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MrDeiz 10-19-2012 11:17 PM

Do pornstars regret of what they did when retire?
 
A serious study. Please answer.

It's about whether or not a decent percentage of porn stars as well as porn beginners seriously regret of what they did once they quit.

Can they have a normal family life afterwards?
I see many issues at various community sites with a male or a female accusing/discovering their partner's porn film experience.

Please contribute if you know real-life examples of stuff like and how it gets resolved

Harmon 10-19-2012 11:19 PM

Either they become crack addicted aids infested nothings or they find Jesus. There is no in between.

adult-help 10-19-2012 11:22 PM

if not sooner then they regret when their kid comes home from school all depressed and shamed when the kids tease him with pics of his mom taking two dicks in the ass..

This is one of the reasons I will never really understand girls that do porn. (not complaining, it's just i would never do it) It is such a short term make-a-qucik buck thinking..now that we have internet it is even worse..

adult-help 10-19-2012 11:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19263218)
"Regret" is a pathetic word. It means you care what other people think of you

Fuck what other people think of you


well, once you have your own family and especially kids you cant think like that..

Chosen 10-19-2012 11:26 PM

Do people regret of something they've done in the past?
Answer is obvious: some of them do and some of them don't.

MrDeiz 10-19-2012 11:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by adult-help (Post 19263224)
This is one of the reasons I will never really understand girls that do porn. (not complaining, it's just i would never do it) It is such a short term make-a-qucik buck thinking..now that we have internet it is even worse..

yeah, women in huge scale are stupid. they just let to be treated the way they are.
every single bitch who got her life broken could blame only her core stupidity in deadly mix with an arrogance

bluebook18 10-19-2012 11:34 PM

if there is no pornstar there is no porn

if there is no porn there is no money

maybe in the future they will regret of showing tits and ass over internet but who knows

:)

AFSCxxx 10-19-2012 11:55 PM

I think it really depends on the girl. Some do, some don't. Some have made a good living from it so why would they regret that?

Most of them though, probably do.

kane 10-20-2012 12:58 AM

I think it depends on what they do with the rest of their lives. If they spend a ton of money to go to college and become a teacher then 5-10 years into their teaching career their past is found out, they are fired and can't get another teaching job, then I would guess they do regret it.

If they made enough money to live a decent life on the interest and returns of their investments, or they go into a field that doesn't care about their past then they may not.

Paul Markham 10-20-2012 01:10 AM

Anyone here actually know a porn star or actress, other than what they read online?

oppoten 10-20-2012 01:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19263218)
"Regret" is a pathetic word. It means you care what other people think of you

No, regret is about what you think of yourself.

oppoten 10-20-2012 01:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19263328)
Which has to do with other people

Fuck the lemmings

No it doesn't, it has to do with your own self opinion. I've regretted things that other people haven't known about.

Far-L 10-20-2012 01:47 AM

I have never found myself agreeing with Johnny Clips so closely.

I also am sorry to see so much negativity, self loathing, misogyny, and delusions.

I have kids and they never ever had a problem in school, nor did I with any of the parents. And I am talking parents that wanted me to be chaperoning on school trips knowing full well that I am in porn.

I know women that have led great lives post-porn and don't have any regrets. They are PTA moms, working women, soccer moms, etc. all functioning just fine, living regret free, free of persecution, and free of negativity and misgivings about their supposedly sordid pasts.

IMHO, you should just quit the biz if you see it so negatively yourself and are not actively trying to redefine the stereotype because all you are doing is contributing to the false presumption that "porn is bad".

:2 cents:

fitzmulti 10-20-2012 02:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrDeiz (Post 19263216)
A serious study. Please answer.

It's about whether or not a decent percentage of porn stars as well as porn beginners seriously regret of what they did once they quit.

No offense...
But, how do you TRULY expect to do a "serious study"...without actually asking the people that you are studying?

How do you expect people that post on GFY, the MAJORITY of which are a mix of affiliate promoters, trolls, and probably surfers...about what porn stars feel then THEY retire.

Sure a handful of people here are actually IN scenes...but not a big enough percentage of people here could possibly "KNOW" the answer to what you are asking.

FAR-L actually IS a good example...a few others, but as far as a "serious study", all you probably are going to get is a huge pile of opinions from people who know nothing about the people they are basing these opinions!
;-)
:2 cents::2 cents::2 cents:

AllAboutCams 10-20-2012 02:08 AM

Im guessing some do and some dont

nextri 10-20-2012 02:47 AM

watch mallicks new documentary and find out...

Paul Markham 10-20-2012 03:58 AM

Many of the girls who come into porn bring with them their troubles. Few girls get into porn for the love of being fucked by strangers. They do it mostly because they need the money. They then find out it wasn't so bad after all. Some women have actually found positives from being in porn. Love, money, career, direction in life, fame. Don't believe what you see on the TV.

A lot of the girls who never became stars and now because their real name is being used by scum who want a few more SE clicks are having troubles. Especially those who got into it before the widespread distribution of free porn.

This IMO has done more harm to the flow of new girls than anything. Any 18 year old who thinks doing a few porn movies to earn a couple $1,000 tops. Isn't going to get found out, is stupid. Any girl who doesn't think it will label her is even more stupid.

For guys it's a different matter.

Some people's attitude towards the women they rely on for their income annoys me.

NoComments 10-20-2012 05:24 AM

I don't... http://sexia.com/sergeXXX.jpg

Grapesoda 10-20-2012 05:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrDeiz (Post 19263216)
A serious study. Please answer.

It's about whether or not a decent percentage of porn stars as well as porn beginners seriously regret of what they did once they quit.

Can they have a normal family life afterwards?
I see many issues at various community sites with a male or a female accusing/discovering their partner's porn film experience.

Please contribute if you know real-life examples of stuff like and how it gets resolved

well I can you with pretty much certainty that's it's the tax liability and penalties...

blackmonsters 10-20-2012 06:54 AM

Bottom line, no porn star who made ENOUGH money ever regretted it.

Rochard 10-20-2012 07:27 AM

The other day I talked to a friend of mine who was a model in Phoenix fifteen years ago - a solo girl no one would remember. She now has a baby, but when you search for her by name her porn history comes up and there are thousands of pictures of her.

DWB 10-20-2012 07:33 AM

As with anything in life, some people live with regret, some do not. I'm sure it depends on what they did, where they are currently, what they are trying to do, and what just came back to bite them in the ass. That's life.

DWB 10-20-2012 07:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by blackmonsters (Post 19263620)
Bottom line, no porn star who made ENOUGH money ever regretted it.

Pretty sure every model who caught HIV regretted making porn.

blackmonsters 10-20-2012 07:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DWB (Post 19263656)
Pretty sure every model who caught HIV regretted making porn.

Because it was proved that the HIV came from porn and not the "side jobs".

Yeah, right.

campimp 10-20-2012 07:44 AM

i would imagine it depends on their level of success...

if they have a fairly successful career and make some serious bank, then there is probably less reason to be regretful. on the other hand, if they wind up doing 4 or 5 scenes and then leaving the business, then yes they will probably regret those few scenes they did

SmutHammer 10-20-2012 08:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19263218)
"Regret" is a pathetic word. It means you care what other people think of you

Fuck what other people think of you

:thumbsup

John-ACWM 10-20-2012 08:35 AM

People are very different and do unexpected things, so you never know.

inthecrack 10-20-2012 09:10 AM

I think the thing that is regrettable is that there are so many religious zealots out there who take offence to the fact she did porn and hold it against her. It was not porn that ruined her life. She made lots of money and had a good time doing it and it harmed nobody. It is all the delusional self righteous church goers who make it their business to make her life miserable because of what she did with consenting adults.

BlackCrayon 10-20-2012 09:32 AM

i can see where if they have kids that can come back to haunt them and cause problems but otherwise, fuck what other people think.

Mutt 10-20-2012 09:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by inthecrack (Post 19263832)
I think the thing that is regrettable is that there are so many religious zealots out there who take offence to the fact she did porn and hold it against her. It was not porn that ruined her life. She made lots of money and had a good time doing it and it harmed nobody. It is all the delusional self righteous church goers who make it their business to make her life miserable because of what she did with consenting adults.

The hypocrites in society worse than the religious zealots - fundamentalists truly believe porn and most sex is sinful based on religious scriptures and teachings. I can't argue with that. it's the rest of the world living in their glass houses who watch porn themselves, who engage in sex for pleasure themselves, who cheat on their spouses, etc who make girls feel shame and just being mean for being mean's sake using 'porn' as a convenient excuse. none of those people care about the girl, they don't even care about porn - what they care about is they can make somebody else's life miserable and get away with it.

It's tragic when a girl loses a job or career over porn. How it's legal to terminate an employee for an activity that is legal is beyond me. I wish somebody would legally challenge these vague 'morality clauses' that employers use.

pornmasta 10-20-2012 09:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Harmon (Post 19263217)
Either they become crack addicted aids infested nothings or they find Jesus. There is no in between.

there is also some mass murders

Robbie 10-20-2012 10:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by adult-help (Post 19263224)
It is such a short term make-a-qucik buck thinking..now that we have internet it is even worse..

Wrong...it used to be short term (about ten years or so at the most for a career)

But with the internet, people were finally able to find the porn they like.

So now "milf", "cougar", and "granny" porn are HUGE.

Nina Hartley, Kayla Kleeveage, Minka, Ginger Lynn, Julia Ann are just some of the girls who have done porn longer than most of the teenagers on GFY have been alive. :)

DWB 10-20-2012 10:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by blackmonsters (Post 19263661)
Because it was proved that the HIV came from porn and not the "side jobs".

Yeah, right.

Brooke Ashley, Lara Roxx, and Tricia Devereaux all give you a thumbs up for being the most ignorant fucker on the board right now. :thumbsup

blackmonsters 10-20-2012 11:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DWB (Post 19263996)
Brooke Ashley, Lara Roxx, and Tricia Devereaux all give you a thumbs up for being the most ignorant fucker on the board right now. :thumbsup

Cool!

I finally beat you at it.

:1orglaugh

Antonio 10-20-2012 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 19263320)
Anyone here actually know a porn star or actress, other than what they read online?

We know you, does that count?

Penny24Seven 10-20-2012 11:54 AM

you will get 1000 different answers. Depends on if it even effects them. I have several that have kids and a family now. Hell I am so small that I cannot even find their videos online lol. None have had any problems yet though.
None of my content is on tube sites (that I know of)

Robbie 10-20-2012 12:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 19263320)
Anyone here actually know a porn star or actress, other than what they read online?

Yeah, friends with lots of them and see them every week in social settings

loopardo 10-20-2012 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19263218)
"Regret" is a pathetic word. It means you care what other people think of you

Fuck what other people think of you

you are so above... constantly making all sort of self reasuring remarks and shit :thumbsup

SleazyDream 10-21-2012 01:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Far-L (Post 19263338)
I have never found myself agreeing with Johnny Clips so closely.

I also am sorry to see so much negativity, self loathing, misogyny, and delusions.

I have kids and they never ever had a problem in school, nor did I with any of the parents. And I am talking parents that wanted me to be chaperoning on school trips knowing full well that I am in porn.

I know women that have led great lives post-porn and don't have any regrets. They are PTA moms, working women, soccer moms, etc. all functioning just fine, living regret free, free of persecution, and free of negativity and misgivings about their supposedly sordid pasts.

IMHO, you should just quit the biz if you see it so negatively yourself and are not actively trying to redefine the stereotype because all you are doing is contributing to the false presumption that "porn is bad".

:2 cents:

thank you for posting some sanity in a thread full of idiots ashamed of what they do

freecartoonporn 10-21-2012 06:59 AM

i guess only those working in anal scenes or in prolapse scenes.

AmeliaG 10-21-2012 07:13 AM

There are lots of women who own everything they choose to do and are proud of the interesting adventures they have had and having been immortalized when they looked their sexy best. Most on-camera talent does not make that much money in aggregate, so it is not really all that much about the dough at the end of the day. There are also girls who get naked on camera who find it socially convenient to claim that they are ashamed and everything was awful, because some people will be nicer for it.

No matter what a person chooses to do, some people who take a certain path will regret something that others are forever proud of.

The internet tends to put everything down on a person's permanent record and that is only going to get to be more the case. Hopefully, people will ultimately become more open-minded, as we all see that everyone has a picture of themselves being dumb at a party or whatever.

MrDeiz 10-21-2012 10:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 19263881)
The hypocrites in society worse than the religious zealots - fundamentalists truly believe porn and most sex is sinful based on religious scriptures and teachings. I can't argue with that. it's the rest of the world living in their glass houses who watch porn themselves, who engage in sex for pleasure themselves, who cheat on their spouses, etc who make girls feel shame and just being mean for being mean's sake using 'porn' as a convenient excuse. none of those people care about the girl, they don't even care about porn - what they care about is they can make somebody else's life miserable and get away with it.

It's tragic when a girl loses a job or career over porn. How it's legal to terminate an employee for an activity that is legal is beyond me. I wish somebody would legally challenge these vague 'morality clauses' that employers use.

i do believe porn is no good based on my own perception of the reality.
it's all those people's characteristics you name are no good and can't be on the other side of the weights with porn, but get into the same row. people get less trusted in personal relations, get junk emotions injection instead of real ones. billions of people get their souls smaller year after year because of the way we leave. and porn is a big part of the problem in a global scale

Socks 10-21-2012 10:36 AM

Some do, some don't!

Socks 10-21-2012 10:37 AM

Truthfully, it all depends on how much money they saved.

MrDeiz 10-21-2012 11:17 AM

well, looks like someone deleted his post
ok then...

mineistaken 10-21-2012 11:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by adult-help (Post 19263224)
This is one of the reasons I will never really understand girls that do porn. (not complaining, it's just i would never do it) It is such a short term make-a-qucik buck thinking..now that we have internet it is even worse..

Normal person would never understand this choice, but keep in mind that 100% of population are not normal persons. Some of the are geniuses, some of them are smart, some of the are normal, some of them are stupid, some of them are very stupid, some of them are retarded. So if you are (for example) smart you would not understand someone who is stupid.

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mineistaken 10-21-2012 11:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnnyClips (Post 19263264)
Only propagandized morons care what other people think. Do what you want to do with your life as long as you don't impose your will upon others. Shoot for the stars

Idiot, its not (only) about what other people think, its about what you think about you when you were young when you are older and wiser.

Supz 10-21-2012 11:55 AM

most likely yes

Major (Tom) 10-21-2012 12:06 PM

I have 30 reasons as I focus on the psycholigical.
1. reason is that they have nothing to show for it.
2. they are lazy morons
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