My Best Friend Just Died - For Some Reason This Seemed A Good Place To Vent
 

I just got the call - Not sure what to do next - Fuck...

Sorry, not your problem - Shit.....

Sorry...

I'm sorry for your loss.

I suggest you spend the time away from GFY though. Maybe go for a walk.

100% - Sorry - My mum is on her way...

sad to hear :(

Sorry for your loss man.

Yep, sozz to hear that - Positive thoughts being sent n stuff :)

When my best friend died I got drunk for about a week. It hurt but it helped. We also had a wake for him that eased the pain somewhat. He was 48 when he died. Sorry for your loss.

Sorry for your loss buddy.

sorry for your loss.
If you can spend time with his/her parents :2 cents:. They need you now

Watched a relative die a couple of weeks ago, definitely a wake up call

Best wishes!

Does start making you go off in a dark path. Tread lightly.

I think gfy and forums are a healthy avenue after something like this.. Nice to keep your thoughts shallow.

Eddy good luck! Vent away, that's what this place is here for.

:disgust:disgust:disgust:disgust:disgust

Thanks everyone - You are good guys - I promise not to tell anyone...

Sorry for your loss Eddy. My condolences to you and your family.

Had this a couple of times in the last 18 months... best thing I did was remind myself that the loss was on those left behind, and the mates who had died would be fine wherever they were, or weren't. That helped me not 'feel sorry for myself' (not quite the correct term I know, but closest I could verbalise it) and thus while I was obviously going to miss them, and it was a downer rather than an upper - I was able to deal with both deaths pretty well, with a very quick grieving stage.

Everyone is different of course, so hope you aren't in emotional pain for too long, or if you are then at least don't suffer too much from it :thumbsup

Oh and just to add the obvious, that isn't always so obvious when you are in it: never beat yourself up for any pain you are ever in, it's perfectly natural and needs to be experienced as part of the process of whatever the process is.

I'll come out of posting retirement for a hug. I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I am glad that your mom is near enough to come around.

Sorry to hear it bloke. Steer clear of the booze, not going to help you at all.

My condolences for your loss, Eddy.

Take the time to celebrate their life and your friendship.

OMG - Big virtual hugs Sarah - So good to see you here today of all days...

Now go to the shower and feel your boobs - I'm serious - If you don't I will come over and feel them for you - 3 people in 5 years lost.....

Where are you? - I am in Spain but can be in London any time - You are welcome any time - 32c here today...

Wise words - Thanks Jel...

I'm in LA ..very much wish I was in London as I homesick pretty much everyday but I do like it here if it wasn't for that.

I feel for you. My (soon to be) sister in law lost her cancer battle two weeks ago. Even though it had been a year of her going through every possible treatment it was still wasn't something we had braced ourselves for properly.

I'm getting married on the 20th. Which is a good thing but chaos.

My condolences for your loss :(

Sorry to hear that man.....

Sorry for your loss.

From all your posts I would never have figured you actually had a best friend. Stay strong.

sorry for your loss, losing someone always sucks :(

Hang in there buddy.

Remember that we are all on a journey and your friend would certainly want you to continue to enjoy yours.

You will always have your memories of the times you shared.

sorry man. last week my good friends mom hung herself. sad

Sorry to hear that. Keep your chin up and keep on keeping on!

Sorry Eddy.

One word.... Yngwie

Sorry for your loss.

My best friend has been on his death bed pretty much since I've known him, twenty years now. He's had 18 close calls. I saw him last week, still doing everything he could do to ensure he dies soon including smoking those damn cancer sticks. I've been bracing myself for the call for years now.

~hugs~

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Sorry to hear that. Eddy-san. You'll meet them again and love and laugh.

It's very sad :( be strong dude!

Very sorry to hear about that.

:(

really sorry to hear eddy :(

Sorry for your loss

Got anything on your to do list before your time is up? Go do it with your friend in mind.

Give it a rest you idiot - Do you want pics from the funeral?..

Thanks everyone else.....

Sorry for your loss

Not a bad idea.... send it to [email protected]

Do you need to see the open casket with a GFY sign on the body? - After all it could be any old funeral...

Fucking asshole.....

You deside.

My condolences for your loss.:(

My condolences for your loss.
go spend some time with his family.

Sorry for your loss..