whats a good age for a guy to settle down?
 

im just curious,how old were you when you tied the not?Im 34 and, im still meeting women and having fun,but i know someday the fun will stop.Did i miss the boat?

you need a time machine,

28 is the age :winkwink:

there is no right age.. you're ready when you're ready.. i know plenty of 60 year old's that are still big pimpin and loving it :winkwink:

but i'm 22, settled down, and happy :thumbsup

just my :2 cents:

laterz,
dave

100

NEVER :glugglug

I've thought about this for quite a while,too. The answer that I realized was right for me is that --there is NO set age to settle down. You have to set schedules based on your own personal growth and preparedness. Another thing that is true: Rushing into these lifelong responsibilities unprepared will be unfair both to the person to be supported/partner for life and myself. Compassion and selflessness are the keys to becoming a great father and truly understanding/loving/accepting husband/partner.

Why do you think the fun will stop when you get married?
You make your life what you want it to be :2 cents:

Only a woman would make that statement.

Funny you say that my hubby told me to ask :thumbsup

LMAO omg, guys never settleits not worth it

Whats not worth it?

what the headaches and bullshit that comes with being married

Marriage is for pussy whipped losers.

Wise. :thumbsup

i'm way too busy to even have a steady girlfriend. in fact, i fucked up my last serious relationship simply due to the fact that i'm extremely driven and ambitious - achieving (business) goals has been number one in my life for so long that i really don't remember any different. damn that's fucked.

I was 23 :thumbsup

I'm perfectly happy as a "settled down" guy at 27... assuming I fit your definition of settled down. I'm married and have a kid, at least.

i wish i had the mentality that marriage is for pussies. i have way too much of a problem with dating multiple girls cause i know they're off fuckin other guys. and idealy, i want them only fucking ME. but realistically, thats not how it is. so knowing this, i'd get very pissed and treat um like shit and they basically end up hating me while i hate them cause they're dirty whore ass bitch sluts. thank you.

well I'm 25 but apparently the time for me was 4 years ago when my daughter dropped by ;) so 21 is as good as any if you get an angel like that :)

what kills me, is that i know more divorced people than "happily Married"

Now this person knows. :thumbsup Shit I've been married 3 times, before I was 35 and didn't settle down until I was 40 and single.. Oh I look back and wish the hell I'd never gotten married, been single over 20 years and fucking loved every day of it. I've had more fun than should be legal in my life time.:helpme

I'm about ready now... I'm a month away from 40.

Get ahold of yourself:1orglaugh that's NOT fucked, and don't go jumping into a bunch of trouble. Women I love'm, big 1's, little 1's, all kinds, just when they get 2 serious my white get's some gone. Now it took me many many years 2 get to this point with women and many many relationships.:2 cents:

Any guy that either gets married or has a kid before age 30 is missing out on a lot of fun.

Damn, I think you hit it on the mark.

hmmm...me thinks www.dirtywhoreassbitchsluts.com might be a good domain name. :1orglaugh

I was going out with this girl last year for around 10 months and SHE asked me to marry her.. was very surprising considering she was only 17, I was 19 and really hadn't even contemplated the idea until then.. needless to say when my answer was no, a few weeks later we broke up and that was that.

A sidenote.. she's now screwing different guys week after week I hear from her friends, so kinda glad I got out of it when I did

I was 40 when I got married ( 42 now ), I shoulda waited another 40 :(

Isn't that the truth. I estimate 8 out of 10 married people dont stay married or wish they haven't. Then some women get married just to take everything two years later.

Sounds like something a teenager would say.. :1orglaugh

What are talking about man.. you just need a wife that lets you swing

My girl keeps telling me that the best time to settle down is right now.

I'm going to settle down around 75. Into the fucking ground.

A correct teenager.

I told my son (who's 19) not to even THINK about it until he's at least in his 30's. Then, and only then if he thinks it's the right one. But I hope he's realized that through the years, he's found "the right one" enough times to know he's clueless as to what he really wants, lol!

I'm glad I had him early, because now I can have my private time, but I wish I had waited to get married. You do NOT know what you want or even who you are for such a long time. I'm in my 40's and I STILL don't know what I want :winkwink:

To settle down just to settle down is one of the most common and biggest mistakes I see people of ANY age make. :( It's not a bad thing to be alone.

By settle down I assume you mean get married??

I don't think I'm going to get married, I'm just going to find a woman I can't stand and give her my house :winkwink:

i agree on a lot of things with you guys.

i'm 20 now... lots of friends of mine (same age) already have the same partner for years and years and are living together... damn, i just don't understand them - aren't you supposed to enjoy your freedom and explore life's possibilities when you're 20?!?! i just cannot make them understand they are throwing away a huge part of their life... man, they haven't even have had a few party-years -- like i'm doing right now, just uncomplicated party and doing whatever i want (+ some study :)) whole week long... i think a person needs a couple of those years to find out what he wants in life.

the friends i'm talking about had their first or second girlfriend/boyfriend when they were 17, left highschool at 18, worked their ass out in college for 2 years and now live together with their 3-year-relationship, as if they're both 40 already... damn, i bet in 10 years they'll be regretting their ass out...

and quiet, your story ressembles mine 200%... i'm having relationships all the time but they never last longer than a few months, because:
- i don't want a 'solid' relationship, i think i don't even can do it right now... the girl gets on my nerves when i see her too often... problem is that most of the time the girl wants to be around/hug/talk to me 24/7 and gets angry when i say 2 nights per week is the max for me.
- achieving business goals and study have always been number one and i don't see that change... my business simply does more to me than my girl - ok, i don't tell my girl that in these words but i know it's the truth... you can call me whatever you want but the more time i spend working on my business, the more i get hooked by it... the more time i spend on my girl the more i get annoyed by it...

Every relationship i've ever had has been ruined by the fact that business and goals have always come before them. I'm married now and it's still that way for the most part. I am a 24 hour a day workaholic..they love having the cash but dont like the hours it takes to be VERY successful

never!
womens goal once they hit over 20 is to trap any guy they can, stay away from the traps and stick to the hoes!

Settle down when you're done having fun. :thumbsup

I think the time when you get tired of the one night stands

Not possible.

That's right! Whores RULE! Escorpio LOVES honest women!

:thumbsup :thumbsup Escort you are soooooooo right on that!

headaches and bullshit. settling down is a major trap. The only good thing, and I do mean the only good thing, is creating your children. I've settled down twice and trust me, it is not going to be like you think its going to be.

If you decide to settle down I suggest investing in a good body armor suit, you're going to need it. :1orglaugh

This is also totally true. Women want everything, but don't like when a guy works hard at their biz. Now I agree, men make biz their 2nd wives, and the women can't handle the biz (wife) getting so much attention which is understandable.

I need to decide when enough is enough and just give in for the long haul.

That sucks though, to view it as surrender...

Maybe when you meet the right person, there is no question...

But so far, it always ends...

I agree ~ but 75 is WAY too young.

It's normally time to settle down when you find the person that you want to spend your life with.. and are willing to make certain sacrafices for that person..

Never go looking for someone to settle down with simply because you think it's time to settle.. You'll start seeing things in a person that aren't really there just to satisfy your need to think she's the 'right one'..

If you're ok with life and havin fun the way things are.. I wouldn't worry about it..
Actually, you're probably doin it the right way.. and one day, she'll happen.. and you'll know..

60 years old - And not a moment sooner.

Okay, I'm 34. I got married some three or four years ago; I've been with my wife for ten years now. I wouldn't change a thing. We have a great life, and a wonderful two year old daughter.

Life is good.

When it's time you'll know.

you settle down and your life and very existence will cease to exist. i don't know why people like it and do it but it's the damn truth.

'you want the truth? you can't handle the truth!'