How can I stop drinking and maintain a social life?
 

drinking too much.. what you do in a bar/club if you don't drink? / where you go?

I go to church,Christian girls give the best head

go fishing or go to a sports game. get some b-12 and drink at least 8 glasses of water per day. stay busy "idle hands are the devil's playground"

Still go to popular bars, but drink pineapple juice instead of alcoholic drinks---some women might even admire that! Some might even ask you "why" pineapple juice, and you can respond that porn performers say that the actresses like the taste of the ejaculate of men who consume pineapple and/or pineapple juice; you might even get lucky with some women wanting to check out YOUR taste to them?!! AND, by not having been consuming alcohol, your erections might be much better than what the women have seen in other guys they've met in their past!

pretty good idea.

he could also not drink much. you don't have to lose control and get blasted. nothing wrong with sipping on a drink or two.

smart guy :pimp

Being in a bar sober must be horrible.

socialise outside of nightlife? find a hobby? go to the gym? start running?
many options

and anal ;)

Very Boring and aqword

There's tons of groups you can join..look up active group meetups, not all are physically-intensive..

Yeah and you start getting annoyed by the bar smell and lame pickup lines your friends use...:2 cents: :1orglaugh

Water looks like vodka or gin. When I would go on the wagon but wanted to hang in bars, I'd get a water with a twist of lemon or lime.

Yea, reduce your alcohol intake instead. Make every other drink something that looks like your regular drink but is alcohol free. Once you have a buzz maintain it but don't overdue it.

Vodka tonic, then just tonic.
Heineken, then rinse the bottle and fill with water.

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Drink ayahuasca.

You just can't.

+1

If you don't want to drink just don't go to bars..

More often these days I have been taking my car when I go out, I will have 2 beers over the course of a 5-6 hour night then just drink water with a lime wedge, most people won't know you're not drinking. A night out isn't dependent on alcohol to determine how good it is, it's about the company you keep.

Nonsense. It's about getting drunk.

Soda and lime does the trick. Sometimes I do this for caloric reasons.

just drink bottled water

no ones gonna ask

Word. Nothing worse than hanging out with drunk people when you're sober.

If I dont wanna drink...the last place I'm goin to is a bar or a club.

Not the most social drug.

" i cried and cried, i purged and purged (puked) loads and shit myself over and over !! ha, i was in a bloody hell of a state. All the time, again, pulling lots of faces, rolling around, poking my tongue out.. ... .."

http://www.ayahuasca-info.com/exp23/

not that bad. depends on your company

Get a gun, join a gun club, instant friends! Or you join a gym but that shit'll kill you.

bars and clubs should be only small percentage of ones life. Plenty of of other places where no drinking is usually involved.

I'd like to see you try and get away with that when you are back over here... :1orglaugh

I do diet coke or cranberry. I do for the diet part of it. I just can't keep slamming drinks and not add weight.

Yah I'll do that every now and then. Only when there's a good event and I have tons to do the next day.

but still there's something missing... its fun but I hate doin that

:2 cents::2 cents:

I did all that stuff posted by others. That's all a waste of time.

Just find better things to do with better people.

Go try to be an actor and get stuck in play rehearsal every night instead of drinking.
Pick up chicks who come to see the play.

Socialize elsewhere.

I usually just have diet coke and if somebody really cares that much what I am drinking I tell them coke and something like JD or Malibu and then they just assume I am drinking.

What the fuck kind of dumb question is this? Order a fucking coke and be done it.

I haven't had a drop to drink in five years. It's amusing to watch your friends when they are drinking. You quickly discover how stupid some of them get when drinking.

Stop drinking diet soda. You are better off to get drunk.

:2 cents:

Sorry, not possible :P

I drink water the majority of my life. I'll splurge to a diet coke at a bar and be okay with it.

Don't come to GFY for drinking advice...