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suesheboy 07-14-2014 03:40 PM

So after more than 8 years...
 
...of leaving most of my adult sites dormant I sat down to start updating my stuff to find:

More shut down or worthless programs than I can count.

Products I sold for years ($1,000 plus sex toys) no longer have affiliate programs because so many affiliates cheated)

Multi-tier affiliate programs (good ones too) took all the sales for themselves.

My best sex toys programs owner retired and sold his business to the least businesses like women whose web site doesn't work and wont return calls.

Can't wait to see what shit I will be dealing with when I go through all my porn sponsers....

Dead 07-14-2014 04:16 PM

Best of luck with the future Sueshe, the game has changed and the future.....well, we will see.

Dead AKA Asshole from the P City that once thrived.

_Richard_ 07-14-2014 04:24 PM

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suesheboy 07-14-2014 05:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dead (Post 20158380)
Dead AKA Asshole from the P City that once thrived.

Mainstream just blew adult out of the water for me and I am spending most of my time about 10 miles away form where you married your stunning wife.

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Dead 07-14-2014 06:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158437)
Mainstream just blew adult out of the water for me and I am spending most of my time about 10 miles away form where you married your stunning wife.

Time has away of passing,....glad you took the time to remember. Those mountains are my only place to visit in the winter month :thumbsup
Nothing but good on you Suesheboy, you have been a constant in this trade, will miss the post.
stay true and Kynd

mopek1 07-15-2014 04:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158437)
Mainstream just blew adult out of the water for me and I am spending most of my time about 10 miles away form where you married your stunning wife.

What types of things are you doing in mainstream?

8 years is a long time to leave anything dormant in the adult industry. I have to change sponsors after 6 months now-a-days and sometimes sooner. There are only a handful that are still around for me that were there since the start.

Barry-xlovecam 07-15-2014 05:21 AM

Sure it is not the competition?

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Tam 07-15-2014 05:25 AM

I never left it, but lost all of my sites and I know what you mean - I am almost thinking that losing them saved me a mountain of editing and I just started all over - it seemed almost the best route with far less headaches - the industry has definitely changed - for some things better, for some not so good - but changes all the same... good luck on your new adventures into a crazy ride ahead. ;)

suesheboy 07-15-2014 05:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mopek1 (Post 20158767)
What types of things are you doing in mainstream?

Was concentrating on a few key clients in travel and distribution and let my own branding sit on a shelf.

Now I am stepping up my own branding again under the travel niche as well as breathing life back into adult - even if it is just to flip it and walk away.

What shocks me is how some of the leaders in this industry took such steps backwards or destroyed what was a great business.

I always have looked at long term trust, growth and reliability. Seems like these ideas are now obsolete.

Thinking back to about 12 years ago sitting in a hotel room party with Dead, Crow, Watsonian, Adam, Bad Dog, and a bunch of other from Porn City, I had no idea how far things would change. Everything I was doing then is now gone or changed completely.

NewNick 07-15-2014 05:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158348)
...of leaving most of my adult sites dormant I sat down to start updating my stuff to find:

More shut down or worthless programs than I can count.

Products I sold for years ($1,000 plus sex toys) no longer have affiliate programs because so many affiliates cheated)

Multi-tier affiliate programs (good ones too) took all the sales for themselves.

My best sex toys programs owner retired and sold his business to the least businesses like women whose web site doesn't work and wont return calls.

Can't wait to see what shit I will be dealing with when I go through all my porn sponsers....

So you ignore a business for 8 years and you are surprised that things have changed ?

suesheboy 07-15-2014 05:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tam (Post 20158813)
I never left it, but lost all of my sites and I know what you mean - I am almost thinking that losing them saved me a mountain of editing and I just started all over

Yesterday I went in removed virtually all my links and most of my pages on most sites. As far as I am concerned I am re-researching everything and starting from scratch - a lot wiser and with far better skills.

suesheboy 07-15-2014 05:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barry-xlovecam (Post 20158807)

No question the mainstream effect of toys hurt. So did the massive influx of cheap knockoffs driving down prices on high end goods.

The sad part is the extremely innovative new products I was expecting to see blow up or be invented, so far never happened.

mopek1 07-15-2014 09:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158829)
Was concentrating on a few key clients in travel and distribution and let my own branding sit on a shelf.

Now I am stepping up my own branding again under the travel niche as well as breathing life back into adult - even if it is just to flip it and walk away.

What shocks me is how some of the leaders in this industry took such steps backwards or destroyed what was a great business.

I always have looked at long term trust, growth and reliability. Seems like these ideas are now obsolete.

Thinking back to about 12 years ago sitting in a hotel room party with Dead, Crow, Watsonian, Adam, Bad Dog, and a bunch of other from Porn City, I had no idea how far things would change. Everything I was doing then is now gone or changed completely.


Thanks for the reply. It's true that the industry went backwards and it is harder.

Good luck with your new adult sites.

suesheboy 07-15-2014 11:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barry-xlovecam (Post 20158807)

Review of this anal toy:


7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Buyer be aware!!!
Low rating was due to packaging. Buyer be aware, the wand was as described, but the problem was that the description was also written on the address label for all to read, including the postman. I had assumed that some discretion would have been used when sending this product through the US postal system. I would not buy from this seller again.

OMG :helpme

xXXtesy10 07-15-2014 11:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158839)
No question the mainstream effect of toys hurt. So did the massive influx of cheap knockoffs driving down prices on high end goods.

The sad part is the extremely innovative new products I was expecting to see blow up or be invented, so far never happened.

Thought the FSC put a stop to this with their best practices seal :1orglaugh

Orgasmics 07-16-2014 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158829)
Thinking back to about 12 years ago sitting in a hotel room party with Dead, Crow, Watsonian, Adam, Bad Dog, and a bunch of other from Porn City, I had no idea how far things would change. Everything I was doing then is now gone or changed completely.

I miss those days!

Great to see you sueshe!! :thumbsup

mineistaken 07-16-2014 12:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158829)
What shocks me is how some of the leaders in this industry took such steps backwards or destroyed what was a great business.

Indeed. Few scumbags decided it is great idea to give away the product for free.
So that they could benefit they had to destroy all pay for porn model.
Fucking scum.

CourtneyR 07-16-2014 12:29 PM

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atom 07-16-2014 12:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158829)
Thinking back to about 12 years ago sitting in a hotel room party with Dead, Crow, Watsonian, Adam, Bad Dog, and a bunch of other from Porn City, I had no idea how far things would change. Everything I was doing then is now gone or changed completely.

I often wonder what happened to wats and crow.

Good to hear you are making a go at it again. My Skype is in my sig if you ever need anything. Personal or business.

~Ray 07-16-2014 01:42 PM

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dicknipples 07-16-2014 02:31 PM

Mainstream is definitely a lot better than the adult industry these days.

Dead 07-16-2014 02:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by atom (Post 20160532)
I often wonder what happened to wats and crow.

Good to hear you are making a go at it again. My Skype is in my sig if you ever need anything. Personal or business.

Surprised you have not heard from them, we wonder here as well. Knowing who I met, i am certain they are both living the good life! Crow has probably finished his plans for world domination! Hurry up Crow, we need a new leader.....:winkwink:

The Porn Nerd 07-16-2014 03:29 PM

So 'mainstream' can mean anything that is non-porn, right?

GAMEFINEST 07-16-2014 03:39 PM

Shit has changed for the worse, I mostly focused on mainstream and a very few adult sites that generate good traffic/sales.


good luck pimp!

Tam 07-16-2014 04:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suesheboy (Post 20158833)
Yesterday I went in removed virtually all my links and most of my pages on most sites. As far as I am concerned I am re-researching everything and starting from scratch - a lot wiser and with far better skills.

I've done that a couple of times - I go back and look at some of the things I put up when I first started and I can't believe I was ever able to do anything, much less make a dime from it. lol


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