My Cousin Killed Himself Last Night
 

Oh well. I was never close to the guy, and I don't really feel any loss at his passing. I never knew him. That might be a heartless statement, but its the truth. I haven't talked to the dude in about 40 years, but his Mother is my Aunt - and I love her to death.

Here's the guilt trip portion of this program: I set up a website so he could rant and rave about his personal problems, and I posted the url here. At his request. Initially, I thought he wanted an audience for his lunacy. I was wrong, he wanted an audience to witness his death.

Conveniently enough, some asshole from GFY facillitated his suicide. I post a link to my cousin's ramblings and, a few hours later - I find my databases have been deleted, my emails for that site no longer work, and my cousin is getting harrassed by the Toronto Sun and Fox Fucking News! WTF?

Meanwhile, I'm spending an entire day bitching to AmeriNoc because my sites have been hacked (actually, four sites were wiped out. I guess whatever asshole got access to that first site found out that I had other sites sharing a single database, and just wiped them out of the kindness of his heart...) Good job! Nice distraction.

At the time, I did not know that my cousin went and fucking killed himself. I was just wondering why I'm not getting any hits to my sponsors. I'm sad and pathetic. I did not realize that posting a url on GFY would not only cost me a few sites - it would cost my unstable cousin his life. Thanks for fucking with him!

I quit. I got a phone call from my aunt around eleven o'clock tonight. Her son killed himself, and it is now my fault. His death is my burden because I humoured a lunatic and set up a forum so he could rant and rave.

I am so completely snapping right now. The hatred I feel cannot be expressed in words.

Ban me and give me a time out before I do - or say - something really fucking stupid. I just hope that the useless fuck who managed to hack my cousin's site is really fucking happy. Mission accomplished.

Seriously, call a mod and give me a time out for a few weeks. If not, things are going to go downhill real fast. This'll be strike two. I'd like to get bounced before I get strikes three, four and five. I am fucking lived.

Thank you. I have a funeral to attend
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sorry to hear. but what? some gfy troll did what?

Is this about AmeriNoc security? What makes you think your hosting with them was compromised?

blame the dude that killed himself for killing himself

Sorry to hear it garce, but it is not your fault.

My condolences,perhaps a time out as you do seem stressed out judging by your recent posts,you appear to me to be angry and tend to strike out

Does this have anything to do with the "setenced to death" thread? If so what part of his rantings was true? What is the fate of his wife and kids?

That's fucked.

But why did you tell him that you were his cousin to begin with?
Couldn't you have foreseen the potential fall out? :(




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garce.

Listen carefully. As hard as it may be to swallow what has happened right now. This is NOT your fault.

Sure some things you have done and inadvertently exposed the situation to may have been 'mini' buildg blocks to his death but how are you to know that? yes you'll carry some guilt towards yourself in this but it isNOT your fualt he went over the edge. he wanted to post these things in his blog. Te attention was brought to himself by his postngs and problems in life. Key point is, inadvertent reactions are beyond your control when you really didn't know any better. he wanted the attention, you gave him an outlet. As in his postings, you an see he had this planned already.

he wanted the outlet, you gave him his outlet, its not your fault he decided to end his life as he said he would ebfore the drama about the blog started.

I have a friend who is quite mentally ill that I have finally decided to cut my ties with permanantly. Sure he could go of the edge as he was VERY close to me, my dauhter and my girlfriend but sometimes actions lead to reactions that are beyond my own control with my action of severing the ties. if something happens, it is NO my fault but i would feel guilt none-the-less.

Take it easy and take the time to be there for your aunt.

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Very sorry to hear about this.

Unfortunately, when someone is going to do this there is nothing that you can do to prevent it. We always feel that we could have seen something, done something, not done something. No matter how bad we feel when this happens to someone we know or are related to, we can't blame anyone. Mental illness is a bitch and there usually are no clear answers when a person gets into this state of mind.

Again, very sorry for your families loss. Please try not to blame yourself or anyone else. Just be the best nephew that your aunt could hope for. That is something within your power.

it is definitely not your fault

Blaming a government for your inability to provide for your well being is pretty crazy to begin with but you admit he was mental, I feel bad for his (handicapped?) daughter, good luck

Not your fault. 90% of hacks are script kiddies hitting google looking for a specific version of a script, one with a known flaw. One of the three sites had a script with a flaw. It's probably not related to gfy in any way.

Really?!?

Why the fuck would anybody from GFY call Fox News on a website for some nutbag? This is one the dumbest fucking posts I have ever read on this forum. Don't give GFY too much credit. There are only 2 or 3 people on this board that are even capable of it, and unless you pissed them off? They wouldn't touch it. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Sad story ... Worst scenario ...

Agree! Don´t blame yourself. If your aunt blames you for his death, then I am sure she is saying that because she is in shock and sorrow now.

Sorry to hear that. As everyone here said, it's not your fault.

it would of happened anyways by the sounds..

He didn't kill himself because you set up a website, it's much deeper than that.
Dont blame yourself, you actually tried to help him out by setting up that website and spreading the link.
You cant read his mind and you cant see into the future.
Not your fault.

Sorry to hear that! suicide is a very selfish act, and there is nothing you or anyone could have done to cause it, or provent it.

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Yes. Anybody that is out to commit suicide has deeper seeded issues than a website getting hacked or a news channel calling him out... if that is even the case. If a family member (especially a mother) has the gall to blame somebody else for what transpired they are either one of the main causes of this guy's despair or they are just lashing out due to grief. I wish you luck.

don't mean to be rude... but what id so wrong with suicide? I just is a choice.... accept his choice...

I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

You tried to help him. You aren't to blame at all.

Yeah, a choice that usually cause a bunch of bullshit in it's wake. It's a selfish thing to do. This thread proves that the wavelengths of somebody's "right" to commit suicide reach far beyond the pussy that did it. It's self pity. Self pity is despicable. Get up, stand up, accept your consequences and move on... no matter what hand you have been dealt.

My condolences death is never a good thing, and to add to another reply we were also hacked this morning on one of our sites with a server on Amerinoc

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Condolences.

It's totally not your fault so quit blaming yourself.

Something's fucked up.

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You did tried to "bank" on your cousin's dementia, that's all your share of responsibility.

no, because for somebody wants to commit suicide it is actually the other way around...

it is more selfish to take children because you think that is fun and you are bored anyway... nobody ever asked to be born....

try yo think outside the box for a sec...

that sucks.

jesus see what you did here

If a person is predisposed to do such a thing he will do it sooner or later. Anything can become a reason for suicide. If it wasn't this situation it would be something else. Blaming yourself is stupid. The worst thing about this is that the aunt is blaming you, too. If I got it right... That really sucks, but you gotta understand she has to direct her anger and pain at someone

I am so sorry for your loss. There is no way you could have known he would do that. There are billions of mentally unstable people in the world who don't kill themselves. How could you have known? . I wish you the best and hope that you can make it through somehow.