I pwned my self legally ><
 

So I asked for full custody (we have shared today) over my daughter a little over a year ago because her mom isn't.. well being a mom to her.

And now because the case is ongoing in the courts, I can take her out of the country on vacation unless her mom agrees to the location, cause it'd be kidnapping otherwise. wtf.

:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

Time to kill the mom...

That solution is slowly creeping up the list. For sure would've been cheaper!

yes lets post your creeping up solutions on a public board.
ones she pulls up the porn card you are fuckED

Dude, this country liberated porn. That plays no part in things. But I could be wrong of course :)

And in case anyone is mentally retarded (like my ex) and reads all of this, I am ofc not going to kill anyone ;)

not the country liberated the porn. Larry Flynt did.
Maybe I am wrong, but as far as I know its true.

good luck to you. the system really is biased when it comes to custody.

In 1969, Denmark became the first country to abolish all censorship laws enabling pornography, including hardcore pornography.

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_film

Thanks man. And yea, it really is - but we have a high hope this time because she really is a fuck up. If we loose, it'll be the worst day in the rest of my daughters life, cause she's the one that'll continue to have a fucked up childhood.

Good luck hope you get it sorted

Thanks for the heads up! :pimp
I feel for you about the family issue, but hey, no matter how fucked up the mom or the situation is, the most important is to save your kid from suffering too much because of the whole mess. How old is she?

I am So Fucking Happy I have the most peaceful and nice fiancee Ever, she's the best mom ever and our family is so strong nothing like this can happen. I Loooove My Hippie Life!!!! :pimp :)

I see so many family issues in my environment, it is so sad.. Parents fighting like crazy, totally fucking up their children's lives.. Selfish adults :(

Thanks man.

She's 7 soon. And I agree, we (as in my fiancee and me) try to shield both kids as much as we can.

It used to be ok-ish, but then her mom blew a fuse in her head or something, I seriously don't know what happened. But according to the latest check, she's now mentally ill. So we've spend literally tens of thousands of dollars on this case as a last resort trying to get her to live with us more than 5 days every second week.

We had just promised the kids we'd all go on a vacation this year in a warm country, so we were about to book an all inclusive trip to Sharm El Sheikh when we figure it would be wise to call the lawyer. So I did and came here to vent the frustration heh. Well at least we can see the end of the case coming up. 2nd of July is the last court date. Then 2 weeks before the verdict.

Of course either side can appeal once.

Does the court take in to account where your daughter wants to be.

They might, but usually they have to be older.

Is she a pornstar?

Lol no dude

you can't just ask the mom?

I tried man, every time it's no. So I've sent her an e-mail asking her what countries we can go to.

I strongly argue you cant kidnap your own kids. Specially if your not a drug addict or a pedo. Its a BS Definition .

It goes both ways, she can't leave the country with our daughter either w.o. written consent from me, for as long as the trial is ongoing.

But yea, it's a BS law. But it's there. :disgust

sounds like its not worth the risk, even if you got the permission

I don't know if you have an org like this over there?...

http://www.fathers-4-justice.org/

They do mad things here for attention - Might be a resource for you.....

If I get it in writing, it's all good.

We do, but I hired my own lawyer who's an expert on the area, so we hope that we win. Even though it's a very uphill battle for a dad for sure. But I have to try, for my daughters sake.

A hit man is always cheaper in the long run, but you have to do it early in the proceedings . . . maybe before filing even.

/thread.....

I'd give anything to switch places with you. My situation with my baby mama and these racist California judges is crazy. At least you can spend 1-on-1 time with your kid.

:2 cents:

You do not know what you are talking about. :2 cents:

Prove it? It's a widely-known historical fact.

Then you should have no problem producing proof to back your claim.

I am sorry to hear that man :(

Nope. No problem at all:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Color_Climax_Corporation

Anything else you want to pretend you don't know about your own country?

No I was not aware that nasty shit had happened, I wasn't even born at the time. That is fucking sick.

Still has nothing to do with this thread and you are a fucking douche bag for even bringing something like this up :disgust

Fair enough. I assumed someone involved in porn in Denmark, spouting off about how Denmark "liberated porn", would be aware of the history of pornography in Denmark.

You're the one who brought it up, fucknut. It's not my fault that you didn't know what you're talking about.

Little known fact... Almost all women are a pain in the ass or will cause you some type of unnecessary grief

That same law prevents your wife from doing the same so you should appreciate it.

It SHOULD be biased.

Biased in favor of the children concerned and their best interests.

I have 50/50 right now. But am thinking the same thing you did. File for primary. The problem is I hate attorneys more then my ex, so is tough to justify paying an attorney again. Just have to wait...

They did liberate porn didn't they? Isn't that a widely known historical fact? You are referring to a company that crossed the line and violated the law. A law that was too loose and was then "fixed" later.

You were totally out of line by mis-quoting me for something involving CP. Not only is that illegal but should warrant an immediate and permanent ban from this place.

Right, it's everywhere like that.

Yea thanks, noticed that t was missing after the edit timer ran out lol.

Just how dumb are you? :Oh crap The point is they didn't violate the law because, as you keep pointing out, the porn censorship laws were completely erased in 1969. Not sure WTH is so hard for you to understand there.

For God's sake, stop acting so fake butthurt. You weren't responsible for abolishing the Danish porn censorship laws, so WTF do you care so much about me remarking upon it?

:1orglaugh It's illegal to do a "fixed that for you" on a forum, is it? :error

This from someone who "jokes" about murdering his kid's mom in order to gain custody of the kid.

Move the fuck on, you pathetic drama queen.

:thumbsup

All this and Carlsberg beer, what more can you ask for from a country?

I will never understand why so many of you guys share so much personal shit on here.

same law applies here in also