. David Carradine for instance.

Even the nicest girls like a little choke action. You have to do it with just the right amount of angst, so your mileage may vary depending on the girl. Just never go overboard with it, even if she asks for it.

It's the women your fucking praying for death - "just get it over with already, this is boring..."

Bullshit the Thai hookers killed Carradine

Its really hot when the person doing it knows what they're doing. LOL! My ex gf did it to me out of nowhere and I was scared at first, but it's HOT when you trust the other person :)

there are some stories that you will have better orgasms with less air...
it's a turn on for some people, but on other hand, some people take this to seriously...

Molested.

Thread closed.

Anything to distract from the way you smell.

it's the same as the ones that want to be hit and tied up.....

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I don't think all girls really like it but some definitely do.

Hmmm, i'll try it tonight and post the results tomorrow...

deep down they know they deserve it.

part of regular bdsm/bondage sex/play...

It reminds them of when they used to have sex with their dad.

Does she call you daddy?

Hide anything sharp before you dare to go to sleep :tongue:

I remember the first girl who asked me to choke her. It freaked me out so much I couldn't keep a hard-on. When I wouldn't choke her, she tried to choke herself. It was freaky, and I'm still not comfortable with it.

Works both ways and pretty hot when you're with someone in the know

Just don't leave any bruises.

its a preface for the "crippler crossface" ...

if that were true then that would mean everyone over 350 lbs are having much better and enjoyable sex than the rest of us...

I personally like to go for the D'arce Choke when I am in the mount.

not sure id be down with some chick choking me...what do you mean "in the know" lol ?

because it makes your orgasms SUPER AWESOME

there may be some truth to that.
outside the industry i have never encountered this request.
in the industry, many girls are saying they like this.

Sounds like she's fucked in the head! :1orglaugh

It seems to ME that alot of women who like anal also want to get choked...a little bit.These are usually the chicks who want you to bite them too.

How exactly do you get the D'arce choke from mount? Or rather do you mean you like to setup the D'arce from mount. Because you ain't getting the choke while mounted.

You know it turned you on.

Oh fuck that was funny!

Sounds like they got some daddy issues!

In my experience at least 1/3 of all porn chicks like to be choked and/or slapped, spanked, have their hair pulled and be talked to dirty and degraded rough sex style. Most of them don't even realize why they like it, but it goes hand in hand with slutty behavior. Dr. Drew Pinksy has talked about the deep seated reasons behind it a few times on Loveline and tv appearances and I believe his reasoning is correct.

Adult females (especially white girls) that suffer molestation or sexual abuse as children often become ironically compelled to re-enact a version of that abuse as adults in a "safe" way with boyfriends or porn sex partners where they are in control to gain mastery over those feelings of terror they experienced as youths. The human brain inexplicably becomes compelled to re-enact those bad experiences and eroticise them as part of sex play and that's why so many (not all) porn girls who had those traumatic experiences- which is a majority of them- are often into rough sex and those activities. Same goes for civilian girls too, they obviously don't all become porn stars.

After being in the biz for almost twenty years I've gotten to a point where I can talk to a new young porn girl that comes for a casting and within ten minutes figure out if she is into rough sex without even specifically asking her, and even to be able to use that knowledge as an almost guaranteed device to get into her pants if I was so inclined.

It makes them feel appreciated

never met a female like that.

there was one girl i shot, not the typical porn valley girl. she came from out of town, possible florida but not the porn part of florida. she was like a modelmayhem type girl, had done some bondage stuff etc but no hardcore. not tatoos, good looking body, sweet face.
turns out she was really into the rough stuff, wanting to be held down, slapped on the face, choked etc... really interesting girl, almost like she was seeking to be in porn for these reasons...
btw, she is coming out again this month sometime, cute little redhead.

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civilian girls ..now thats a fucking keeper:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

civiliangirls . com anyone :thumbsup

Never heard that one before, lol? As a twenty year veteran pornographer you're either a porn star/nude model/stripper/whore or a "civilian" girl if none of the above, he he.

I don't think they want to be suffocated. They want to feel hands around their neck without too much squeezing.

My girl loves being roughed up, choked... which is great cause it's pretty often I have the urge to fuckin' choke her.