Decide Buddy's Fate.. Runs FREE or Kept Inside FOREVER.. Just had a fight with neighbors
 

1) Buddy runs free as a cat should and fuck the fuckers even if they harm Buddy.

2) Buddy is kept prisoner inside the home his whole life so the assholes are happy and Buddy is safe but NEVER lives.

Decide Buddy's fate. There are only two options. Thank you.

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Short story:

Buddy now comes home on his own just fine through the cat door. Tonight Buddy ran down to a neighbor's who doesnt want him around. Sat in their yard cause lots of kids were around (Buddy likes people).

My old nemesis Dickhead was also down there visiting, he yelled at me, "hey your cat is down here".. very short story.. instigated a reaction out of me and before long I was shouting at the top of my lungs at them. They want me to keep Buddy in ALWAYS and FOREVER and NEVER let him out.

I say fuck them and fuck that BUT I dont want them to hurt Buddy but if they do they do.. the cat will run as cat's should.

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Long story:

In trying to keep ALL neighbors happy I bought a fancy harness and leash and planned on walking Buddy but it just doesnt work out. And I knew it wouldnt. So I got my money back.

So last night I let him out the cat door come what may. This morning after running all night little Buddy at first light comes climbing back in to the home. :) GREAT news. So far so good! Buddy can now come and go ok. Great news for "me".

So Buddy has learned how to come and go and find his way in and out with the cat door.

He sleeps inside all day with me and about 7:30pm tonight he goes out. My closest neighbor, and a good guy, brings him back as he thought he was still lost. I explain he now knows where home is and he can ignore it if he sees it. He says fine and says "sure is a cute cat." So far great day.

Suddenly I hear from two lots down "hey your cat is down here" It is Dickhead who is down at the neighbor's where Buddy was found a few days back when he got lost. Buddy likes to run down there as there is lots of activity.

I yell, "it's ok, he can find his way home" Anyhow things seem a tad upset so I walk down there to get Buddy who is hanging out under a car.

Long story short the women there who runs a daycare center out of a mobile home says, "she doesnt want Buddy around" as he tries to get in the house. This was only when he was lost a few days back, not now.

I say, "it is only because so many people around. He just likes to be where the action is. Give him time to learn the ropes. He can find his way home and eats at home in fact he just ate. He will not try and get in anymore. He was hungry then"

Things are fine so far. I explain, Lucky was killed and I tried to teach Buddy to use a harness ect and but it doesnt work out. So far I am joking and cordial.

But things go south..

Dickhead (the neighbor who once instigated a fight and punched me in 2004 over Lucky in his yard) starts poking me saying how the rules say "you must keep him indoors ALWAYS". (which they dont, "they say you must keep your pet in sight" Many cats run outdoors here. That is what cats do in MH parks and basicly what cats do. 250+ mobile homes in a huge area.

Anyhow before it is over me and Dickhead are yelling (mostly me, as I lost it, yes my hair temper went off but he pushed me and actually HE raised his voice and started yelling at me FIRST)

"keep it inside ALWAYS" he yells"

I yell, "if you touch the cat I will call the sheriff"

and many more things are said where we basicly reopen the cold war that remained stagnant since 2004, back and forth and I think the women is also now yelling. Major spectacle.

I told them to throw firecrackers at him and scare him off but they just want to be asses and keep Buddy from EVER running on their yard which will ONLY happen if he imprisonned by me 24/7 for 15 years.

They are unreasonable. This is a mobile home park and cats are allowed. In fact from 1987 till 1999 dogs were not allowed as they bark and only cats were allowed.

It is a very small 8 month neutered cat who just wants to hang out with people as he is from a farm where there is lots of activity and thus is afraid of noone. (which is a problem)

So towards the end of our shouting match, which went on for 3-4 mins, I say to the woman "well I have to listen to all these kids all the time screaming, all I have is Buddy who isnt hurting nothing if he sits here once in a while. Otherwise chase him out."

All of a sudden the father comes out all pissed cause I mentioned the kids. I apologize (which I really shouldnt have) and say it is because dickhead set me off and we have an old, bad relationship.

So I take Buddy home. They make snide remarks, "you better leave or.." as I leave. I am the bad guy now.

Buddy is inside sleeping. Cold night 37F.

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So.. two options..

1) Keep Buddy inside the rest of his life which I couldnt do even if I wanted but I wouldnt do anyhow. I didnt buy him for that.

To never go out when I am out BBQing or just out on a summer day?

Everytime I get groc and come home I have to keep him locked in a middle room? Because I have to open the door sev times to bring stuff in.

Everytime I go outside to take garbage out.. I have to NEVER let him out with me? ect ect?

This can NOT be done even if I was such an asshole to do that to the poor little cat. It is completely unrealistic. And noone but the assholes expects me to do this.

2) He will run free as all my cats have done and as MANY other cats do out here BUT he will be in danger as they could hurt him.

Of course option 2 is what I will be doing. Hopefully they will not hurt Buddy as he will prob run down there again. But I have only these two general options.

So I am now hated by one more neighbor and prob more as I am the "bad guy" in the fucken mobile home park who lets their cat run lol.

What are you gonna do. Such is life.

So if he goes missing .. "that's the fucking way she goes" as Ray said in Trailer Park Boys.

My one lil cat, and all I have in life, will run free. Wish him best.

real life Bubbles right here

I gotta say - I enjoy you being honest about your life. Let Buddy run free.

just another day in the trailer park.

Make buddy a ninja cat !


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Without reading anything yet, I say let him be free, he's an animal let him run wild. That said, my cat doesn't make it outside the screened in pool, but I live in the city and whatnot (fucking people would say "awwww poor cute stray cat" and take him).. I think you live more in a rural area?

do you have a yard? leash him in the yard.

you really think some of these people would kill a kitten?

poor Buddy, just wants to get along.

Aim speakers out windows, put a Black Sabbath cd in your stereo, hit repeat.

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And after reading and realizing it's a MH park, I overall vote keep him inside. Those people will eventually poison him or something else fucked up. :2 cents:

Tell them you don't own Buddy, Buddy owns you. Freedom!

So the problem is a day care owner? lol Try this approach ... For starters,

"A minimum of 35 square feet or usable indoor space is required per child. Outdoor play space: An outdoor play space of at least 50 square feet per child, adjacent to the residence for regular use, or a park or playground within 1,500 feet of the residence is required"

http://www.mnchildcare.org/reqlic/forhomes.php


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So I could be a coward and never adopt a cat and let one more die or I can stand up for what I believe even if I need help with a legal fund to keep me from being evicted.. never happen.. District court Judge would laugh... Been here 25 years+ with cats since day one who ALL ran

I told dickhead, "I was here 12 years before you when your lot was a FIELD and my cats Sam and Rascal used to shit in it lol :) True

Oh we got nasty, Im surprised I didnt get ounched.. maybe at 55 noone want to punch me anymore :) over a cat

I called him a loser whose wife makes the money so he doesnt have to work in the printing press (think I surprised him)

He told me my place is falling apart. Which it isnt really. :) Has better paint than his actually.

I so want to OUT this asshole and BUY his domain (first last name) which is still available and rediredt to something lame.

But I still am a good guy and will keep to my integrity and follow the golden rule which is basiclly how I live my life.



Good stuff LP.. I thought about that.. will comment

cat at home:

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Let it be know the first time Buddy doesn't come home or is injured the state will come out and close down his wife's illegal day care operation.

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These assholes will not allow me the ONLY negative thing I bring, a cat that runs. No kids. No visitors (seldom) No parties. I am always friendly (normally) and quiet on the computer.

They can not cut me THAT little slack which is where the anger comes from and WHAT is wrong with this country

Fuck AmeriKA. Land of the asshole. My brother says Tampa is terrible for assholes.

I know you all have way thicker skin and have seen worse. But I still believe in give and take and trying to get along not be in a feud with your neighbors.

Dog next door barks. My cat runs over there.. no probs. WHY? Cause he is a cool guy who has half a brain and is REASONABLE with a neighbor.

In my hometown in Central Minn. Stuff like this was never discussed. Noone cared less if a cat ran around a bit.

It is cuase he has small dick syndrome and wants to make a mobile hime lot his temple.

Well wake up Dickhead. Get a real home with property you own. Not a fucken mobile home park lot.

Your fucking old lady makes $100K annually as a super high specialist nurse. They can afford to move. Yet they stay in a fucken MH park lot and never do nothing but make my life hell.

They should be ****. But not by me of course.

Anyhow the anger is towards them and noone else. :)

Ok let me respond first to LP..

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh thanks.

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Ya know I damn near said, em do you have a license.. as that went thru my head.

Ya know when I went and got Buddy over there when he was lost and talked to the woman she seemed a bit cunty. Looked at me like I was shit.

I should have known the NEXT time Buddy was over there (yes ONE time) she and her friend Dickhead would double team me.

What a fucken cunt. And she is major fucken ugly too.

God damn fucken trailer trash LOL :)

(incl me I guess :) )

But yeah very interesting. If they come to the door and get nasty maybe I will go there. Bookmarked :) Thanks man :)

Buddy is not doing too good in the poll. Are you all in the city :)

LOL I kinda thought you were from down around there :)

Yeah says it is getting bad.

(sigh)

assholitus I guess running rampant in America even to the "nice" state Minnesota. BTW Dickhead is from around Chicago. True Minnesotans are the salt of the earth. :)

I could give a rat's ass if the neighbor cat is in my yard ESPECIALLY since he has a home and is going back soon.

WTF is wrong with people. Ever hear of trying to get along with your neighbor.

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I'd tell him I'd like a bottle of whatever your favorite booze is and for him to STFU about the cat, and maybe you will keep quiet about the daycare operation.

Ever hear a 6'3" 300 LB guy yell for 3 mins at top of my voice in pure rage pent up since 2004. It wasnt pretty and I aint proud but shit happens when Dickheads are around I guess. All kinds of kids around. Neighbors looking.

PJ you cant tie a cat out. They will get hung up and choke poss.

baddog, right on the button man. Cats run the show and if you think I am gonna listen to a cat howl FOREVER to get out so ANYONE can get their warped way and be the small, big man, (short, bald man's complex) forget it.

Fucken Dickhead struts around. Got a 6'2" tall 230LB Ugly German Battleship (he's 5'7 bald 140) out making $100K while he sits around like a pompous ass and takes care of the kid while she buys him new trucks all the time.

I told him, "way to escape the printing press job"

Then he says, "well at least I got a wife"

It was NASTY stuff man. Actually my home is fine. He was just tryiing to find anything after I told him all about his wife and his past jobs ect.

Ad yes he I out weigh him 2 to 1 and he would prob still kick my ass again lol. Unless I could avoid the takedown. lol When we fought he was 40 I was 47. Now he's 48, Im 55 :)

But he IS a state champ wrestler 140LB class from Wisconsin and I aint much from my back anymore. Like I ever was hehe

But if I get that short little bastard in a triangle... lol :) before he pounds me out.. :Oh crap :)

You are not going to fight him, so that really is not an issue. The point is, you have something to hold over him. Let him know that you know and all should be fine. If not, drop a dime on his sorry ass, or tell us and I am sure there will be an investigative reporter knocking on his door within hours. GFY is funny like that.

I am HAPPY about ONE thing:

Buddy knows his way home!

So who cares. Buddy will fig out they are assholes and I doubt they will hurt him. Prob just stay pissed at me and the cold war will fester.

Believe me, Buddy is too fucken cute with too much love from many supporters, lots of Good Karma and NINE lives.

Fuck the fuckers.

Buddy knows his way home which is what counts and is GREAT news. I will cont to be the villian in some people's eyes incl on here.

I respect those opinions on here. Let me ask those cat owners who keep their cats in 100%:

Obviously you are on the 12th floor and easy to say. No prob I had my cats on the thrid floor and they stayed in until I moved here with them both 25 years ago.

How many of you are just jealous of a guy with 1/4 acre and not in the urban jungle? And taking it OUT on Buddy :)

Anyone here rural and keep their cat in 100% from adoption to death? Of course not. That is silly to rural people which is where I am. Not in the city but 100% rural.

Rural MH Park. Over 250 homes and woods and fields. We are a city unto ourselves tho and the guy who owns the lil store makes a klling. :)

and I know PJ would not care if my cat was in his yard or ANY of you as you are obviously intelligent and know the gives and takes in life to get where you are and realize that good relations for us both is best. Maybe if you allow my cat.. I help you sometime. That is rural life.

Of couse if your CUNT brings home 100K feel free to be a dick :)

OK rant over.. answering.. baddog first :)

GFY luh da kids.

at the root there is something wrong between you and your neighbor. you have to figure that out and fix it. the cat is just a symptom. until you figure it out there will be an issue. if it's not that cat it will be something else.

right

so you have to remain calm

i cant believe anyone would go so crazy over a kitten bouncing around

they obvioulsy hate their existance

you got to get smart vjo

its not your fighting skills - its like lpink said

try to keep the cat in as much as possible

you know about regular feed times so hes always around at those times etc

just try to minimize how much hes out

buy birds from him to chase around your house - wear the little fucker out

hang thing on strings

balls bells blah blah - anything to stimulate him into exhaustion as much as possible

you need to train him to sty home as much as possible

yeah - this is better advice than my dribble

Good point :) That is it.

He was down chewing on the woman's ear and that is why she went south on me. Fucken guy is poisening the neighbors. Like I really care :) but.

In 1999 I won $50K. In 1999 he moved in. Ying-Yang. Middle of the road luck is ALWAYS best.

Anyhow he worked at a printing press and I was fat and stayed home all day. Wifey was a nag in his ear then,

That is where it all began. I looked out in July 1999 and seen the hate he had for me right after he moved in. He would sit and stare at my window and he was pissed.

Very Type A.. This is what SERIOUS state chanp wrestlers from WI which has big citiies are like.

These guys end up living somewhere. He is a type A thinks I am lazy, tho I do it all and so on. We all know the type.

Then throw Lucky in and things boiled over with his doing. i am peace loving.

Can ANYONE who posts Carpenter songs lol.. not be peace loving?

Someday I will get a dig cam and his ass goes on the web for a bit.. maybe :) Then you will all agree. This fucker has asshole written all over him :)

Where as I have love written all over me and kindness and so forth.

Ying - Yang

yeah we need video of this dude to get a better feel for the situation. live cam feed even.

buddycam.

Anyhow I thank you all for caring to take time. I have to go back and read/respond now baddog FIRST :) darn it, sorry bd :)

we need this vjo

buddy now has a horde on demented pornographers on his side

shit got real and we may need to mobilize at anytime

Wow well thanks guys. That makes me feel better. They are just being mean to me and as PJ says the guy dont like me.

If I had read this before I was shouting I would have altho hubby looks like a 240 LB truck driver. He stayed in till I mentioned the kids. Maybe that is why.

Anyhow, seriously, if they push things or start yelling "your cat is here" I might yell that at em from a distance.

I value my teeth and dentists are not cheap and YES I have decent teeth at 55 :)

Bottom line.. the guy was jealous of me in 1999. He worked. I (apparently to him) didnt.

And he still is I think.

Or else he is just a mean person.

I told my brother that if I ever get a fatal disease.. he might get to know *****. Better not go there publicly :) . I truly hate him guys. It is sad I have to live by him. I walk outside my from door and I always feel him looking at me. And friends have said he looks at them out the DOOR when they come over.

I hadnt talked to him since 2004 and did not even realize it was him when I first got down there. Then I soon did.

You think I am peace loving and I am but guys like me attract assholes It is ying - yang

You show me a cat hater and I will show you an asshole. Bigger the hater. Bigger the asshole.

set fire to their meth labs.

If he hurts the kitten start an anti Aryan Brotherhood, Crips or MS-13 website that leads back to him.

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Peaks at me out 3" of curtains all day long. I am serious :)

I am on fucking public assistance. Only Energy Assistance though I DO qualify for food stamps but not taking them as things are slightly looking up.

But no picnic my life. I had beans for dinner tonight. Beans and rice to save for $340 to get a tooth pulled.

And he is jealous of me.

If I told you what kind of car I drove it would be major embarrassing :) I might get banned from GFY LOL

And $100K boy wont let me have a cat.

haters gonna hate I suppose.

Hating me is like hating Jesus Christ

the people have spoken however.

I love it guys LOL Makes me feel better.

I can live with Dickhead. He will not hurt Buddy and not much he can do. The only reason I got 3 eviction notices in 2004 (after he punched me that year) and 1 in 2006 and 1 in 2008 is because he was down complaining EVERY DAY they told me.

But I am not worried at all. The Park told me to forget it in 2004 after the third notice. No judge will evict me over a cat running thru someones yard. Period.

Truck drivin man and his wife who is all bitchy cause she has her own kids and runs a day care (MAYBE people should fucken chill out and not bite off so much to chew and make their lives miserable as it affects us all) wont hurt Buddy either but they might take him to the humane society as she threatened so they would have to LIE as the HS wont keep someone's collered cat.

SO NONE of them can do SHIT. I will relish in being the villian cause assholes will never get the best of me.

Buddy runs! :)

As Serge once told me when I was hurt cause folks were mean :)...

"Fuck The Fuckers"

I am making more and more .. in a year I might counter sue Dickhead for harrassment.

Things are far from over but YOU ALL give me strength and I LOVE you all for being there. :)

I know it is small but as you can see from all my threads hard to get a grasp on.

Now that Buddy knows his way home, Buddy will run.

Cold next few nights so Buddy is chill now.

But when I go out I am not gonna push him back in the door his whole life.

I am surprised to see so many think that is the answer. Really. That is cruel. Pure and simple.

Make him a window cat cause a neighbor is upset? You all sound like pussies who voted and I am a bit dissapointed. (maybe only the trolls voted and noone else feels it is important)

BUT I realize MAYBE you voted for Buddy's sake. :) SO no offense. He would be safe.. and sleep his life away bored to death. A window cat... NOT!

Way it goes. I will scan the first eviction notice LOL :)

true and I respect that, I dont understand it but maybe I am just too rural a guy. In the city yes but out here inside all his life?

So on July 4 after Buddy was in all year. I go out as does everyone and their kids and barking dogs and about 50 other cats in the park but you all are telling me YOU the Adult Industry wants to keep Buddy in forever?

Are sales that bad? :) lol Are we THAT bitchy just as my neighbor? Does the wife's breath stink that bad? Are the kids... Sorry, I got chastized earlier for not being married.. just a lil cranky yet :)

I dont believe it and believe only trolls voted. :)

I doubt too many rural folks are on this board either or else they didnt vote.

Vjo, have you tried Ritalin?

Buddy knows where home is :thumbsup

All is good now. If they take Buddy to the Humane Society all hell will break lose.

I will call the Sheriff and AFTER finding out who dropped him off have them arrested for taking a known neighbor's cat to the HS.

Cant fuck with Buddy. Buddy has rights too.

This park allows cats. Cats run. Bottom line.

If you dont like how we do it in the park get your fucken ass out!

Yeah maybe I need ritalin and one day maybe I snap.

Do you all want me obcessed over YOU? :)

Never kick an apparently weak man. One day he may snap. Happens.

He better hope I stay healthy.

I dont know if he really hates me but I really hate him. Serious hate.

When you continually beat on a man who is alone ALL he has is years to think about it.

And now we are back to my first thread on revenge a month back.. endless circle of hate.

LP can you watch him for me :)

Oh and yeah "light on" over there tonight LOL

Guess he thinks I may be planning an attack lol

I need a vid



hows your weekend going :)

Jakez, I can tell you are a cat lover and if you were here you would agree. You were on the fence :) Many folks in MH Parks are the salt of the earth.

Buddy is in no danger. I sense no real danger.

No man. Do I need it. :)

Well... cant afford it. :)

Generic dozies first :)

Let me play a little devil's advocate. Right now Buddy is cute and he is just visiting the neighbors and there is a decent chance he may never have any problems out there.However, he could also be pissing various people off.

When I moved into my house the neighbor had two cats that he let run free. I spent a pretty decent amount of time putting in some nice flower beds around the yard and doing things to make the yard nice looking and those cats decided that my yard was their personal litter box. It is not a lot of fun when you don't have an animal so you go out into your backyard barefoot and step in cat shit!

Then the first winter I was here I find out that the cats crawl under my house (they dig holes under the access panel) and would climb up onto the air duct which was warm. In the middle of the winter the heat stops blowing out half the vents in half of the house. My brother climbs under the house to check it out (he is an HVAC guy) and encounters tons of cat shit and he sees where the cats laid on the duct and collapsed a piece of it. It only cost me about $20 to fix, but it took a few hours and was a pain in the ass. Not to mention it was cold for a few days until we could get a chance to fix it.

On top of that the cats seemed to love laying on the soft convertible top of my car. That car is my baby and that really pissed me off.

I asked the guy four different times to do something about his cats and he always promised that he would. He never did. After the car incident I wrote him a letter and sent it registered mail explaining that if I saw any damage to my car or home in the future from his cats I would call animal control and have them come put live traps down and take the cats away. Finally he moved them inside and even apologized to me saying he didn't realize everything that was going on (which was bullshit, but I was cool with it so long as the cats stayed inside).

So Buddy might be just out having innocent fun, or he could be pissing people off.

In the end he is your cat and you are responsible for his life. If you choose to be irresponsible and let him run free in a place where you know he is not wanted, don't be shocked when he just disappears some day.

Sorry for the long post.

Thanks man :thumbsup He will :)

I am honest and few kick me even tho I am down cause we all know the game is long.
I have seen good years and bad years. Nothing wrong with MH living. It is honorable and beats renting.

Those of you in Apts.. How does $350 a month for 1/4 acre and 24 (i think) trees sound? (once you own the home) I lived in an Apt for many years. MH living is way better.

And yes I planted a hedge on Dickhead's side that is quickly blocking his lil bald, dickish looking head from view.

Good post and no apologies needed. i appreciate you taking the time.

Thing is.. all it takes is a pack of firecracker thrown at them a couple times and they move on. I would even buy the crackers for you.

Or a shot of vinegar. Yes they have to get somewhat tough and then he goes to lots where people are who like him.

Lucky was shot by one neighbor with a BB Gun. I seen him out there. But other than that we got along. So I let it slide. he was about 75 y/o so eh a lil senile.

Also remember this is not a city or town. This is a mobile home park that ALLOWS cats and does not say they have to be in only that they must be watched and not become a nuisance. ie cats are allowed and if you arent cool with that get a piece of your own property. Not you but in general.

Cats are allowed when you sign the lease and NO they do not have to be kept in always.

But I hear ya. You had some special probs and your case is diff than just walking through the yard once a day. The homeowner should pay for damages in the case of your car. As should I if Buddy damaged cars.