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Danny_C 02-21-2003 09:30 AM

Are all women bi/lesbians? Here me out...
 
I've had a hundred women tell me that all women feel a little attracted toward other women.

And while gay porn is hard to find, because of a lack of models, there's no shortage of lesbian and even straight female models ready to go down in front of the camera.

Most women I've asked say they find gay porn repulsive, but lesbian porn is beautiful. (I, too, think lesbian porn is beautiful!)

Women regularly check one another out in public... but how often do we see men checking each other out? And how often do we see women who are supposed to be straight kissing their best friends?

KRL 02-21-2003 09:32 AM

Based on the girls I have known in my life, I'd say at least 1/3rd of women are bi, or have at least had a girl girl experience once.

Kanoealoha 02-21-2003 09:33 AM

Now are women checking out others...or just looking and seeing what their man is seeing...or just wishing they looked like that too...

but...women are damn beautiful...and they don't go I'm finished...sorry if you're not...

pink_in_the_middle 02-21-2003 09:38 AM

I personally check out girls because sometimes I wish I look like her etc.. or because she's hot.

I think it's easier for girls to check out other girls without anybody saying anything :2 cents:

Kanoealoha 02-21-2003 09:40 AM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle
I personally check out girls because sometimes I wish I look like her etc.. or because she's hot.

I think it's easier for girls to check out other girls without anybody saying anything :2 cents:

I'm with you on that...If I say look babe, she's hot...its all cool and he looks and doesn't say anything...if he says, look babe she's hot...haha yeah well I haven't encountered that yet and I hope I don't...and I'm sure he wouldn't want to either :glugglug

Butrflied 02-21-2003 09:40 AM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle
I personally check out girls because sometimes I wish I look like her etc.. or because she's hot.
Totally agree .. and its so much more socially acceptable for girls to check out other girls .. but guys checking out guys .. its automatically assumed you're gay .. kinda messed up.

Sarah_Jayne 02-21-2003 09:47 AM

well, I am bi. I don't check out every woman I know ..in fact I don't check most of them out at all. However, when someone that is my type is around, of course I do.

Also, I am not one of them that finds two men together repulsive. Sex is sex and hot sex it hot sex.

pink_in_the_middle 02-21-2003 09:49 AM

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Originally posted by Kanoealoha
if he says, look babe she's hot...haha yeah well I haven't encountered that yet and I hope I don't...and I'm sure he wouldn't want to either :glugglug


:1orglaugh Hit the deck :winkwink: jk

tenaciousB 02-21-2003 09:55 AM

I'm with Sarah on that.... hot sex is hot sex.
Most of the girls I know however (including me) find gay porn totally hot. Maybe that says something about my friends but I think it says more about how unattractive many of the straight male porn stars are.
I don't really find most lesbian content hot because it isn't really authentic to me (i mean those nails! OUCH!) but that's just personal preference.

Rochard 02-21-2003 09:58 AM

Every man/woman is a lesbian.

Kanoealoha 02-21-2003 10:01 AM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle




:1orglaugh Hit the deck :winkwink: jk

Hehe, once I caught him staring at this chick in a grocery store...needless to say I wanted to push him right into her and be a bitch...but instead...I just stayed quiet and told him...you want go ahead...you will not find better than me fucka! hehe

my friend believes ALL women are bi...well some are just straight lesbian...but ya know what i mean:winkwink:

Sarah_Jayne 02-21-2003 10:02 AM

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Originally posted by tenaciousB

I don't really find most lesbian content hot because it isn't really authentic to me (i mean those nails! OUCH!) but that's just personal preference.

bingo...I love having sex with other women but let me say that 99% of lesbian shoots are so obviously not lesbians and most likely not even bi. If any of them ever went near me with nails like that they would be wearing gloves.

angeleyes 02-21-2003 10:37 AM

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Originally posted by tenaciousB
I'm with Sarah on that.... hot sex is hot sex.
Most of the girls I know however (including me) find gay porn totally hot. Maybe that says something about my friends but I think it says more about how unattractive many of the straight male porn stars are.
I don't really find most lesbian content hot because it isn't really authentic to me (i mean those nails! OUCH!) but that's just personal preference.

You nailed that one. The men in most if not all adult films are repulsive. I'd rather watch a lesbian porn flick (and I'm straight) than see Jeromy Irons (sp?) getting his rocks off.

asuna 02-21-2003 10:41 AM

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Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle
I personally check out girls because sometimes I wish I look like her etc.. or because she's hot.

I think it's easier for girls to check out other girls without anybody saying anything :2 cents:

But you DO get checked out often right?:thumbsup

Tala 02-21-2003 10:48 AM

Hubby says I'm living in one giant smorgasbord. I play for both teams, and so when I walk into a party, I don't automatically eliminate about 50% of the partygoers just based on gender like he does.

However, there are some men that I wouldn't look twice at, and the same goes for women. I'm fuckin picky.

Two types of men attract me: Tall and darkly handsome (dark hair, perhaps dark tan, or just gothic) and tall and BLACK. (fuckin YUM)

Hubby falls into category 1.

Several types of women attract me: feminine, well-proportioned (notice I did not say "thin/slim/slender" I like my women to have something besides skin and bones, thanks), black, asian, redheads, and brunettes.

Never been into the blonde thing, and I don't know why. :(

No gf at the moment. I haven't found one that's willing to be my gf and his gf...and besides, it takes a special knack for PATIENCE to live with him. But if you're interested...

:):Graucho

shawcutie 02-21-2003 10:50 AM

Danny, the real question here is, are you trying to tell us something??

:Graucho :Graucho

stocktrader23 02-21-2003 11:03 AM

I'd like to nominate this for thread of the year please.


And Pink, you don't need to wish you looked like anyone else!

rocki 02-21-2003 11:06 AM

guys check out other guys but it's not apparent to other ppl and it's not becuase they have bi feeling... To appreciate beauty in general is not uncommon... ppl just don't admit it.
i check out women and i'm not bi...

Sarah_Jayne 02-21-2003 11:12 AM

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Originally posted by angeleyes


Jeromy Irons (sp?) getting his rocks off.

Do you mean Ron Jermey. I actually wouldn't mind too much seeing Jermey Irons in action.

EscortBiz 02-21-2003 11:13 AM

for the few here that know that im female im a lesbian too

eroswebmaster 02-21-2003 11:23 AM

Sorry I don't buy it...I just think this whole "bi-curious" for women is just a fad like Spice Girls, and Gurl power all that crap.

And I speak from experience.

I've got a sister who I watched grow up fawning over boys, covering almost every inch of her wall with Leif Garret, Shaun Cassidy, Peter Frampton pics, anything and any guy that showed up in Tiger Beat, or Teen Beat.

I watched her as she anguished over boyfriends lost and as she almost beat the door down to leave our house when my father finally gave her the ultimatum, it's either him or school...well she quit school and married him.

Of course the relationship didn't last, but produced two children over the next 8 years, then they seperated, mainly because she stopped taking care of herself and the house.

Then all of a sudden about 2 years ago she's "coming out of the closet," and is trying to tell me she never really liked guys, those pics on her wall were all show and she just thought they were cute.

No...she's just like all the other so called lesbians I've met since her revelation that got married had kids, and then divorced mainly because their husbands dumped them.

She's a dumpy fat white chick who can't get fucked anymore by a guy so now she's a "lesbian."

I'm not against homosexuals, or even lesbians for that matter, real lesbians, and I'm not talking about you "bi-curious" either. But I just don't buy that all of a sudden all these women are hardcore dykes who never liked guys.

And for those of you who like both guys and girls...what the fuck...sure it's hot if you are hot.

But it's not about women taking power, it's still about men wanting to get off sexualy over you performing, who cares if you do it out of sight from our view, guys still whack off over the idea that you may be going down on some chick.

I'm sorry, I just can't see wanting this to be my nieces future. Going down on another chick just to satisfy some primal need.

And I can't see women wanting this for their children's futures either.

When you young women get to be old ladies, is this something you're going to look back on proudly?

Do you want your grandchildren, especially your granddaughters to find out you were a rug muncher?

And this is not about morals, I have morals, and fuck the so called morals being pushed by the right winers...I'm a pornographer...but it doesn't mean I want my nieces to be one.

twinkley 02-21-2003 11:30 AM

I think just because a woman appreciates another womans beauty doesnt mean she is bi or lesbian....

I appreciate looking at beautiful women. I even occasionally appreciate more with them.... am I bi? No.... cause when it really comes down to it.... i loooove da cock :thumbsup

I think its just more acceptable for women to act out on their appreciation for each other and beauty than it is for men to...

Also, men are ingrained from the time they are small children not to appreciate the look of other men for fear of being gay.

twinkley

MetaMan 02-21-2003 11:32 AM

i dont think girls are really full out bi.
from my expierience it has to do with them being curious,

they will try stuff when they are like really drunk ass but other then that straight as a cock.

Tala 02-21-2003 11:32 AM

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When you young women get to be old ladies, is this something you're going to look back on proudly?
Ask my husband's mom. And her wife.

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Do you want your grandchildren, especially your granddaughters to find out you were a rug muncher?
At least those kids will be tolerant of differences. Just like ... my husband! He has three moms...(Dad's new wife, mom, mom's wife)...which means that I have three mothers-in-law....(ACK!)

I've been around bi and gay and lesbian people all my life, and honestly, it's a personal choice. If someone happens to like both sides, the goody for them! If someone doesn't like one side or the other, then whoopee for them. It's not my place to push them toward something or away from something based on my personal choice.

If my kids and grandkids turn out the same as me, then good for them. If they don't, good for them.

What will hurt me and upset me more than anything is if they turn out to be intolerant. To each his (or her, LOL) own. If it isn't hurting me or my family, then I don't give a fuck.

And I fail to see where someone's sexual preference will hurt my family or me. (NOTE: All you naysayers that are about to bring up rape and cp and all that...Let's keep the topic under HEALTHY sexual preferences. I can understand where those whacks can hurt my family, but that's not what I'm talking about here. TY.)

angeleyes 02-21-2003 11:34 AM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc


Do you mean Ron Jermey. I actually wouldn't mind too much seeing Jermey Irons in action.

Oops... I was thinking one thing and typing another. That was a big boo-boo. I did mean Ron Jeremy. :glugglug

goodgirl 02-21-2003 11:35 AM

I'm not bi or lesbian.

I don't think anything could be sexier then a naked guy.

Well yes, cock in my hands would be better :Graucho

Tala 02-21-2003 11:39 AM

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Originally posted by angeleyes


Oops... I was thinking one thing and typing another. That was a big boo-boo. I did mean Ron Jeremy. :glugglug

:) I'd rather see Jeremy Irons, tho.

:thumbsup

eroswebmaster 02-21-2003 11:44 AM

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Originally posted by Tala



What will hurt me and upset me more than anything is if they turn out to be intolerant. To each his (or her, LOL) own. If it isn't hurting me or my family, then I don't give a fuck.

And I fail to see where someone's sexual preference will hurt my family or me. (NOTE: All you naysayers that are about to bring up rape and cp and all that...Let's keep the topic under HEALTHY sexual preferences. I can understand where those whacks can hurt my family, but that's not what I'm talking about here. TY.)

#1 Just because someone is gay in the family doesn't mean they'll turn out to be tolerant like you said to each his own.

#2 This is not about sexual preference, this is about young women deciding one night they are going to lay the tongue smack down on some pussy and then continue to do it through college get married and never look back to the little brown eye.

You know they are only "bi-curious" not horny co-eds looking for anything to satisfy their primal desires...not even need.

This is also about women who after 10 years of a shitty marriage now claim to be lesbian...nope once again just fat chicks who can't get the cock anymore.

I'm not talking about real lesbians. The ones who clearly knew from a very young age that they were attracted to women and only women.

I'm talking about the ones who wear their new found lesbianism, or "bi-curiousness," like a t-shirt with a slogan on it.

Tala 02-21-2003 11:52 AM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster
[B]

#1 Just because someone is gay in the family doesn't mean they'll turn out to be tolerant like you said to each his own.

/B]
True enough, and that can be said for anything, be it sexual preference or religion or a fart in the wind. However, no one is born a bigot.


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#2 This is not about sexual preference, this is about young women deciding one night they are going to lay the tongue smack down on some pussy and then continue to do it through college get married and never look back to the little brown eye.
But it is about sexual preferences. If a girl is bi-curious (or a guy, whichever), chances are great that they will at least try it, and some will like it and "go gay/les" whatever. I liked it well enough to go bi, (I still like a good cock, but some nice snatch is great)

If she doesn't like it, but continues to profess that she's "lesbian" or "bi", then that goes into some deeper mental or emotional issues there, and that's something that she will have to work out on her own or with help from a friend (especially if that friend is a shrink) or family.

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nope once again just fat chicks who can't get the cock anymore.
Tread lightly there: I'm a fat girl, and I get cock. Hell, I got married, and am losing weight AFTER the vows were exchanged.

I know many a slender "good-looking" girl who has "gone gay" or "bi". Don't lump all of us into one "fat" category.

tenaciousB 02-21-2003 11:56 AM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster
But it's not about women taking power, it's still about men wanting to get off sexualy over you performing, who cares if you do it out of sight from our view, guys still whack off over the idea that you may be going down on some chick.


I'm not talking about being content. I'm talking about relationships/sex/whatever that exisists outside the frame of a camera.
When I'm getting fucked by my butch girlfriend, I'm not fulfilling any man's fantasy and I don't really care. Content is one thing and reality another.
And I'll say it again, most lesbian content is not authentic to a true lesbian lifestyle. And there are bi-curious freakshows like Jerry Springer but when did anyone ever start holding up that kind of theater as reality?

eroswebmaster 02-21-2003 12:04 PM

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Originally posted by tenaciousB


And I'll say it again, most lesbian content is not authentic to a true lesbian lifestyle. And there are bi-curious freakshows like Jerry Springer but when did anyone ever start holding up that kind of theater as reality?

Most of these new "lesbians," women who claim to be "bi-curiouse" aren't authentic to a true lesiban lifestye...this is my whole point.

And whether you like it or not it's because of freak shows like Jerry Springer that it's making it even more acceptable for these people to claim they are "bi-curious" when they are just merely horny.

eroswebmaster 02-21-2003 12:07 PM

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Originally posted by tenaciousB

I'm not talking about being content. I'm talking about relationships/sex/whatever that exisists outside the frame of a camera.

I'm not talking about content either...I'm talking about guys who dig on girls who dig on both guys and girls.

We're dogs. We just wanna see something hot like a cute girl next door type slopping on some other cute girl next door type's pussy. We don't wanna see real lesbians going at it.

badmunchkin 02-21-2003 12:13 PM

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Originally posted by eroswebmaster
Then all of a sudden about 2 years ago she's "coming out of the closet," and is trying to tell me she never really liked guys, those pics on her wall were all show and she just thought they were cute.

No...she's just like all the other so called lesbians I've met since her revelation that got married had kids, and then divorced mainly because their husbands dumped them.

She's a dumpy fat white chick who can't get fucked anymore by a guy so now she's a "lesbian."

Way to be supportive of your sister there, buddy. What a loving guy...

eroswebmaster 02-21-2003 12:17 PM

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Originally posted by badmunchkin
Way to be supportive of your sister there, buddy. What a loving guy...
Riiiggghhhttt.

You see the hell she put my nieces through...

Meeting a woman online and moving in with her the next month...she turns out to be the dyke from hell.

The dyke from hell has another room mate living there who turns out to be a 2x loser who has been to prison on weapons charges and burglary and who might have molested my youngest niece.

I spent the last year of those 2 years of hell working with Texas Child Protective services who did nothing...spent thousands of dollars on a private investigator to find out some even uglier information.

Needless to say my nieces now live with me...so gofuckyourself before you judge me idiot.

Platinum Becky 02-21-2003 12:42 PM

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Originally posted by twinkley
I think just because a woman appreciates another womans beauty doesnt mean she is bi or lesbian....

I appreciate looking at beautiful women. I even occasionally appreciate more with them.... am I bi? No.... cause when it really comes down to it.... i loooove da cock :thumbsup

I think its just more acceptable for women to act out on their appreciation for each other and beauty than it is for men to...

Also, men are ingrained from the time they are small children not to appreciate the look of other men for fear of being gay.

twinkley


Well said Twinkley! I could'nt agree more.:thumbsup

Sarah_Jayne 02-21-2003 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MetaMan
i dont think girls are really full out bi.
from my expierience it has to do with them being curious,


I really love it when people tell me I don't exist. Yes, there are a lot of women who say they are bi curious, there are also a lot of women that will got through being part of a mff threeway just to please their partners. A lot of then will be happy to be gone down on but when push comes to shove wouldn't want to do it in return.

Yes, I agree for me personally that isn't the same level of bi that I am but who the heck is anyone else to tell them they aren't bi. I myself want to be with other women that are into the full experience of what is, yes, lesbian sex and trust me those 'fully bi' women do exist.

For me when I am with a woman it has nothing at all to do with wanting to show off to a man. It is about her pleasure and me getting off by giving her pleasure. Even when I am in a mixed gender threeway when I am with the woman it is about being with a woman, when I am with the man it is about being with the man or all of us shairing.

Also, how the heck does who you have oral sex with effect who you are in the rest of your life. What business is it of anyone else aswell. Sure, if you are a lesbian and you have kids at home they are going to find out but so you raise them to know that is just a lifestyle. They don't need to know what you do in bed. Afterall how many straight parents tell their kids they are into bdsm or anal sex..please.

Danny_C 02-21-2003 01:25 PM

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Originally posted by shawcutie
Danny, the real question here is, are you trying to tell us something??

:Graucho :Graucho

Maybe a little of both. :) Hey, I like lesbians, what can I say?

In all seriousness, I do agree with Twinkley. For the most part it's a matter of guys being conditioned to be homophobic. But I honestly do believe there's something in human nature that allows women to be more open to this kind of thing.

And consider that most guys I know have had threesomes... only once have I ever heard of two guys being involved, and in that one instance, the two guys never touched one another. Yet in every threesome involving two girls, the girls didn't hesitate to touch one another.

pink_in_the_middle 02-21-2003 01:28 PM

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Originally posted by Kanoealoha


Hehe, once I caught him staring at this chick in a grocery store...needless to say I wanted to push him right into her and be a bitch...but instead...I just stayed quiet and told him...you want go ahead...you will not find better than me fucka! hehe

LMAO :thumbsup
My slogan is "you can read the menu but you can't buy :winkwink:

LadyMischief 02-21-2003 01:31 PM

I don't exist either. I'm full out fucking bi, I love fucking men AND woman equally, but I enjoy different aspects of it. I've been bi for as long as I've been sexually active and I make no beef about it. I especially enjoy the gift of being a woman's first.. I think that's an especially sacred and super erotic experience. I believe that all women are curious, just as all men are (although they won't admit it). Doesn't make someone gay, straight, OR bi.... Just human. But then again I don't really think it matters either way as long you aren't hurting people and you're enjoying your life :)

nocostporn 02-21-2003 01:34 PM

just for the record,I think guys check out guys just not in the gay way... I know personally when I pass a dude I ask myself "am I better than him? DAMN RIGHT" LOL,maybe I'm just shallow though :(

I've done the study ,all the girls I know 3/4 said they have or they would be with another women... and the ones that haven't done it yet say it's because if they made a move and the other girl denied, it would be a fucked up situation...

pink_in_the_middle 02-21-2003 01:36 PM

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Originally posted by stocktrader23
I'd like to nominate this for thread of the year please.


And Pink, you don't need to wish you looked like anyone else!

awwwwwwwwww Thanks sweety :)
But thats just the way the world works :( We *us girls,some anyway* see all the mags,movies,internet etc... and we compare ourselves to those girls,even though we know it's all fake.

I walk and pass by this really cute chick with NICE abs I get jealous and wish I looked like that. I see some large chicks that walk around with tiny little belly tops and their pants almost at their knees with stretch marks hangin' all over the place,and wished I had the courage to do that. I mean I'm 100lbs with a few stretch marks on my lower tummy and won't even wear belly tops outside. But I'm fixin' that so it's all good
:thumbsup

But I can appreaciate a nice looking woman with np :)

Peaches 02-21-2003 01:38 PM

I can look at a pretty female and appreciate her beauty, but I have to say that I've never been sexually attracted to a female.
:( Even in my crazy, big drinking, drugging, crazy days, I never had the urge to be with a female, and in those times of "anything goes", if it was going to happen, it would have been then, lol!

I have lesbian/bi friends, and I love them dearly - but it's not sexual. They know that and we're friends - just like male friends that I have.

Even effeminate men turn men off. Give me a big guy with a bit of a beer gut and some hair on his chest, and I'm a happy camper :thumbsup

FetishTemptress 02-21-2003 02:51 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
well, I am bi. I don't check out every woman I know ..in fact I don't check most of them out at all. However, when someone that is my type is around, of course I do.

Also, I am not one of them that finds two men together repulsive. Sex is sex and hot sex it hot sex.

We should have a little get together! :Graucho

FT**


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