How many of you are married?
 

What are the benefits? Divorced guys and gals, feel free to chime in.

Someone is putting pressure on you? :)

Deeper commitment, sharing your life, ready for kids etc...

FFS make sure she's open minded. Take her to see "Don Jon", the movie and if she really GETS it. Marry her!

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the hunt is onnn

I am still single

Im not married but im living with my girlfriend, that count ?

Been there. Done that.
It's definitely not the same... :Oh crap

+1 Terminally Married

As with everything in life there are pluses and minuses to marriage, so I guess it depends on what you put into it, and what you want to get out of it... :2 cents:

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In my case, my wife is my best friend, and I can't imagine my life now without her. :)

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ADG

7 years here :(

20 years together, so much to learn and appreciate....not for everyone but definitely worth the search if you find her. I am not looking to change Anything in our journey:)

like that

why bother with marriage if you aren't christian? marriage is a holy matronomy if you are an athiest or any other believer besides christian you are a senseless idiot and yes it happens every day.

I've got 13 years in so far. Marriage #2. First one didn't make it past 3 years, so I figure I landed a good one this time around :)

Lost half my shit twice.

yeah not losing my assets to a bitch

I'm Catholic, so it all works out :)

:) Nice outlook :thumbsup

Married fifteen years. It's freaking awesome. Sex on demand.

20 years. best days

The OP edited the question.

I saw his original question and it was:

"I can't see how being married is not going to put in serious risk all your assets"...

So, the OP is worried about money above all.

Easy dude. If you are worried about your assets, just don't marry or just make some kind of pre-nuptial agreement.

Otherwise you can see what happened to great actors and talents like Robin Williams, Mel Gibson, just to name a few.

In our western society, DIVORCE is always going to benefit the female gender. Otherwise there is absolutely no logics of why Robin Williams or Mel Gibson lost dozens of millions of dollars they earned after working very hard for years and years...

Marriage ain't shit, its having kids that truly change your life.

That's when you find out if you picked the right girl or not.

I have some catching up to do, I only lost half my shit once. But then again, I am engaged :thumbsup

I've known my gf from grade 9 (14/15 years old).... we're 25 now and been living together for 5 - going on 6 years come next april.

Good news is that if she took half my shit, it's really fair since we both make good money.

been married 16 years currently separated 8 mos. i prefer marriage.

married once, never again.

Two daughters and a fiancee here.. We'll do the wedding thing just for the Ladies.. :) Not in a hurry though, we are engaged for years.. [3 soon]

i cunt a4d 2 be married... again...

Sometimes.

I'm in a relationship for 4 years, but i don't living with her yet! Maybe some day who knows we will do that!

Do your homework: http://www.marxists.org/archive/marx...origin-family/

7.5 years to my best friend in the whole world, and couldn't imagine life without her. 2 year ago we had a son and frankly my life is so full of contentment that to try to describe it would make you all want to puke from how corny it would sound.

I didn't get married until I was 43 though.... and I was ragingly single before that. I think that getting to my 40s unmarried, was key to really knowing what I wanted and what I was looking for in a partner for life. Looking back I know that if I had married any of the girls I was dating when I was younger it would have ended badly.....






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I agree 100%, nobody should get married until 40+, with lots of money and a total understanding of each other.

Good luck OP!

Rolling up on 15 years with the same woman. A woman I wouldn't trade for anything. She is my back bone.

As somebody else stated, find her. I slutted out to a hundred women until I found the first woman I wanted to leave my dick in when I came... not pull out. I know that sounds rude, but I have to keep it real to GFY. I honestly wanted her to accept my cum, and stink like it all day.

She looks hot when she goes out, but if somebody was to want to fuck her? She would reak like my 3-4 loads a day... best part? She loves it.

When everything is comfortable, perfect, no worries, and you want to create children? Like I want to create a child with this woman and share that closeness? That's when you know. It's a gut feeling that almost hurts, chokes you up.

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Exactly! been married 8 yrs and honestly don't know by JAN if I'll still be married

Maybe it's because you rock affiliate referral codes in your signature instead of making something happen.

We was dating over 5 years before the marriage, and marriage haven't changed anything at all.
I think what really make a huge change (and not defiantly for better) is - kids.

Been engaged for 7 years and happy. No plans on a wedding unless we make some big money. It is the last of our financial priorities. I'd rather go on vacation than get married. I don't need a paper to tell me it's official. We are happy, that's whats important!

you can be my second wife :1orglaugh no sex i will manage your hand modeling :pimp

This is almost identical to my current situation.

Been engaged for about 4 years now. I don't really care about weddings at all. Although i know that she wants to get married. Like you say, the expense is just ridiculous and simply something i can't really justify, just for a piece of paper to say we are now married. We are actually considering just to head to Vegas and get married there either next year or the year after. That would suit me fine.

My cousin was with her bf for 8 years, got married earlier this year with a huge wedding, and they separated only a few weeks ago. So it shows that marriage doesn't really mean shit when it comes to it... :2 cents:

was thinking about that with a girl we lived together for 4 years. At the same day I was choosing proposal rings, I came home and left her. As I understood there is no future with her. She changed a lot through these 4 years. To the bad side.

getting married to get laid more often is like burning your house to make toast...

QFT.

I have friends of mine who have been together for 7 years with no engagement. They're happy in every way and they have a very strong relationship.

Was wondering why i hadn't got my invitation yet.

Married 12 years. Best time of my life.

Guess I'm a senseless idiot since I do not believe in "god".

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Real talk. That made me all teary eyed.

Huh. Any of you happily married? :P

Happily married for 15 years (together for 18).

I must be another of those "senseless idiot" atheists you denigrate out of ignorance.

It may come as a surprise to you...but not everyone defines marriage strictly in the christian terms you do.

For starters - my wife and I weren't married in a church. We were married by a Supreme Court of Canada justice in the beautiful gardens of his home. Ours was a secular civil ceremony.

My wife and I view marriage as symbolic of our commitment not only to ourselves, but also our children.

Notions of christianity and religion weren't even a consideration.