Do Some Women Secretly Like Rape?
 

Like, would it be crazy to think that some women might actually get off on being taken without consent?

Ehm...:helpme Which part of "being taken without consent" did you not get?

No, I know what rape is but I was wondering. If say for example a thief burst into some divorcees home. The poor lady is sex starved and she liked dominant men.
Do some women enjoy the rape process but cry rape afterwards (cos it is?)

How would you like it?

http://gaysex.public-bound.com/wp-co...s-his-cock.jpg

yes tons of women love rape....

huge in the fetish world.... I Think they even made a law n order about it once...

A crash and burn thread if ever I saw one...

If I was gay and hungry for sex, maybe?

It can be a fantasy, not sure about actually making it true ...

of course some do. had girls want some crazy shit before

Of course it goes along with the strange attraction to "bad boys" however, they sexualize it in their heads, when in reality, rape is about control and abuse and most would find it very un-sexy to fear for their very lives while they are essentially being tortured with the potential outcome death.

A real rape is in no way or form the same as the fetish / role-play / fantasy of a rape.

i had a gf who had a rape fantasy

:2 cents:

You're a fucking idiot OP.

Why don't you go to prison, get raped, loosen up a bit, and learn to like it.

So do some women fantasize about being raped and if that fantasy became a reality they would hate it.

That makes little sense. I have fantasies about many things and whilst I don't anticipate many of them happening I do think I may actually enjoy some of them, although I may also feign disgust..

Touchy?

Look, I am not talking about every woman that gets raped likes it.

I am just asking the question, do some women that get raped like it?

This works both ways of course.

If a gay guy has a healthy sex life and he gets jail time. Everyone threatens him that he shouldn't drop the soap.. but he does.. Does said gay guy actually enjoy being butch bills bitch?

this. It can never actually be 'liked', because the victim doesn't actually want it. The whole dynamic of the rape fantasy isn't there whatsoever.

Some people fantasize about being taken by a big strong man - That is FAR from being rape...

Some men fantasize about rape - Men fantasize about overpowering women (or other man) and forced sex.....

By definition the victim can't 'like' rape...

But how does the offender know what the man or woman will like?

Most women have never experienced 'rape' before so have no idea if they like it or not. Of course most would hat it but is there a small percentage, 1%.. 0.1%... 0.001%.... 0.0001% that would actually get off on the experience?

Lots of women want to be raped for REAL (not just fantasy)

http://rapeboard.com

You could have saved this thread - Then you didn't - I am going to do something I have NEVER done before...

To answer it simply - YES.

To people saying that they can only like fantasy, but not actual thing. Might be, might be not.

Lets reverse roles. Some men definitely like when women take control and "rape" them. Talking about role play. Now can you 100% say that all of those men would NOT like if some woman tried to rape them for real? Without them knowing and preparing? I can not say that, I think some might like it.

So why is that absolutely different for women? Lets push aside that its a sensitive topic.

And what may that be?

Or lets take femdom niche. Some men like to be dominated/humiliated by women. Can you certainly say that they would not like it if some woman actually dominated/humiliated them without consent? I am pretty sure some would still like that.

I had a girl I was seeing many years ago who got off on me pretending to rape her. She always wanted me to choke her harder than I actually would. The rape thing didn't bother me. The fact she wanted to be choked out gave me the creeps. That being said it didn't last long and I think it was because I didn't abuse her enough in the bedroom.

Each to their own, that's just not my thing.

I know plenty of girls who have a rape fantasy. Does that mean they actually want a real rape to happen... No. Does that mean they would be open to setting up a situation where they can act out that fantasy... yes.

Here is your answer:

Have you ever experienced being run over by a train? 1 in a million people find it to be an incredibly enjoyable activity. You should try it - maybe you would be that 1.

Can I drive?..

some are not taking this the right way. Rape is very wrong and fucks up a lot of women for life but some women are also very fucked up already.
I dated a real sex addict and most think I was so lucky but sex was 24/7.
She would get mad if that pussy was not pleased 10+ times a day.
The shit she wanted and told me she did from her past was fucking nuts. She put herself in spots to get raped. There was a rapist in her apt building and she would masturbate in front of a sliding glass door and the guys would stand outside and watch. She was fucking smoking hot too.
I could be slamming that pussy and if I touched her throat it was like her pussy just had a gallon of lube poured on it.
I'm not going to get into it but this is a no brainer

I can not think of a single instance that I would enjoy being rapped. Not one. I think it would traumatizing to say the least.

BUT as a fantasy, I think that most woman would enjoy being "taken" by someone they trust. An unexpected encounter or grabbed as they walked by and pushed against a wall. But that is all fantasy and we know we are safe. I would never want anything more from a complete stranger. It would have to be a role play situation and talked about before hand then it could happen as a surprise and even though you don't know when it will happen, as soon as it does, you know WHO it is and that can be a turn on. But that is just me. I'd never want something like rape to actually happen, ever.

yeah but if you *want* it, it's no longer rape is it, because rape is against that person's will.

How are people not getting that simple fact, sensitive issue or not?

So it's about control? They just need to feel sure that if it gets to fucking much they can call stop and it will stop. If they were solo and they call stop the attacker would continue but because it's "fantasy" the girl will enjoy it until she considers it wrong and then calls stop?

No, she didn't - I cant believe I am reading this on GFY...

I dated a similar girl many years ago. She liked aggressive sex and we always had fun. One night she told me she wanted me to role play with her and pretend like I was raping her. I wasn't to into it, but I gave it a shot. She told me to hold her down and say nasty things to her. As things got heated up she encouraged me to be more and more aggressive and say meaner and nastier things to her.

I felt like such an ass doing it, but did it and she seemed to really get off on it. A few weeks later we had lunch with her mom. As we arrived her mom stood up, hugged us both and said to her daughter, "How is my sweet, innocent little love bug doing?" I almost started laughing.

ask your attorney ;)

True. Good episode, too.

What you want isn't always clear cut. Just because you want something doesn't mean the other person needs to know.

Just because a guy breaks into a 40 somethings home and decides to rape her doesn't mean that whilst the "damsel" may protest she doesn't actually relish the prospect of a sexual encounter.

You have to be kidding?..

I was going to put you on ignore - Now I think I should call the police - That's fucking scary dude...

then that isn't rape, is it... how am I having to keep repeating that lol.

Are you kidding!

You want to put me on ignore. Fuck it go ahead, I thought you were cool. All I was doing was asking a question, controversial yes but a question nonetheless. I got the idea from Crimewatch..

For the fucktards that cannot read I am not talking about every girl or guy I am talking about the small percentage that may find this enjoyable or a thrill

*some* women secretly like role play with people they know and trust...note that role play is not the same as rape, like acting out a murder is not the same as an actual murder...

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

That is valid point, but still. How do you define if you want it. Lets back to my example about femdom. Lets say you like when women kicks your balls and piss on you.
How do you know if you want it to happen without consent? Not like roleplaying but if that would happen in real life. You did not even think that it would be possible that actual woman would do that without her even knowing that you like that.
But lets say in some miracle world that would happen. maybe you would like that.
Does it mean that you "wanted" it?
If no than same thing might be valid for rape. If yes then its still what OP is asking about.

Or one more thing - you playing various role plays even can not know if you would want them to happen in real life without you knowing it. And only after it happens you would know if you enjoyed it or not.

Yes, It's rape. The woman likes it (secretly) and next day tells police she has been raped.

"Consensual non-consent" is the fetish term you're looking for, I think.

I am staggered you think that is OK...

I never said it was ok. I don't think.

It's a fucking debate, a question. A moral discussion. Some will agree, some will disagree.

I think OP's point is something like this:
Could it be possible that women would enjoy non consent rape.
Example: woman loves rape fantasy and enjoys role playing it. She does not "want" to get raped in reality. But if that happens could it possibly be that some of those women would enjoy it, like she would relive all those fantasies just with even "sharper" feelings because it is real.

I assume thats OP's question.

A girl I know told me she had that fantasy and asked if I wanted to try it. At her house safely, of course.. But I was like

That is NOT what you said or implicated -